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redrose129
redrose129 Posts: 57 Member
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I ran into the woman who, due to my strong infatuation, helped me realize my love for women, today. She is still as beautiful as the most precious day.....wow ;} Do any of you remember the woman/man who made your orientation obvious?

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  • Saratini76
    Saratini76 Posts: 115 Member
    I remember mine. I had the strongest crush on her in high school, and I always was weirded out by it. She always smelled like cinnamon oil. We were never in a relationship, but when she moved away, my heart ached like it never did before! I guess this cemented my sexuality quite a bit. I think a part of me will always love her!
  • redrose129
    redrose129 Posts: 57 Member
    ty Saratini, I totally understand ;) Imagine how I felt when I saw her. I was shocked and excited. I haven't seen her in almost two years! She gave me some inspirational words towards my weight loss journey and we talked for 15 min. It was nice. She never knew how I felt about her so I just chuckled to myself after we parted ;)
  • Saratini76
    Saratini76 Posts: 115 Member
    LOL. Straight girl crushes are the worst, aren't they? I've had my share, and where I live, it's hard to tell sexuality because in the "bible belt" no one is that openly "out". My partner and I are, but we do receive our share of odd looks and questioning scowls. This happens more at my daughter's school functions than anything!
  • Saratini76
    Saratini76 Posts: 115 Member
    (P.S. @redrose I adore your ticker! It's so cute!)
  • JTS_go
    JTS_go Posts: 65 Member
    Not only do I remember her, I remember the conversation we had. We'd met at a college party and left to go get Krystal food.
    Her: I'd like to get to know you better.
    Me: Sure. [Interior voice: I thought that's what we were doing now.]
    Her: No, I'd like to <b>get to know you better</b>.
    Me: Um. Okay.
    Her: J, I'm a lesbian. I'd like to GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER.
    ME: Oh! I'm not. [pause pause pause] Yet.
  • JTS_go
    JTS_go Posts: 65 Member
    Oh, and I saw her at a Pride festival about five years ago, which would have been 20+ years post-college.
  • redrose129
    redrose129 Posts: 57 Member
    @ saratini....tee hee at my ticker ...what can I say. I used to have that patch on my derby skirt.

    my lady crush was a soft butch lesbian.....omg. i wrote a poem about her I couldnt DARE post.... I had it bad. I was friends with both her and her beauiful girlfriend....so I never persued anything...I just left it alone....but man, I swear....she is bad!! lol!!

    at JTS......wow...that cono was cute. it's so hard to tell when women are being nice or coming on to ou...its so frustrating, lol. unless you meet them at some kind of lgbtq event....

    did you go up to her at Pride.....a reconnection can't be all that bad.......lol (putting back on my halo) 0:)
  • JTS_go
    JTS_go Posts: 65 Member
    Yes, we did talk at that Pride. It was fun to see her but we didn't have much in common anymore. I didn't have the massive crush on her that you did with yours. She was just sort of my "gateway" woman back in the day. Heh.

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