They told me to expect to be cold, your body will eventually regulate. I had my surgery April 17.

I don't feel the cold any differently. But I remember the struggle of sort of feeling hungry at first,,,but it was more the stomach acid triggering my mind into thinking I was hungry. I wasn't of course but I struggled with the sensation. That definitely has changed. I feel hungry when I am now. But I have learned that half a banana will sort that if I am out and about,,pop into fruits shop or supermarket,,grab a banana. Sorted.
Negativity? This is a hard one. I was a bit hesitant to tell people at first, a bit embarrassed I guess. Before the surgery I didn't realise how much I would have to still make conscious choices (easier but still choices). So I thought maybe I was taking the easy way out and didn't share with anyone but close family. I don't announce it to everyone now but if I am speaking to someone and weight loss comes up I explain it to them. I have not copped any negative reactions. I think most people just feel, hey if you get healthy then great. Just explain to them that it is a tool only and you still have a lot of work to do. People use diet supplements all the time to help them lose weight,,this is just a permanent option. And when you look and feel a million dollars,,who cares what they think. I was so happy to go shopping with my daughter last week and getting to buy a few sizes smaller. Negative folk versus healthier and smaller you. My sons girlfriend commented that I looked like small person suddenly. I am still 237lb's but they are starting to notice. :-)
My school friend took his own life because he suffered from weight issues his whole life. I just wish this had been an option for him decades ago when he was suffering so much. Not everyone gets to do this in Australia. It costs a lot of money which is why I opted for overseas. But I see people struggling everyday and wish this option was available to them. I think myself so very very privileged to have had this opportunity when others can't.

I am always cold, but then, as my sugeon said, I've lost a 160 pound blanket, so it's normal. I hear that for some people it regulates, but I haven't found that to be the case. As for the "want to eat" we call that head hunger. And yes, we all have that. I am almost 3 years out and I still find myself wanting to eat sometime, I'm not actually hungry, in fact, I can honestly say that I rarely get actual hunger, but I still sometimes just want to eat. The big change for me in this hunger thing is that pre-surgery, if I was upset, angry, depressed, stressed (name whatever emotion you want here) I would eat and eat a lot. Post surgery, if I get upset, angry, depressed, etc. I no longer want to eat. In fact if my attitude is really bad, I just don't care about the sleeve or the surgery or what my needs are, I won't eat. Total reversal thank God!

It's early days for you yet. The cold may change and if you take the suggestions someone else said on here and go to the support groups, you can get a handle on the "head hunger". Our food addictions don't go away, but the tool we have in the sleeve allows us to manage it a little easier. Yes you can still out eat the sleeve and regain, but if you make your change lifetime changes, you will lose it and keep it off.

Good luck!

Thank you all!! I appreciate the insight, I am going to start attending group meetings, but since its only been a week I haven't felt like doing all that much. I love the comment about not caring what others think when it comes to my choices about my health. I get a lot of...you didn't need it. I was 237 when I had the surgery, but they didn't have to walk in my shoes, feel the tiredness and depression, I did. I talked to my doctor today about the head hunger, which is exactly what it is..head hunger. I need a new drug!! lol. I'm focusing on walking and when I get the head hunger I'm reminding myself that no..you're not hungry, your bored or stressed or whatever. It didn't help that we had family visit so meals were a big deal and I found myself cooking for 15 people all weekend. Can't wait to enjoy this journey though, and thanks for the kind words and suggestions!!

I used to be very involved with the meals for big family gatherings ( I am 1 of 6 kids)but now we have all agreed that when we assemble all of the food duties are split up. Even for family coming from out of town. They can buy the groceries and prep it when they arrive or make arrangements for to go family size dishes. My sister in law loves her carbs so that's what she brings. My brother loves to smoke meats or fry turkeys so he handles that. My mom makes healthy deserts. I usually stock the cheese, fruit and crudités. Another brother loves casseroles, so he makes 3. We usually get a tub of Greek salad and 2 trays of Moussaka from a local restaurant. Another brother brings beer, chips and salsa. We eat off paper plates and paper cups which we put in the huge bonfire we always build. This way everyone shares the work and everyone has fun. My dad brings the wine. No one is stressed and I don't end up making food that is not in my lifestyle anymore.

I am only 5 days out from surgery and I am cold all the time too. I keep taking my temperature thinking I must have a fever Thanks so much for bringing it to light...Now I'll just throw on a sweater. I will tell you how I addressed letting those who are important in my life know about my sleeve surgery. Ten days before surgery (the day I started my liquid diet) I made a custom post on facebook only to those people who I felt needed to know and/or would be hurt to find out after the fact. I just threw it out there and let them know of MY decision and that it was based on a lot of prayer, discussion with my husband and research. I invited them to find out more about the procedure if they had questions and I also thanked them for their love, support and prayers during this life changing time. It as worked out great because I really didn't give anyone permission to give me their opinion but also let them know that they are very important in my life and because I love them I wanted them to know. For me throwing it out there was easier. I know it technically isn't everyone's business but for me I would rather have them know now instead of explaining (or lying) about all the changes I will be under going later.

From one newbie to another - we got this!

Head Hunger.... an evil thing. My surgery was Feb. 27 and I still battle with that. It is somewhat depressing to me knowing that I cant eat all that good food. I like food, but I have to remind myself that is what got me where I am. Eating, just to be eating. I have to look ahead and the payoff that is coming. Good luck with your journey, friend request me if you would like.