Nervous about work
deannalmartin
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Hi, I am new here and my husband suggested I join a group so I could have "friends" that have gone thru what I have. I was sleeved 7/29/14 and I am just now able to start doing things without constant pain meds. After reading many posts on here I feel I am behind in my recovery and this makes me nervous. I am a kindergarten teacher and I start back to school in about a week and a half (when I go back I will be exactly 3 weeks out from surgery). Am I going to be able to do this? Any advice is appreciated. Also, I had one week pre-op liquid diet and now 7 days post op and I have only lost 12 pounds.
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I am still pre-op, but what I have learned here is that there is a very wide breadth of experiences post-surgery. Your quick description doesn't sound "behind" in any fashion. You will progress to a good place at your own pace. I can't recall anyone who was not able to function decently after three weeks.
I am planning 3-4 weeks off of work when I go at the end of September. I am setting my expectations at 4 weeks because 1) I can. My short term disability policy is very accommodating, and 2) it allows me to shorten the leave if I get stir crazy and am ready to go back.
I am sure you will progress wonderfully.
Rob
PS - Your husband is a wise man! The support I have found here has been extremely valuable!0 -
Hey, there is a number of differences post-op. I had my surgery 11/6/2013 and didn't go back until early December. From an energy perspective I could have gone back earlier but my surgeon kept me out so I could work on my post-op eating routine. Because you kind of have to learn how to eat again, I would try to focus on that as much as possible. I work in an office job and not have to manage kindergarteners so I'd assume you will exert more energy than I would've 3 weeks out. Good luck and feel free to add me if you need to reach out.0
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I was sleeved 7/23, and go back to work Monday 8/11....not quite 3 weeks post op. I had my first check up today and convinced the doctor that I'm ready to go back. Everyone keeps telling me I'm nuts and should stay home as long as possible. I feel fine and haven't taken any pain meds in about a week. I'm also going nuts sitting in the house!
Everyone is different and no one heals the same. As long as you feel ready that's what matters. Are you ok with standing for long periods of time? I seems to get tired easily if I stand for too long.0 -
Don't worry about the scale. Just weigh and measure your food. Get your protein and water in. They pump you so full of saline in the hospital and it takes a while to pee it out. The more water I drank and the more I got my protein in the better I did. When you are on 700 cals a day you usually are gonna lose at least a lb every 5 days. If you are losing faster than that you are doing great. Every lb is 3800 calories that you burned off. Just keep walking and sipping.0
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Hi Deanna, welcome to the group. I'm having surgery in the next few months so I can't advise you about when to return to work.
I have been a teacher though for 18 years and used to teach early years. What I do know is that working with very young children all day can take a lot out of us keeping up with them all.
I also know how important it is to be at school those first crucial days and weeks to set the routine.
Is there anyway you can get some additional help in your classroom from a teaching assistant those first few weeks?
Take good care of yourself and try to get lots of rest.0 -
I took 2 weeks off from work, I could have gone back after the first week, but I had already asked for the 2 weeks. I was tired, but I did fine. Try not to stand too much. 12 pounds is amazing! Wt loss depends on many factors, age, how much you have to lose are some of those. You cannot compare yourself to others wt loss. My Dr expects me to lose 1 to 2 pounds a month, I have been averaging 8 to 10 a month.0
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You can do this!
My sister is a teacher who had WLS back in 2009. Her biggest challenge at work was getting in enough water during the day, because... wait for it... she couldn't take the time away from her classroom/students to go to the bathroom as frequently as she would need to.
So, she made it work by getting up early and pounding the liquids right away, drinking moderately during the day, planning bathroom breaks at work, and then pounding the liquids again at night.
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Hi Deanna, I had my sleeve 3 years ago. I took a full two weeks off my office/desk job because I was told by a friend who only took a week that I wanted the extra week to really get a handle on the food end of things before adding back the job. I think by 3 weeks you should be good with the food, but your biggest challenge might be remembering to sip that water all day long. And at 3 weeks out, well really for several months, I was eating 6 small meals a day, that might be another challenge for you with teaching and supervising kindergartners. But as a teacher I will bet you are very organized and can work your eating and drinking needs into your schedule. Your husband sounds really supportive, so you might want to recruit him to help set up your room and do the rearranging and lifting since you can't yet. :-))
As for how fast you are losing, some of us lose slowly, I know I do, always have. I also stall often, but that's OK. You will lose at your own rate and you will get to goal eventually. Be patient with yourself. It will happen, I promise!
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I also had the sleeve on 7/29. I just started full liquids today. For pre-op, I did a week of 900 calories with limited carbs and one week of protein shakes. I lost about 9 lbs during those two weeks. I've lost about 5 lbs in the first week. I am hoping the scale will say another 5 this Monday. So, I think you are right on track.
I am still sore and still get tuckered out. I went back to work the Monday after my surgery but I am a college professor so only taught a two hour class. But each day I add in a little more - a trip to target, an afternoon get together with friends, etc. I am also walking. At first, I could walk less than a mille and it took me 30 minutes. Today I walked 1.3 miles in less than 30 minutes. But, I'm ready for bed now. I think you will probably be tired after work the first week or so. Nap if you can.
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Hey welcome to the group!
I had my surgery on 5/22/14 and went back to work on 5/28/14. I am a Diagnostician and work at a very large high school (which meant a lot of walking). I will say I was very sore and got tired pretty quickly. I would usually come home and climb in bed. I finally started getting my energy back once I started on the soft food stage but still got tired pretty quickly. Everyone is different and I know a lot of people who take a lot more time off. I think you just have to listen to your body. I know how those first few weeks of school go I taught elementary school for 7 years. I was glad that I went back so soon I feel it really helped me with getting up and moving around. I would suggest some liquid tylenol while at school if you are having pain. Just listen to your body and make sure you don't over do it.
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When I had my surgery, I primarily had a desk job. I took 1 1/2 weeks off. That worked well for me. I felt pretty good and was able to tolerate 8 hours without napping at that point. I definitely would not advise taking less time than that off though. I know until that point just daily activities required an afternoon nap and I mean just the basics (cooking dinner for my daughter, folding and putting up a load of laundry and maybe running the vacuum) and I was wiped out. Even at 10 days, I was tired after working all day but still managed to be able to do the basics when I got home in the evenings. Just early to bed. lol0