I guess I just don't understand out communities need to point out what are sexual identity is and then make it public knowledge. Just be a strong, positive, individual that runs a fiercely successful fitness empire. Isn't that enough? Why does the world need to know what she does sexually? That is what it boils down to.

You still don't know what she does sexually...she didn't tell you, its none of your business. But a person's gender and affectional orientation is part of one's whole life...every day. Being a lesbian colors my whole view of the world, and its view of me. That's why it matters.