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TaniaLeeLynn
TaniaLeeLynn Posts: 10 Member
edited March 2016 in Social Groups
Hi All. Nice to meet you. I'm happy to see there are others struggling with losing weight/getting in shape due to chronic illness. I'm a recent cancer survivor, with Fibromyalgia and since 2013 have been dealing with the after effects of a traumatic brain injury from a car accident. So to say it's been a struggle to summon up the motivation to work-out or really do much more than work & sleep is putting it mildly. But I know I'm capable of reaching my goals. I just got married this past July, and with the motivation of my wedding and looking good in my beloved wedding dress, I was able to get down to 140 lbs. Since then, now that I don't have the looming pressure of a wedding to keep me on track, I've gone right back up to 160 lbs.

I know for my health I have to closely monitor my nutrition and get serious about fitness. And for my own happiness, I'd like to be satisfied with the way I look. So far I've been horrible at my consistency, best of intentions but I suck at the follow-thru. I'm hoping getting involved with a group of people that have similar goals will help keep me focused. I promised myself a trip to a tropical beach somewhere once I reach my goal, so it's beach or bust!

What are everyone else's goals? Have you set a reward for yourself when you reach it?

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  • thejilldemographic
    thejilldemographic Posts: 5 Member
    Run a 5k once a month and feel good doing it!
  • thejilldemographic
    thejilldemographic Posts: 5 Member
    Guess that wasn't much of an intro! I am a professor and starting a consulting practice for transitioning youth with disability and/ or chronic illness. I was born with severe GI symptoms and have been labeled with 3 worthless diagnoses: chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, and IBS. Last year I had my gall bladder removed and my symptoms have diminished considerably. Now I'm trying to finish up my last degree and get my practice going by the end of the year, and to do that I need to get myself in the best physical condition possible!
  • CGarner41412
    CGarner41412 Posts: 10 Member
    Hello everyone!

    I found this group because I need people who understand what it's like to be overweight but struggle to lose it because of a disability! 3 1/2 years ago I was fully capable of losing this weight, going out and exercising and doing the right thing. I took everything I had for granted and I am now learning the hard way what that means!

    I was injured at my previous job, got surgery and it made me permanently disabled with my right leg. I walk with a crutch or cane, I have severe pain 24/7, the leg is 5 times bigger than the other one and always will be. My mobility is severely diminished and exercising has become so hard unless I go to the pool (which I can't do most of the time).

    I have already lost 91lbs since becoming injured but I don't know how I am going to keep going because just eating as best I can isn't doing it and I feel like a complete failure!

    Anyways that is my story, glad to have the group here!
  • thejilldemographic
    thejilldemographic Posts: 5 Member
    Doing what you can, when you can is better than not trying. Keep up the good work and try to see the progress, even if it is "only" making healthy food choices for the day. Have you tried chair yoga? There are several different types of chair based exercise that might work for you. Take care!
  • Joe99French
    Joe99French Posts: 1 Member
    hey people, i'm a former rugby player and sporty kind of guy and ate whatever i wanted because i burned it off in the gym, however now i am trying to break the lifetime habit of eating crap whenever i wanted as i had a stroke in my early 20's and have ballooned up so i'm hoping that learning to control my diet along with a few swimming sessions a week will have me looking sharp for my September wedding :)
  • jotrex23
    jotrex23 Posts: 21 Member
    Hi guys, fantastic messages of your personal ex!
    Hello everyone!

    I found this group because I need people who understand what it's like to be overweight but struggle to lose it because of a disability! 3 1/2 years ago I was fully capable of losing this weight, going out and exercising and doing the right thing. I took everything I had for granted and I am now learning the hard way what that means!

    I was injured at my previous job, got surgery and it made me permanently disabled with my right leg. I walk with a crutch or cane, I have severe pain 24/7, the leg is 5 times bigger than the other one and always will be. My mobility is severely diminished and exercising has become so hard unless I go to the pool (which I can't do most of the time).

