Preach................i love my girl. She used to be small. Not super small but you know you could see the hips etc. A lot of life things happened so it's been hard. She's not a fitness freak like I am. She supports my fitness but I wish she would work out too both for her mental and physical health. I feed her basically so she eats fairly healthy.....but when i'm not there.... she eats crap. She also eats my post - workout meals which are obviously not the healthy meals.

I wish i could get her to exercise but she's sassy and stubborn. She used to run but doesnt like to anymore

I think the best thing you can do is support her, love her up and be an excellent role model for her and your family. As you probably know, we are on this journey for ourselves and we can't really do it for anyone else.

I don't know if it should bother you. Couples don't agree on everything. If it does bother you, though, try to get her interested. Lead by example. Show her how happy it makes you or tell her. Just don't harp and turn it into something negative or she might start to think you don't like the way she looks. Just be supportive and ask for her support in turn.