I am a cis gay woman... Because you don't seem to identify with gender much, I have seen the terms "agender", "neutrois", and "genderless". (Often androgyny and agenderism are seen as similar, but agender is seeing yourself without gender, why androgyny is a fusion of the traditional male and female energies; the first is without, the latter is with both.) Despite what others tell you, I like labels, because it gives validity to our identities and helps ourselves to seek others who are similar to us (so long as the term doesn't overly pigeonhole or too descriptively tell who we are). Do not forget there are also terms like heteroflexible (mostly straight but with the occasional gay attraction) and homoflexible (mostly gay but on the occasion falling for the opposite sex, like me with Enrique Iglesias .

Mheh, try it out. For better or worse, go with "queer" or "genderqueer" if you are of the younger crowds, who readopted the term for themselves (I know plenty of folks like 30 and over, we hate the term for the offenses people used to do to us, hurl at us), if nothing else suits you. Let labels being a starting guide and help you find others like yourself, but don't corner yourself into what you have to do. I'm lez, like I said, but I prefer the bar and dance scene my male gay friends still stereotypically prefer, over the whole coffeehouse-and-folk rock lezzies are supposedly known for

An important note: sexual orientation and gender identity are completely separate entities. While there are strong correlations and influences between the two, they are not related. A male transsexual who likes men is still technically a gay male (but if likes women is a straight transman), a female MTF who likes women is a lesbian (but still men is straight), etc.
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