    I have already lost 91lbs since becoming injured but I don't know how I am going to keep going because just eating as best I can isn't doing it and I feel like a complete failure!

    Anyways that is my story, glad to have the group here!

    Hi, I'm am TRULY sorry to see of your huge struggle, thank you very much for joining us, I have been shocking lately at reading messages, but I do truly HOPE you are able to find a "weight -rid" journey that really suits your needs.
    Keeping positive and motivated can be very hard, but I believe you are ALOT stronger than you realise you are!!!
    BIG HUGS to you :-)
  • jotrex23
    jotrex23 Posts: 21 Member
    hey people, i'm a former rugby player and sporty kind of guy and ate whatever i wanted because i burned it off in the gym, however now i am trying to break the lifetime habit of eating crap whenever i wanted as i had a stroke in my early 20's and have ballooned up so i'm hoping that learning to control my diet along with a few swimming sessions a week will have me looking sharp for my September wedding :)

    Hi Joe, HUGE CONGRATULATIONS for your upcoming wedding, you will look and feel like $100 million dollars!!!!. :-D
    I have never been a sports person, but like many of us I do know what it's like to be really active and fit for many years and then suddenly you find that due to health reasons ( Chronic fatigue syndrome) in my case, put the brakes on severely to my exercise regime. I kept eating the same but due to my mind being on trying to understand this life style changing illness, my weight grew quite quickly.
    I am now on the journey that is right for me and the only one I believe that I can sustain and still eating even for dinner what the rest of my family are also having.
    Keeping motivated can be hard the odd time especially when you hit a plataue, but I immediately kick into "challenge accepted" gear and rejig my diet and exercise to keep going.
    My start weight was 91.7kg, current weight is 76.6 & my goal for my height is 68, so I about 15 kgs down and about 9 to go YAYYY . I have a buffer of 2 kg to go no higher than 70.000000000. :-)
    My main mental motivations are: 1.) I call it weight-RID and not LOSS, because I believe that if you LOSE something, then you want to find it again, like a lost watch or money.
    This new thought process is helping me to not redo what I've done previously with calling it weight-loss, which mentally self sabotaged my previous efforts.
    2.)I am 41 this Oct and I know being this age and older, not to mention being a woman trying to get a better stomach after 2 kids and over eating, is harder for me. But like everyone I have my BETTER health, BETTER happiness, BETTER self-esteem and BETTER wardrobe to fit into.
    My "fat" clothes are going to op shops, keeping them "incase" I need them one day is just another unconscious self sabotage tactic.
    And 3.) I am SO SICK OF HATING how I looked especially around other women ( slimmer and healthier looking). My green eyed monster has finally now disappeared - YAHOO ( kind of like having a VERY annoying relative staying at your house for what was meant to be only one or two nights, but 10 years later, they're still there :'(.

