You both know each other and want to go on the date so that's a great sign already! My only tip is to be yourself. Forcing conversation is much harder than it seems.

The best dates are the one's that just flow :bigsmile:

But hey, there's no harm in preparing yourself for the nervous moments. Write a list of questions out on a bit of paper and and run the the gents to read it during a silent moment!!

I used to do that for phone calls. It's just a prompter so you dont forget all the lovely questions and topics of convo you'd like to ask to get to know her.

Other than that, the main thing is ask questions to show you're interested in her, and her life. But also, chat about yourself so she can get to know you too.

Create good body language - eye contact, smiles, touch her arm/small of her back.

Offer to buy the first drink as soon as you get to the bar.

Focus on her all night. Don't look at other women!!!!

Kiss her (although some women on here have said they dont like this :huh:

Arrange the next date :bigsmile:

Good luck :flowerforyou:

I listen to radio shows a lot before dates to get interesting topics queued in my mind for reference later. It helps if there's a lull to bring up something like "Oh, I heard this situation, what do you think?"

That is smart!

Kiss her (although some women on here have said they dont like this

Haha, well I think you can just go with the flow. If you're sitting close and you feel good body chemistry, and she doesn't seem shy or nervous to touch you, or even brush hands or whatever, go for it. But if you sense she needs body space, isn't touchy-feely, don't go for it.

Other than that, the main thing is ask questions to show you're interested in her, and her life. But also, chat about yourself so she can get to know you too.

Good point. Don't let it be "me me me" but not "you you you" either. Should be a good mix.

I say current events but not anything too heavy is a good topic, also sports, summer plans, the bar/restaurant itself.

^ That sounds like a lot of fun!! Good luck!

When in doubt, grab her boobs, so you can at least say you got to second base.

Yes, if all else fails, just ask her if she wants to go make out. She will either say yes, laugh, or be offended. If she is offended I would probably just say it's been fun and you need to get going.

How did it go?????????????

And to anyone curious, to say it went well would be a huge understatement

I totally psyched it up way too much, at least when I first started this thread. Chatting a bunch mid week before the date I think really helped. Never really had trouble talking and once she took my hand as we were walking to the golf place its like we clicked instantly. We hung out most of Sunday too

Did you guys get breakfast together IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?