It does definitely sound like a "kinda sorta maybe?" The hair issues do sound like it's feasible that your testosterone may be off, though it may or may not be PCOS. PCOS is a syndrome, which means it's a constellation if symptoms, which means most individuals don't have them all, though it also means that there are several things that it could be.

I think it's worthwhile to bring your concerns up to your doctor. Something like, "I've noticed these symptoms that suggest my hormones may be off, particularly my testosterone, and my symptoms seem to align with this or this. Can we run some tests to see?"

It never hurts to ask for the tests, especially because there are a number of things that present similarly to PCOS, some of which are arguably worse than PCOS. In your case, I'm not sure it's a case of "worse" so much as "different." Have a look at non-classical congenital adrenal hyperplasia. It sounds scary, but it's a relatively mild condition where the body has a genetic adrenal enzyme deficiency. It presents a lot like PCOS and is often confused as such, with its hallmarks being hirsutism (facial hair growth) and acne, but the cause is slightly different--the adrenals instead of the ovaries. What you've described here sounds like this is also a possibility.

Tl;dr : you should never be afraid to bring concerns up to your doctor. You never know if something is something or nothing unless you talk to and work with your doctor.

I would definitely bring the symptoms up. I wouldn't necessarily assign a label to them. I would just tell the doctor something like, "this started out as simply annoying, but I'm having more minor symptoms popping up that all seem to relate back to hormones, and I wanted to give you the whole picture, as what started out as annoying a few years ago is now causing me a great deal of concern." Or something.

Besides, when you go see your doctor again, whether for a regular check up or because you request an appointment, they should always ask, "so what is new with your?" or "what has changed since you were in last?" or something of that nature. And if they don't ask, then you say, "Dr. SO-AND-SO, this has changed since our last discussion, and it's moved from a single annoying symptom to a number of symptoms that are quite concerning to me."

Your doctor should listen to your concerns, and even if they tell you it doesn't seem like anything, you should definitely be able to request testing to rule out any other issues. Weight loss itself can destabilize systems, so if your weight hasn't been steady long, you **might** mention it, but I probably wouldn't, as so many symptoms get overlooked for that.

Sincerely, if your doctor will not listen to your concerns or test to eliminate conditions, you probably need a new doctor.

P.S. I do suggest staying off of WebMD unless you have a healthy level of cynicism or a good reality check in a friend, because it's really easy to go from searching about headaches to becoming convinced that you might have a brain tumor, just from the way symptoms are listed. It does happen to the best of us at times.

P.P.S. If you gut tells you that absolutely something is wrong, even if your web searches don't find it and the first or second round of tests don't find it, keep searching and listening to your body. I never doubt true gut feelings - but it's so hard to know which is true. Basically, if you don't feel like you, pursue every avenue. We're our own best advocates of health.

How did your dr appointment go? Did you get any insights?