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divainsneakers
divainsneakers Posts: 397 Member
edited February 11 in Social Groups
This is a tough one. I just started dating again after a long break. I admit that I have a strong personality, but I was told by one guy that I was "scary." Assertive "yes," but "scary" -- no.

How does one successfully date as a strong woman and a feminist?

I found this article and I think it suits me to a T: http://www.xojane.com/sex/5-reasons-guys-should-stop-being-afraid-to-date-my-strong-personality

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  • jessiekanga
    jessiekanga Posts: 564 Member
    Oh my, this is so tough, and I'm afraid I just don't know. All I know is that I hope you can, while keeping all that is feisty about you. I am gay, and while being assertive can still be intimidating, it can also be attractive, and I think that for my wife and I, it's part of how we fell for each other. I hope you are blessed enough to find someone who treasures that in you. You are enough.
  • divainsneakers
    divainsneakers Posts: 397 Member
    Dear JessieKanga-

    Thanks for such a thoughtful response. It was really kind and appreciated.
  • AnarchistFitness
    AnarchistFitness Posts: 9 Member
    I don't have any respect for anyone who tells me they are intimidated by me. Forget that person. You need someone you can relate to and who can relate to you.
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