Since I've been married over a year now & have a 2 week old, I think it may be time for me to leave the group...However, I wanted to leave off with some advice. The most important thing is that you focus on your upcoming future as man and wife. Getting in shape is great, but don't get frustrated if you don't reach your goal before the wedding. Keep working towards it b/c staying healthy is important. We are all beautiful brides.