    Best wishes Joe for your journey, I'm REALLY glad you love yourself enough to care about yourself and your health, thinking about you heaps!!!
  • e9196tep
    e9196tep Posts: 57 Member
    I'm so sorry to hear of everyone's trouble. It's such a disappointment to have to contend with a chronic illness and get on with life like a normal person. The thing is....the human spirit is a profound and inspiring entity. Maybe with a little motivation we can work together to encourage each other to be our very best.
    Best wishes to each of you.
    ❤️
  • MrsPal14
    MrsPal14 Posts: 2 Member
    I'm currently suffering from a back injury. I have apparently had all my life Spinal Stenosis which predisposes me to back injury. I fell last year in May and hurt my back, went to the doctor got shots, etc started to get better. Reinjured in Nov. Went to the doctor got shots, started getting better. Walked around walmart for 3 hours with my mom (December) and by the end of the 3 hours I could no longer walk. Went to the ER and found out about the Spinal Stenosis for the first time. Followed up with my doctor and discussed my options. Suggested rest for two weeks, muscle relaxor, etc. Still was in a lot of pain and went back to see the doctor. He suggested Physical Therapy or a Back Specialist. I don't have insurance and my mom offered to pay for the Physical Therapy. I did that for 4 1/2 months and then was told my my physical therapist after adding in exercises that isolate my abs (core strengthening is a big part of a healthy back) that my injury couldn't just be stenosis related because after adding those exercises my pain increased which pointed to a disc issue. That was a month and a half ago. My husband and I have since moved in with my dad (too far away from the original PT location to continue with them and have not found a new place so I have been trying to keep up with some exercises on my own) and we are trying to save up to go see a back specialist. My GP agrees with the PT about it being a disc issue. I can't really get out of the house two days in a row without a lot of pain. Even when I do go out I can't drive myself and I have to take a lot of rest breaks. I can only walk for about 20 minutes continuously without a break. At that point I have to take a very long break. So for now I have been trying to walk 15 minutes a day as I wait to get to the back doctor. Oh and I haven't been able to work since December.
  • BBWmomma
    BBWmomma Posts: 18 Member
    Hi, my name is Brenda and I am 58. I am struggling with losing weight. My exercise is nearly nothing. Walking to the vehicle is about my durability and I need to use a stool in order to make my lunch. The pain is so horrible that I tried water aerobics for "gentle Joints" but the gym took it away and replaced it with Zumba water aerobics. Are they kidding? So, I am trying to get up the nerve to go to the YMCA and see what they have. Maybe their equipment might be big enough for a morbidly obese person to use. They have an outside pool for water aerobics but that's all I know about the classes. I am reaching out for friends to be support buddies.
  • MichelleBlasky
    MichelleBlasky Posts: 1 Member
    Hi my name is Michelle. On Nov 8th, I was hit by a car on my way to work. I broke my ankle and had to have surgery, hospital stay and now in a cast for maybe the next few weeks. Thankfully, the doctor told me I will still be able to walk, run and everything else once everything is healed :smile:

    Before all this, I was pretty active. I ran almost everyday 40 minutes, went to the gym (Planet Fitness), and ate a well balanced diet. This is a lifestyle change that I've been on since 2014 when they told me I was "pre-diebetic." I quit soda, started working out, cut my sugar/carbs intake, lost weight and after a long struggle, I got into the "normal" aC1 range. However, I was just told that I am in the high range again, I believe due to my non activity from the accident.

    Since my injury, I really haven't been able to do much. My ankle is NON WEIGHT BARING. So doctors orders, do not walk on it. I still do weights and crunches in bed/floor. Any advice on what types of exercise I can do, change, ect? Thanks!!
  • WitchyKisses
    WitchyKisses Posts: 11 Member
    Hi, my name is Jessii. I've had an advanced Spondylolisthesis my whole life, when I was a kid I would feel the pain in my legs every night but my parents would tell me it was just growing pains. At 16 I was diagnosed, at 17 my doctor tried to get me into a wheelchair, and now at 28 I'm still not in a wheelchair and finally starting to accept the fact I need some narcotic pain killers. I've yet to ask my doctor for some, but would like to get my diet and exercise back on track.
    Last time I tried this, I plateau'd after losing 20lbs and he said my only option was Gastric Bypass and I just gave up. Now I want to prove him wrong. He also said I should stick to only exercising submerged up to my neck in water, I'd also like to push that boundary as well. I have other health conditions that contribute to my lack of ability to lose weight, so I have quite the fight ahead of me - all I know is that a Gastric Bypass is NOT for me. That is not the lifestyle change I'm willing to make.
  • pricer15
    pricer15 Posts: 34 Member
    My name is Cheryl. I have chronic pain due to bone on bone in both knees after 10 years of CPPD (Calcium Pyrophosphate Deposition) disease. I also have osteoarthritis in various areas of my body, and fibromyalgia symptoms as well. I have been on strong NSAIDs for 7 years and want to get off of them. I'm 57 and due for Total Knee Replacements on both knees this year. I can barely walk my dog for 10 minutes without having to lie down, let alone actually exercise. I just rejoined MFP after seeing a nutritionist today with the goal of tracking my food and weight on MFP. Glad to see others who can relate.
  • KristinSarah17
    KristinSarah17 Posts: 1 Member
    Hi everyone,
    I was a very fit and active 150lbs of solid muscle in 2015 and a garden landscaping crew leader/designer before my accident. Since then with neurological type issues, chronic pain, chronic fatigue, mobility issues and need for a cane (upgraded from a walker). Between inability of being active and medications, has changed my metabolism and was up to 235lbs in March 2017. I have since then been working hard at pushing through the pain, doing chair yoga(3x weekly), in bed yoga(2x daily) and floor yoga(2-4x weekly) as much as I can along with trying to keep up with my passion of gardening (its a love/hate thing- love gardening but hate the pain triggers it causes).

