Hormones
jamie31
Posts: 568 Member
OK so i really hope this is not just me who is suffering from this. Are any of you experiencing almost a scary hormonne change. And by scary i mean almost violent???
My brother in laws ( ok so me and my bf are not married but i basically consider his family to be my in laws )girlfriend from the beginnig has always sparked a certain dislike in me but i have noticed that the furhter along in my pregnancy i get the more i kinda just want to kick her *kitten*!!!!
There are many factors to this, 1) she destroyed my bathroom while drunk 2) beat my brother in law up 3) has told him they are going to get pregnant whether he wants it or not 4) is constantly flirting with my boyfriend.
Now bellieve me i think my brother in law needs to grow a pair and stand up for himself, but thats really another issue. My concern is the hatred i have. I am not normally a person who hates, i dislike ppl but dont really hate. Well with her its this deep hatred, kinda like i want to kick her *kitten* anytime i hear she has done something or said something. Anyone else get this almost violent rage because of the pregnancy hormones??? I will NOT act on this urge to kick her *kitten*, i have a baby to protect so please dont be concerned about that. i just gotta know that some of you other girls get like this before i start to think i need anger management or something. lol
My brother in laws ( ok so me and my bf are not married but i basically consider his family to be my in laws )girlfriend from the beginnig has always sparked a certain dislike in me but i have noticed that the furhter along in my pregnancy i get the more i kinda just want to kick her *kitten*!!!!
There are many factors to this, 1) she destroyed my bathroom while drunk 2) beat my brother in law up 3) has told him they are going to get pregnant whether he wants it or not 4) is constantly flirting with my boyfriend.
Now bellieve me i think my brother in law needs to grow a pair and stand up for himself, but thats really another issue. My concern is the hatred i have. I am not normally a person who hates, i dislike ppl but dont really hate. Well with her its this deep hatred, kinda like i want to kick her *kitten* anytime i hear she has done something or said something. Anyone else get this almost violent rage because of the pregnancy hormones??? I will NOT act on this urge to kick her *kitten*, i have a baby to protect so please dont be concerned about that. i just gotta know that some of you other girls get like this before i start to think i need anger management or something. lol
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I don't know about you, but the exhaustion, stress and hormones of being pregnant have me on a short fuse. I would try to stay away from her as much as you can. After your baby gets here you will have other things to focus on.0
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I am with you on that for sure... I actually have had to distant myself from my entire family being cause my anger towards them all and Dr. said it was a great deal of why my BP was Crazy, Cause the stress.... But Yea totally girl you are not a lone on that one.. It May be safe for them after I have MadiLynn ;0)0
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i have noticed that my fuse is terribly short too. i noticed it in my last pregnancy too. i did buy and read an anger management book just a few weeks ago! :flowerforyou: it helped. i 2nd cmaxmor- stay away from her the best you can and try to forget about it. it not worth you spending anymore time or energy getting upset over something/ someone's actions that you cant change. i agree you've got vaild reasons to be pissed at her but you have to make the choice as to how much you are going to let it affect you. let it go if you can.0
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sounds like if you read up or attend a class for anger management you should pass it on to her
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Thanks girls. Glad to know im not the only with with and extremely short fuse!0
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I've always been a basketcase and cry pretty easy but I've noticed that I do have s short fuse and I'll get extremely irritable then I will just start bawling!!!!!!!! When we went to see my sis last week my husband and I were laying in bed it was the night before we left to come home and he was tickling me and I was laughing so hard then I just stopped laughing and started crying like a little baby!!!! My hubs looked at me like I was crazy! Bahahaha I felt so dumb but couldn't help it. He comforted me so that made it better lol oh and I only see my sis and niece about twice s year now and it's extremely hard on me, she's my bff! That's why it's so hard to leave bc they live so far!0
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