i love femmes. super sexy latina femmes. thats my weakness. but yeah last night i went out with some friends and i didnt really like the butch on butch action i saw. but i didnt think too much more about it. i said YAY more femmes for me. Although, my heart is already taken. And that is how I like it. <<<< Love this woman. So much.

I like the butch/stud kind of look but when I see 2 together it's just that much hotter lol. My partner is I guess more of a soft butch and she considers me femme (I think?) but I really fall somewhere in between in my mind. I do not relate at all to femmes, but I'm not butch either. We do what we want I think everyone should be with whoever they want- whether it's two butch chicks, two femmes, w/e. Everyone likes what they like

While other stud/butches are hot, I always have a weak spot for femmes.

I love my femmes. I guess i'm a Soft Butch? Honestly I view myself as a gay/metro man in all honesty. I do like it when we switch though. i'll wear a dress and she'll go more butch. Idk it's just more confusing I guess but again whatever floats your boat! But let's all be honest here............2 femmes are extremely attractive.

Where are you? I've been seeing a lot of stud and stud action too. Hell i've seen two girls on my rugby team get together. Confused the crap out of me. Good for them though. Come to the east coast though.......there are not enough femmes on the east coast. (north east)

Considering moving back to the northeast to help with the femme shortage... I had no idea!

Whatever floats your boat I guess But I have noticed the same thing.

I feel the same way. If it makes you happy, go for it. I went to an all women's college and it was pretty much a mix of both. People just falling for people no matter what their gender expression/ identity. That's the way I like it.

i LOVE femmes. Mexican. please.

ME TOO!

That's just as annoying as someone saying "Women don't like men anymore?"

The over generalization and stereotyping other people based on their appearances is so played out.

So guess what guys: I am a masculine woman, my girlfriend is feminine and I prefer masculine women over feminine women. That doesn't change the dynamic of our relationship, nor does it affect how much in love I am with her.

It's not about "studs not liking femmes anymore", its about masculine women allowing themselves to be comfortable enough in their own sexuality, as undefined by the popular opinion of society, to love and have sexual relations with people of their own individual preference.

Bottom line is, WE'RE ALL GAY. We are all women that love women. And just because a woman is feminine doesn't mean she can't wear the strap. And just because a woman is masculine doesn't mean she has given up her rights to enjoy being vaginally penetrated.

This shouldn't even have to be explained. I'm just sick of seeing/hearing these kinds of comments because really, who are we to judge another lesbian's sexuality when we have the ENTIRE HETEROSEXUAL WORLD judging all of us at once?

Live and let live. *kitten* and let *kitten*.

[Fin.]