    I also have several mental health issues relating to the accident and before the accident. I have also been working very hard on going to group therapy, doing CBT at home and finding new hobbies or interests that are stress relievers for me. Gardening is one until the pain spikes. I just love my hands in the soil and being a 'plant mom' so to speak!

    I have to stay on the medications I am on to stay stable and able.

    I have been slowly every week adapting one small change- this week's is removing sugar completely from my coffee and morning old fashioned oatmeal. Just cream or milk.

    I am eating a Whole Foods diet meaning staying as close as possible to foods natural state without additives. Low FODMAP, low simple carbs, low to no sugar, only casual use of natural sweetener like Monkhood fruit or honey, making everything I can at home from scratch or close to it.

  • hyIianprincess
    hyIianprincess Posts: 302 Member
    edited August 2017
    Hello, I have gastroparesis, psoriatic arthritis, and a connective tissue disorder. It's really tough at times to stay active and motivated. I'm not looking to lose weight. I just want to eat/be healthier. I tend to stick with processed/packaged foods so I'm trying to incorporate more fat and fiber where I can (gastroparesis makes that hard at times) It can be so depressing and isolating having chronic illnesses. I just started college back up after years of putting it off bc I was too sick.
  • zoetrope17
    zoetrope17 Posts: 10 Member
    Hi, I've just joined the site. I have chronic Lyme disease and have been mostly housebound for 5 years. I've had some improvements with treatment but it's up and down and slow and since being ill I quickly gained about 60lbs. I used to love going to the gym and hope to be able to again when I reach remission but until then I'm trying to make as much progress as I can just by watching my calories and trying to keep it as nutritious as possible to help my body heal. I used to push my body really hard because I could, now I'm much more aware of my boundaries (I can't ignore my limitations anymore with physical payback that comes after) and it's made me live more in the moment, be less self-critical and approach health and my body from a kinder perspective. It's really inspiring to read everyone's stories here - as long as you're trying you're winning!
  • ReneelovesD
    ReneelovesD Posts: 26 Member
    Hi hi! I’m looking for more active MFP mates. I am pretty bedbound atm. I have FMS MECFS HPOTS and boarder line Lupus. I’m still going through tests etc (talk of me having a connective tissue disorder). Would love some friends on here
  • crazychic_1133
    crazychic_1133 Posts: 10 Member
    Hi, I'm Zara, 29 and have had M.E./CFS since I was about 13. I'm mildly affected and still able to work full-time. It's a desk job. I wear a Fitbit to monitor health issues (steps, not too many otherwise I crash; quality of sleep; number of hours slept, etc.), and I'm averaging 3,500 steps a day. Exercising is out of the question as I crash - I can't even have a social life as evenings and weekends are rest times, so going for a jog will be out of the question! It's nice to see people here that understand though. I've been on MFP for a while though, but have now realised, after years of putting on weight just by looking at a chocolate bar, it's time to take the dieting seriously.
  • pjneeley2488
    pjneeley2488 Posts: 3 Member
    Hi, I'm PJ and have chronic pain issues amd am disabled due to it. Started aquatherapy last week. My weigh in was depressing. 398lbs. Hoping the therapy will help and setting an initial goal of 275lbs for now.
  • Lulufifi1994
    Lulufifi1994 Posts: 51 Member
    Hi! I'm Lucie, I have fibromyalgia, depression, anxiety and potential hEDS. I'm wanting to increase my activity and overall fitness and hopefully decrease my pain and other symptoms.
  • Emwalker3406
    Emwalker3406 Posts: 308 Member
    Hi all! I have been a member of MFP since 2011 but stopped logging when life got rough. I am a 37 year old mother with hEDS and chronic illnesses including NCS and GI issues. I recently underwent ankle surgery w/ cadaver replacement which cause my part time walker/wheelchair use to increase to almost total except for PT. Now that I'm slowly regaining mobility albeit permanently limited I am looking for support and accountability in becoming a healthier me from people who understand the struggle just to make it through the day with the limited spoons we are handed. :)
    Elizabeth
  • Boringfakename
    Boringfakename Posts: 10 Member
    I'm glad to see this group here! I used to be pretty athletic as a distance hiker, martial artist, and dancer. I got Long Covid a year and a half ago along with chronic fatigue and pain. Since then I've basically been a shut-in, but today my doctor approved me for a power wheelchair. It'll take a while to navigate the red tape with my insurance, but I think it'll be worth it.

