Got kicked out by my 21DF coach - looking for support

JungleJ4ne
JungleJ4ne Posts: 1 Member
edited November 17 in Social Groups
I didn't buy shakeology so my 21 DF coach dumped me. I'm hoping to find support here. I am about to start round 2, I've lost 4 pounds so far.

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  • doodlebug32
    doodlebug32 Posts: 66 Member
    Are you serious? I'm sorry about that. There are plenty of people in this forum that aren't using shakeology or any of the other supplements. Welcome!
  • haleymiller0707
    haleymiller0707 Posts: 74 Member
    Sorry to hear that. I haven't even been contacted by a coach. I would love to have a 21 day fix friend to offer support to. Friend me if you like.
  • SatiaRenee
    SatiaRenee Posts: 798 Member
    I love my coach and she hasn't pressured me to buy any of the supplements, including Shakeology. @jpkreuger, one of our 21 Day Fixers is a great coach, too! I would encourage you to seek out a new coach because a good one will be supportive, offer suggestions for meal plans, how to improve your weight loss experience.

    That said, there are a lot of great people here who are full of ideas and willing to share their successes and struggles.
  • nables73
    nables73 Posts: 29 Member
    That's just really sad :/ I feel I'm lucky that my coach is my neighbor and a friend before I even considered Beachbody. You'll find a lot of support here! Welcome!
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    wow! that's really sucky! i'm very sorry to hear that :frowning:
  • dixiewhiskey
    dixiewhiskey Posts: 3,333 Member
    That's what turned me off of Beachbody until someone gave me this exercise set.. The behaviour and "must do shakeology must have a coach" mentality. I'm sorry you had this experience but this group is much different and very supportive. Welcome :-) If it makes you feel a bit better, I don't have a coach or shakeology. Bare bones here :-)
  • dawnkwiatek
    dawnkwiatek Posts: 324 Member
    I found 21df through a Facebook friend....she had me sign up under her and said she does accountability groups and stuff. I got some sample shakeology from her and hated it. She wasn't very pleased that I didn't like it. And I was never invited to any accountability groups. No support
  • cupcake570
    cupcake570 Posts: 86 Member
    Some coaches are just in it to be sales people. We're a pretty cool group here so just stick with us ;)
  • SatiaRenee
    SatiaRenee Posts: 798 Member
    You know, I think this says a lot about Beachbody and, unfortunately, not a lot that is good. Given that these coaches are representatives of their company name/brand, you would think they would be more careful about training their coaches so that something like this wouldn't happen.
  • Lauracharder
    Lauracharder Posts: 141 Member
    Friend me!
  • jpkrueger
    jpkrueger Posts: 280 Member
    @SatiaRenee thank you, you just made my day!!! Any "coach" who dumps someone for not buying what THEY think the person should buy is not a coach, they are just a salesperson. That's not how it's supposed to work. Once again I'm annoyed because things like this give us all a bad rep!

    You found the right place, @JungleJ4ne , this group is so supportive and helpful!!!

    Anyone who would like to switch to me as his/her coach, my coach ID is 641043 and I will never pressure you to buy anything! I will have new Facebook challenge groups starting in the next week or so (just waiting for a date confirmation from my coach) and you would be able to participate in those as part of the team. And they are FREE, supportive and fun :)
  • chesves
    chesves Posts: 224 Member
    I agree .... if you're not getting support, they are just a salesperson, NOT a coach! Join here .... we'll lend support and guidance!
  • blantondwb
    blantondwb Posts: 49 Member
    JungleJ4ne wrote: »
    I didn't buy shakeology so my 21 DF coach dumped me. I'm hoping to find support here. I am about to start round 2, I've lost 4 pounds so far.

  • blantondwb
    blantondwb Posts: 49 Member
    This is a much better support system!
  • alska
    alska Posts: 300 Member
    Sorry that happened. I guess I am lucky, my coach is great n he's helped me for a long time, even well before I bought anything.

    Anyones free to add me but in the message please put 21 day fix or I may delet it
  • alska
    alska Posts: 300 Member
    and i didn't buy shakeology either... cost too much for me
  • extacymoon
    extacymoon Posts: 141 Member
    I just had a similar experience with the coach I was given. Try to push shakeology on me. I tried the free samples and didn't like it. I am not going to spend a fortune on something I will dread taking. Not worth it.
  • dixiewhiskey
    dixiewhiskey Posts: 3,333 Member
    Yeah you should only do or try things that you can see yourself doing/using for a lifetime.
  • sarahrbraun
    sarahrbraun Posts: 2,261 Member
    My coach (who I don't really use) actually tried to recruit me for her team, but I declined. I just cannot promote a product I am not passionate about, and I haven't even tried shakeology. I'm just fine with my protein powder I buy from bodybuilding.com
  • SatiaRenee
    SatiaRenee Posts: 798 Member
    I'm grateful that my coach hasn't tried to push Shakeology on me but at this point I'm beginning to wonder if I shouldn't bite the very costly bullet and give it a try because I had really hoped to be at a certain weight and/or size by the time I see my family in July and right now I just don't think it's going to happen. Certainly, it's not going to happen doing what I've been doing.
  • walkdmc
    walkdmc Posts: 529 Member
    Satia, if you can swing it, I'd try it out. If it doesn't make a difference, you're out $130, unless they have a smaller trial pack, and you won't be left wondering.

