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Danielle_2013
Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
edited January 8 in Social Groups
Thank you to everyone who has expressed sympathy for me in this recent breakup and who

a. has and is still putting up with my morose and mournful posting
b. does not judge that it is going to continue for a while because I can't share this on Facebook or in real life

I sincerely do appreciate it.
I WISH I could be more angry or bitter...but I simply can't trash him as I'm not even necessarily sure this is 100% over.
Fact is.. I still love him. :cry:

But I know it will get easier every day. To be honest I've never felt this way before afterwards. But I do hope it improves soon!

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  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Awwww I feel ya honey. I hope he sorts himself out soon and gets back to you :flowerforyou:
  • MikeM53082
    MikeM53082 Posts: 1,199 Member
    We're all here for you. :flowerforyou:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    We are all here for you! I hope he figures himself out soon because you are a good person who deserves to be happy!
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
    So sorry you're going through this! :flowerforyou:
  • baraccus
    baraccus Posts: 85 Member
    *Hug* Keep your chin up darlin, it'll work out alright. You are a complete sweetheart and deserve to be happy!
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    So what you're saying is that you are single. How you doing? :blushing:

    Seriously, sorry to hear you're so bummed. I hope you feel better soon.
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    I think you're doing really, really well!

    Hope you feel better soon! :flowerforyou:
  • 4themoney
    4themoney Posts: 797 Member
    THIS

    and hugs!!!!!
    I think you're doing really, really well!

    Hope you feel better soon! :flowerforyou:
  • kristen6022
    kristen6022 Posts: 1,923 Member
    We are all here for you and we've more than likely been there - it sucks big time. Anything you need to mope about, we promise not to even mention it!
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I'm sorry SB, I hope the pain stops soon. *cuddle*
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    As everyone's said, we are here for you.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    You are doing wonderful and we are all yours. :)) :flowerforyou:
  • kerrymh
    kerrymh Posts: 912 Member
    Hey you feel how you feel and thats a good thing I think..Sometimes we become so jaded in out singlehood that its hard to really relax and trust and fall for someone..Who knows what will happen in the future but hugs for today!
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Awww, so sorry SB! :flowerforyou:
  • browneyedgirl7928
    browneyedgirl7928 Posts: 910 Member
    Hugs to you. Hope the pain lets up soon.
  • Shotgun_Sinner
    Shotgun_Sinner Posts: 57
    I know the feeling of wanting to hate them, but instead just loving them too much.

    Don't worry, we're all here to listen and help
  • Jennifer2387
    Jennifer2387 Posts: 957 Member
    Silly girl .. its only been a few days! Of course you are still heart broken! :heart:

    Rant, rave and cry all you want!!!!
  • disneywm76
    disneywm76 Posts: 573 Member
    Hey you feel how you feel and thats a good thing I think..Sometimes we become so jaded in out singlehood that its hard to really relax and trust and fall for someone..Who knows what will happen in the future but hugs for today!

    Very much, this. I know it's tough right now but you gave it your all. When it doesn't work out it hurts that much worse, but you opened yourself up to the possibility and that's a great thing. Big hugs and we're all here for you!! :flowerforyou:
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    Silly girl .. its only been a few days! Of course you are still heart broken! :heart:

    Rant, rave and cry all you want!!!!

    I agree. Do what you neeed to do to get him out of your system.
  • afv417
    afv417 Posts: 466 Member
    I'm so sorry :( HUGS to you.

    Let it alllll out!
  • castadiva
    castadiva Posts: 2,016 Member
    Sending huge cyber-hugs and virtual (calorie-free!) icecream and chocolate (or your favourite foodie indulgences.). Look after yourself, and if you need an ear, we're all here to listen. :flowerforyou:
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    I hope the pain eases for you soon, and he is able to figure out whatever he needs to figure out.. It will work out the way it is supposed to....that may cause pain now, but it will be for the best.

    Virtual hugs to you!!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    B!tch moan and get angry...Then put it all in the workout .You'll feel less stressed. However should you feel the need to go crazy all over single peeps know that we will listen and commiserate nd then try to cheer you up
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    I am sorry to hear ........... but you know we in this group are all wonderful support (even when we bicker like family) but we want nothing but happiness and joy for each of us.

    So right now you are going through a tough time, we got your back. We are here. HUGE HUGS and :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    *hug* It's the five stages sweetie. There will be some singing back and forth and it'll be a while before you hit acceptance. Maybe you should separate completely - unfriend him, delete his number, whatever it takes. You need space to recover :(
  • farmers_daughter
    farmers_daughter Posts: 1,632 Member
    I do not know the details nor do I need to know but these have helped me

    1. Do not hold onto something you don't have any control over

    2. If you determine that what is broken, cannot be fixed, allow yourself time to greive and mourn him.

    Specifically take an hour or so, and cry your eyes out, play sad music, whatever gets you to "feel" but at the end of your time that you set aside wipe your face, fix your makeup and keep going. Trying to deny that you are greiving his loss will make you bitter and angry inside. You are too pretty to be bitter or angry. He really meant something to you.
  • cinsuccess
    cinsuccess Posts: 333 Member
    You deal with this however you need to and shouldn't feel bad. It's hard. We've all been there at some point. I've always tried to let go of things out of my control but it's easier said than done when your feelings are involved. Allow yourself to feel ... things will resolve themselves one way or the other over time. In the interim, know that we're all here to provide support and a sympathetic ear if you need to vent.
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