    One of my providers suggested an anti-inflammatory diet, which is how I used to eat all the time. Since getting sick I've done a hard pivot toward comfort foods and emotional eating and put on 30 pounds. When I saw my doctor this morning to talk about the wheelchair the weigh-in was the last straw and I want to do better. I hope to meet with the dietician at the Long Covid Clinic for suggestions. It's so nice to meet all of you!
  • Cathie111
    Cathie111 Posts: 8 Member
    Hello everyone, I am an on and off member since 2011 and haven't been on for a long time (...it really looks different now!). I am 5' 1.5" tall (so, short) and I hit 200 lbs a while ago and hover between 198 and 200, but fortunately, don't go over. I'm 43, and have hypermobile ehlers danlos. I've had chronic pain in both feet since spring of 2015, and currently have an impinged right shoulder, and something going on with my right calf (might stem from spraining my ankle during a hike last June). (EDS people don't heal as fast) I go to PT 2x per week. I went to my doctor finally and told him I need to lose weight to be able to do the things I want to do. Because I have a hard time with a lot of things (especially right now), and have ADHD (usually unmedicated...I am a student again, so I've used short acting meds while needing to study, but that's it), he suggested a long acting ADHD medication to help not only with my ADHD but I guess some people lose weight on it (Vyvanse). But, I needed to go through a cardio workup first because my heart rate went up to 155 bpm when in heat the other day...I'm sensitive to heat (which I knew). (heart monitor showed nothing wrong, so I guess I'm good) I need to get back in to get the medication this week, so we'll see. My doc ultimately wants me (for now) to focus on calorie-reduction only weight loss (and if I get in a hike or two once in a while, great!). I'll be honest, it's SO MUCH LESS STRESS not having to worry about the exercise part. I kind of hate exercise (probably because a lot of it hurts). Anyway, I'm on day 5, am focusing on eating around 1370 cals per day and in those 5 days have lost just over 2 lbs (I'm sure that won't continue as a trend). We get our dinners from Hello Fresh, which tells us how many cals are in the dinner...that makes it super easy for dinner to be recorded. I'm super picky, making it difficult. My goal is undefined, really...I just want to take it one day at a time...when I hit 190 I'll be super happy. (I do have a dream goal but recognize I may not hit it and it's ok) I am in college (making it super difficult when busy) to become a Wildlife and Terrestrial Ecologist (I'm focusing on invasive plant species), and currently volunteer for the DEC's local PRISM extension to track invasive species in our area while hiking. :smile: