Let it be. Just enjoy it and see what happens when you see each other again. If it is not uncomfortable for you then just see what happens when you are around each other. Guys scare easily. lol

*sigh* OK...

lol, this is what I have been doing. But I know myself, and I know I'll reach a point where I can't take it any more and say something to him and scare him. Whatevs. I'll just let it happen.

If you wait and wait until you burst -that- is what is going to scare him because then it'll be completely out of the blue and probably disorganized and ranty.

At least from my experience.

Try saying something like "So what do you think about what happened the other night "

I don't agree with this either, it's vague. You're fishing for details instead of just being straight up.

Be honest, be open and be calm. "I was thinking about XYZ night. I really enjoyed what happened and it's made me wonder if there could be more to us than just friends. Do you want to keep going with what we've got now or did you want to give things a shot?"

I would say something like, "So....the other night was fun, what was that all about? It kind of has me rethinking the whole 'let's just be friends' thing. Still think there isn't a spark?"

But there always seems to be something that happens when you break up with somebody. It's like you realize you might never see that person again and you want to "say goodbye" if you know what I mean. Also it removes any expectations and stress caused by trying to date someone you're attracted to but just not sure about, so then you're more relaxed and the sex is just mind blowing.

I said something.

Apparently I'm the only one that feels like that wasn't something you do with no sparks *sigh* I guess I'm glad we are friends.

I'm sorry to hear that. Please don't torture yourself with this "friend." Find others.

I said something.

Apparently I'm the only one that feels like that wasn't something you do with no sparks *sigh* I guess I'm glad we are friends.

Thanks for the advise.

Cool, at least you know :flowerforyou:

I think men find it easier to detach themselves sexually. It's one of those things I will never understand as long as I live! But I accept that its the case.

Good luck with finding the mutual spark!! :bigsmile:

I said something.

Apparently I'm the only one that feels like that wasn't something you do with no sparks *sigh* I guess I'm glad we are friends.

Thanks for the advise.

Yup, now you know, sorry it wasn't the response you wanted... But hey, it usually doesn't work out that a guy does all the work without expecting much in return, so at least you had fun :laugh:

Yep! I agree with you there PJ!! :laugh: