what exactly is the official Christian stance on suicide?

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_John_
_John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
edited March 2 in Social Groups
I see this debated ALL over face book, especially by facebook friends in the Bible belt...

I've got the world's most ignorant know-it-all SIL smattering stuff all over her facebook page in particular.

And just so you know I'm sorta being serious, my mother is bipolar and has a manic stage about once a year for a week or two, so I can empathize with those dealing with mental issues and I'm not trying to be insensitive by posting here.

Also, as mod, if the religion bashing gets too bad, I will delete your shit. Some is ok, but that's not really the purpose here.

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  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    Basically, ending your own life is a mortal sin, which means hell.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    Only God can judge a mans heart. I'll leave it at that.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    There's no indication in the Bible that suicide means you go to Hell. Not to say they're equivalent but one could argue that Jesus did this knowing his actions would get him killed. Mental issues are a totally different thing too. Would you be a sinner for not attending service if your legs didn't work? Just because we don't understand mental illness doesn't mean it isn't a real physical issue.
  • Of_Monsters_and_Meat
    Of_Monsters_and_Meat Posts: 1,022 Member
    Roman catholic reporting in.
    The church says "Though shall not kill" and therefore it is a sin.

    Its not damnation in hell though. So pretty much its a sin, but not a huge sin so your probably just going to have to sneak in the side gate at heaven.

    Personally I think if someone is so tormented that they choose to end their suffering then its all our fault that we didn't help them. We are the sinners, not them.
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    yeah, sometimes being humorous like that and high strung is a defense mechanism against our own demons (...)

    not like I know anything about or anything (whistles).
  • Kamikazeflutterby
    Kamikazeflutterby Posts: 770 Member
    I'm not actually Christian, but if I remember right, it goes like this:

    Catholic: Mortal Sin = Hell

    Protestant: Too many sects to have one "official" doctrine, but generally it's still Mortal Sin = Hell.

    I truly cannot remember if it is a sin because you have absolutely no way to repent (being dead and all) or if it is a sin because you are taking away the life that God gave you. I think in some ways it is considered taking despair to the point of vanity because you think your own pain is worse than God's plan for you.
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  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    I didn't think they had one. If this falls under religion bashing, please feel free to delete, but know it's not my intention.

    I kind of look at this like the argument against Pascal's Wager.
    This argument holds that three general assumptions exist.

    God exists as malevolent and wrathful
    God does not exist
    God exists as benevolent and forgiving

    If there is a malevolent and wrathful god, we can assume he may send someone one to hell for taking their own life. But a malevolent and wrathful god might do the same to a holy woman who died of old age, as it isn't in his nature to be just.

    If there is no god, there's no sin, no hell, no heaven, and no question to answer here.

    If there is a benevolent and forgiving god, then we can assume that he would forgive someone for taking their own life and welcome them warmly into heaven.
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    I'm atheist, but I grew up Christian. Here is from the Christian/Catholic bible.

    Only 7 people in the bible committed suicide. 6 were unfavorable, 1 was favorable (Samson sacrificed his life to kill a bunch of others in battle).

    There are very few verses about the consequences of killing yourself.
    Ecclesiastes 7:17 "Be not overly wicked, neither be a fool. Why should you die before your time?"
    1 Corinthians 3:17 "If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and you are that temple."
    Exodus 20:13 “You shall not murder."

    There are tons of verses that indicate that no matter what you do once you are "saved" or "born again" your sins, past or future, will be forgiven and nothing will keep you out of heaven.

    Different religions and different pastors/clergy may interpret things differently, but that's what the Christian bible has to say about the issue.
  • Barbellarella_
    Barbellarella_ Posts: 454 Member
    My non denominational church errs to the side of grace.

    If you believe Jesus died for your sins and you put your faith in that, it covers ANY sin, not just some. So essentially, if you're a believer and you kill yourself, that doesn't take what Jesus did for you out of the equation. So your sins are covered and you're still eligible for eternal life.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Catholics believe it is a ticket straight to hell, do not pass go, do not collect $200.

    I don't know what other denominations think, though I'm sure someone else has responded (haven't read through).

    Ironically, I kind of think the idea from What Dreams May Come (assuming one is not an atheist) is an interesting one. It wasn't a punishment for a sin, but rather a state of mind. She always had the power to get out of "hell," but she was in such an awful state of mind when she died that she couldn't.

    Personally, I hope that whatever or whoever controls the universe or our afterlives is more concerned with the kind of soul a person has and not one's manner of death, especially when a person was in a living hell (which I suppose you would have to be to do that).

    But I'm a pagan, so my opinion is irrelevant to the question. :-)
  • _errata_
    _errata_ Posts: 1,653 Member
    I am a deist with agnostic tendencies that grew up in the catholic church. The catholic church isn't the "official" christian stance, but I think most of the arguments against it are similar. Here is a link to the catechism of the church:

    http://www.usccb.org/beliefs-and-teachings/what-we-believe/catechism/catechism-of-the-catholic-church/epub/index.cfm

    Do a search for suicide and you will find a few blurbs about it.

