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Meditation/Relaxation exercises for childbirth?
jr235
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Has anyone tried these? I was a mess during the early part of my labor with my daughter. I was just so freaked out, and then crying, and then humiliated by the crying. Later in the labor I was ok because I was focused on pushing, but I stopped progressing at 4/5 cm for about 8 hours (after over a day of labor) and just had to hang out while I was waiting for the pitocin to kick in.
A big part of it was that I didn't have anyone with me, and wasn't allowed to use my ereader or listen to music because they are electronics and could supposedly interfere with equipment. So I essentially had nothing to do but psych myself out during my extremely looooooong labor. This time I will come prepared with at least a book. I'm with a different doctor and delivering at a different hospital, and my doctor says I will be allowed these things. I will also have my husband with me this time, so that will make a huge difference.
Sooo anywho has anyone tried any? Were they helpful or not?
A big part of it was that I didn't have anyone with me, and wasn't allowed to use my ereader or listen to music because they are electronics and could supposedly interfere with equipment. So I essentially had nothing to do but psych myself out during my extremely looooooong labor. This time I will come prepared with at least a book. I'm with a different doctor and delivering at a different hospital, and my doctor says I will be allowed these things. I will also have my husband with me this time, so that will make a huge difference.
Sooo anywho has anyone tried any? Were they helpful or not?
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I'm a FTM due in October. I'm doing the Hypnobabies class which has lots of tracks for self-hypnosis/deep relaxation. You might try it! Best of luck to you.0
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I had an epidural with my 1st 2 babies at around 5cm. Prior to that lots of breathing. With the 1st I thought I just had to tough it out so I sat there gripping the bed tears running down my checks but was rewarded for my effort by having my epidural completely numb me for the pushing so I didn't even feel that part. For the 2nd I felt less silly about trying different things to lessen the pain like walking, sitting on a ball, & changing positions. I found myself more comfortable on my knees hugging the back of the bed. I am pregnant with
#3 and have decided to go with a midwife this time. We've already talked about how she will help labor go more smoothly so I am looking forward to that support. My husband is great but with the first 2 he looked scared to touch me :>
Here's some tips I found.
http://www.ehow.com/how_2057451_relieve-labor-pains-naturally.html
http://www.laboraide.com/article/1628-how-to-relieve-labor-pain-naturally0 -
I've had 3 babies and kind of used hypnobirthing techniques I guess - just focusing on other things, and breathing! I also had a TENS machine (it sort of electric shocks you lol) and used gas and air.
With my first, I arrived at hospital, was left for a bit, then when checked I was 10cm. I was induced with my 2nd, and it was pretty quick, just over 4 hours. My third was back to back and I used the birthing pool.
I found it helpful to just focus on nice things to get me through contractions, and think that every contraction is one closer to meeting my baby. I used just gas and air for all three. I'm in England by the way.0 -
I took a Lamaze class...kinda was useless for me. Its all about breathing techniques and massage techniques. Too bad I didn't want to be touched, nor did I want to be "hee hee"-ing and "hoo-hoo"-ing because it felt...dopey. But the deep breathing was very helpful...pretty much something you can practice on your own beforehand. I also read a book about the Bradley Method, and did my best to use visualization techniques (basically visualize your body working as a separate natural force, and accepting it instead of physically fighting it by getting worked up). I practiced meditation throughout my pregnancy on a daily basis near the end. The best time was during my nightly bath to relax me. On top of all that, I was given an Ambien which helped me relax...although it kinda cracked me out a bit at the same time. They thought I wasn't in labor, and assumed it would help me sleep, but I went from 2cm to my daughter being delivered in about 6 hours. But lemme tell you, those first two cm took FOREVER.0
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Thanks for the responses!
Colecake, I didn't even think to ask for anxiety meds! I used to have panic attacks, but haven't since my life has become, well, less panic inducing. I've never taken a lamaze class, and ya that style of breathing seems goofy to me.
I've been listening to relaxation guided meditations and just practicing deep breathing exercises. I guess it will help or it won't, but I don't really see it hurting and at least its helping with my sleep! I wasn't thinking of this as a replacement for an epidural, which I still completely and 100% want. Thankfully my doctor this time around is much more epidural friendly.
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Take a hypnobirthing class or look up at-home programs. I read a book by Ina May (Guide to Childbirth) and it is AMAZING! I also took a labor and delivery class that was very helpful.0
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