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  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    I love Chasing Pavements!! Good lyrics.

    Yes Anna, I was referring to you. It's not just the sex part (but it does come to mind). It's also wondering if too many Bfs will make me pessimistic in the long run that I don't have a problem getting a bf but moreso keeping one. Still, I'm nowhere near that point so no point in thinking that far ahead.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I love Chasing Pavements!! Good lyrics.

    Yes Anna, I was referring to you. It's not just the sex part (but it does come to mind). It's also wondering if too many Bfs will make me pessimistic in the long run that I don't have a problem getting a bf but moreso keeping one. Still, I'm nowhere near that point so no point in thinking that far ahead.

    Well, I'm 48 and lost count of my short term relationships now BUT I still have great optimism that I'll find the 'keeper' some day!! :bigsmile: Or I'll die trying :laugh:
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    I think it was Annie who consoled me after my last break up by saying she had many 2-3 month relationships that didn't go any further.

    Is this 'Annie' bird, me?? :laugh:

    Yeah, I said that. I've had loads of 2-3 months relationships over the last 10 years!!! And a few more longer one's - 6mths to 1year.

    Sometimes I get despondent that I'm not finding the 'keeper', and sometimes I enjoy meeting new people and just living in the moment. Since my last internet 'freak zone' disasters, I've taken a break this year from even trying. Apart from if I 'hook' up with ex lovers! :bigsmile:

    Anyway, some people find the 'one' straight away, and others (like me) don't! You never know if the Hulk will be him. Why worry about it?? 2 b/f's or 8 b/fs in a year., Does it really matter?? Nobody is counting. Or would you rather settle on someONE, get married and be divorced again in 10 years, just so as you can justify having sex with only one person?? I guess its the sex part that you're feeling guilty about??

    IMHO Life is way too short to worry about how many sexual partners you have in life. That's one regret I won't have on my death bed :wink: :flowerforyou: I believe if God didnt want us to have sex, he wouldnt have made it feel so nice!!! :bigsmile:

    But sorry if I've digressed up the wrong tree........ :wink:

    I agree with my auntie!

    I think I'm in the same spot as you, girl. Even though I've been with Steve for about 4.5 months now, I'm uncertain about the seriousness of our relationship. Even though we have plans for November, and we've talked about staying together and doing a long distance relationship when he leaves in December, he still hasn't opened up to me that much emotionally. I've said I love you (and I do :blushing: ) and he hasn't said it yet, but that's okay. He's such a good soul, so kind, and fun to be around, so even if we're trudging along slowly in the emotional department that's okay. I know he plans on being with me, and I know I love him, and that's good enough for me. Right now I'm just trying to spend time with him whenever I can since I know we will eventually take the leap to long distance.. :sad:

    But then again, I know that if we did break up, I would be very sad for awhile but I would probably move on and be dating again within a few months. *shrugs*
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