    For what it's worth, Jesus did say the only unforgivable sin is blasphemy of the holy spirit. He mentions it in the context of attributing the works of driving out demons to satan rather than God. Even a superficial reading of the new testament reveals that the law is meant to be a stumbling block for humans, which is why the fundamental teaching of Jesus is love and forgiveness.
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    I don't think there is one particular stance, with the exception of the Catholics. No one really knows. It is between God and the person who is suffering IMO.
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    I'm not actually Christian, but if I remember right, it goes like this:

    Catholic: Mortal Sin = Hell

    Protestant: Too many sects to have one "official" doctrine, but generally it's still Mortal Sin = Hell.

    I truly cannot remember if it is a sin because you have absolutely no way to repent (being dead and all) or if it is a sin because you are taking away the life that God gave you. I think in some ways it is considered taking despair to the point of vanity because you think your own pain is worse than God's plan for you.

    Goodness, no. Once saved always saved, unless you reject Jesus Christ as your savior.
  • Of_Monsters_and_Meat
    Of_Monsters_and_Meat Posts: 1,022 Member
    I didn't think they had one. If this falls under religion bashing, please feel free to delete, but know it's not my intention.

    I kind of look at this like the argument against Pascal's Wager.
    This argument holds that three general assumptions exist.

    God exists as malevolent and wrathful
    God does not exist
    God exists as benevolent and forgiving

    If there is a malevolent and wrathful god, we can assume he may send someone one to hell for taking their own life. But a malevolent and wrathful god might do the same to a holy woman who died of old age, as it isn't in his nature to be just.

    If there is no god, there's no sin, no hell, no heaven, and no question to answer here.

    If there is a benevolent and forgiving god, then we can assume that he would forgive someone for taking their own life and welcome them warmly into heaven.

    You are using logic to prove/disprove god. This is always a fallacy because it is just way to easy to disprove him. I have faith and believe that is not logic, so my science and religion can coexist nicely. :drinker: <-- Jesus blood/Alcohol
  • calibriintx
    calibriintx Posts: 1,741 Member
    I didn't think they had one. If this falls under religion bashing, please feel free to delete, but know it's not my intention.

    I kind of look at this like the argument against Pascal's Wager.
    This argument holds that three general assumptions exist.

    God exists as malevolent and wrathful
    God does not exist
    God exists as benevolent and forgiving

    If there is a malevolent and wrathful god, we can assume he may send someone one to hell for taking their own life. But a malevolent and wrathful god might do the same to a holy woman who died of old age, as it isn't in his nature to be just.

    If there is no god, there's no sin, no hell, no heaven, and no question to answer here.

    If there is a benevolent and forgiving god, then we can assume that he would forgive someone for taking their own life and welcome them warmly into heaven.

    You are using logic to prove/disprove god. This is always a fallacy because it is just way to easy to disprove him. I have faith and believe that is not logic, so my science and religion can coexist nicely. :drinker: <-- Jesus blood/Alcohol

    I'm not trying to disprove god. Just borrowing part of the argument to guess how a god would respond to suicide.
  • _errata_
    _errata_ Posts: 1,653 Member
    this thread needs moar slayer.

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  • Kamikazeflutterby
    Kamikazeflutterby Posts: 770 Member
    I'm not actually Christian, but if I remember right, it goes like this:

    Catholic: Mortal Sin = Hell

    Protestant: Too many sects to have one "official" doctrine, but generally it's still Mortal Sin = Hell.

    I truly cannot remember if it is a sin because you have absolutely no way to repent (being dead and all) or if it is a sin because you are taking away the life that God gave you. I think in some ways it is considered taking despair to the point of vanity because you think your own pain is worse than God's plan for you.

    Goodness, no. Once saved always saved, unless you reject Jesus Christ as your savior.

    I can't say this without derailing from the original topic a bit, so bear with me and please take the following with a shaker of salt.

    Here in Evangelical Southern ****s Land there's a weird dichotomy between "I am saved through Jesus" and "you will burn in hell for ____."

    I've always hated the attitude that what you do doesn't matter if you have Jesus. Kill a 100 people? Doesn't matter, you've got Jesus. Rape some babies? Can't touch me, I've got Jesus. The exact same people who have told me that Jesus forgives everything will later follow up by saying that some other sin will send you to hell no matter what. The guidelines of what sin equals insta damnation get fuzzy, but suicide and homosexuality are the big two that make the list frequently.

    If the rest of the sane Protestant world has moved on, well, great. If the rest of my town has moved on and it is just one or two churches preachin' crazy talk, even better. I'm not converting to theism any time soon, but I'll feel safer talking to random strangers again.
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    Raised Roman Catholic, I was told it's a sin to kill and with suicide you have no time to repent so when you die, you still have the sin.

    Now I think it is more selfish because the people who care about you are the ones to suffer. Also the whole "what the hell did I just do" thing. I **** up all the time, I would hate to make a rash decision and regret it when it's too late.


    Eta, I do not believe the person who commits suicide wanted or intended to be selfish.....just clarifying, it just is the way it works out. I do not see how if there is a god, he/she could damn someone for an illness.
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