    I'm happy with my current whey powder and wouldn't pay for Shakeology but Lord knows I've paid a lot for diet/fitness stuff over the years and even though I'm not rich, I don't regret any of those purchases. Talk to me when I'm 80, eating cat food from the can...
  • germany03
    germany03 Posts: 348 Member
    @JungleJ4ne I'm sorry to hear about your experience . ...I am sooo shocked to hear a coach would do something like that.
    But this is truly a great and supportive group..no matte the type of 21DF with or without shakes. Everyone is welcomed just the same :)

    Question for everyone with great coaches ( from the newbie) - what do you actually go over with your coaches and how often ?
  • SatiaRenee
    SatiaRenee Posts: 798 Member
    @germany03 The other day my coach shared a link to her youtube channel and the newest video was her sharing some information she received during a seminar or workshop she participated in with Autumn Calabrese herself. So what, right? Well, as it turns out, some of the info Autumn shared included how to find your bracket if you're nursing or pregnant, when it is best to eat your yellow and blue containers, and some rather bad news about peanut butter.

    A good coach also typically has challenge groups to help motivated their customers. I think this is an efficient way of touching base with their clients without actually having to mail each and every person one-on-one. The groups seem to typically include motivational words, accountability, meal and shopping plans, etc. Some challenge groups are workout specific so everyone is doing the same exercise program together--whether it's 21 Day Fix or another beachbody program. However, some coaches have challenge groups that are not program specific so some people may be doing 21 Day Fix while others are doing another program altogether and still others are doing hybrid programs.

    I really like my coach. She's very sweet, absolutely adorable, but I don't expect her to be an expert on anything. She's not a licensed nutritionist or physical trainer. She's a woman who is trying to get her home business up and running. Would we be friends in real life? Probably not. But when I have questions, I can bring them to her and get them answered. Or, I can come here to our group and ask them here. We've got a great group here and I'm amazed by how supportive and encouraging and HONEST everyone is. None of us is trying to make any of this seem easy. It isn't. But it is totally worth it!
  • walkdmc
    walkdmc Posts: 529 Member
    I must know what Autumn said about PB. I just LOVE peanut butter and ALWAYS get into trouble every time I try to incorporate it into my diet.

    And I'm using the "all natural" stuff too. No sugary Jiff for me, yet, I go overboard.
  • SatiaRenee
    SatiaRenee Posts: 798 Member
    @walkdmc Well, unless you are steaming, baking, and such without adding any oils to your cooking, then you can still enjoy 2 tsps of peanut butter. Alas, the minute you stir fry or spray olive oil in the pan while cooking eggs . . . guess what? You lose at least 1 tsp. EVERY TIME!

    And if I remember correctly, Autumn wants us to eat our orange before dinner. :#
  • mrsewert
    mrsewert Posts: 430 Member
    How about the PB2 stuff I see people talking about? I'm not a huge fan of PB so it doesn't really affect me but I have been known to put some on toast.
  • SatiaRenee
    SatiaRenee Posts: 798 Member
    @mrsewert In a video I shared in another thread, Autumn specifically says that in her eyes PB2 is NOT fix approved (which is why I'm surprised when I see so many coaches encouraging its use). She also seems to say in this video that natural peanut butter is preferred:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjopWcYQ-u4&feature=share&list=PLbPsp9t7a99Monxbx9U4KEajHR2qZsLOz

    The thing is if you think about the meal plan and food lists, really anything that's processed should not be in your diet. If you're going to go all natural/organic and such then powdered anything--from peanut butter to protein to milk--simply wouldn't fit the bill. Yes, that would mean Shakeology is a no-no. So she isn't rigid about how she interprets clean eating. She does often say to eat real food and that Shakeo won't keep you as full as "real" protein will. I think she knows that we all live busy lives and sometimes grabbing a shake is an easy way to meet your calorie and/or container goal.

    It's okay to be realistic and it's okay to try to do everything perfectly but shove some fruit and veggies in a blender with the protein powder of your choice as needed.
  • germany03
    germany03 Posts: 348 Member
    @SatiaRenee thanks for sharing your insight on a good coach. I have a much better understanding now. And as you mentioned...this is an awesome group for support as well.
  • haleymiller0707
    haleymiller0707 Posts: 74 Member
    I was beginning to think it was just me, I have never even heard from my coach since I received my package last month but I have been friended by 10 coaches in the past week. I find reading these boards more helpful.
  • kathymford
    kathymford Posts: 20 Member
    I never even bought my package from a coach; I bought off Amazon. No hassle there!! I like the support here just fine!
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