Up 1.6lbs and I feel like crapola.

GothicsDarkAngel
GothicsDarkAngel Posts: 78 Member
edited November 24 in Social Groups
I know it isn't fat gain. I know it isn't diet. I KNOW it is the fact that I recently started exercising consistently (heck I'm still sore). My diet has been on point 1200-1400 cals a day. I KNOW I had hella sodium and moderate carbs yesterday.

But still....I'm upset.
~sigh~

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  • alevans4
    alevans4 Posts: 37 Member
    I'm fighting the same thing this week. January was by far the most total pounds lost for me in a month since I started, and this first week of February it feels like my body is fighting back! I may actually end up with a gain for the week, which would be my first in a non-vacation week. It's a little puzzling because physically, I'm feeling so good; walking more and better than I have since the start.

    I'm just going to keep at it though. It'll go in the right direction again :smile:
  • kwiris0328
    kwiris0328 Posts: 51 Member
    I'm sure it's just a stall. Keep doing everything you are and it will start to come off again. Hopefully with a big loss! That's what happens to me.
  • theowlbox
    theowlbox Posts: 912 Member
    edited February 2018
    Since it's not very comforting to say "weight loss isn't linear" I won't say that.
    Instead I'll say, ugh, I agree. I try hard to be positive, but sometimes it's a bummer. Sometimes it just sucks to see a higher number. Boo hiss. Super boo hiss. I'm sending you good thoughts and support because it's a drag.

    (But, if you are in the mood to read what helps me, give it a gander. It may or may not be helpful. Who am I? )

    Ok, so what helps me to move through it is to remember that you're going to have a range, everyday, of what your body can fluctuate. Between digestion, food intake, TOM, sodium, illness, and muscle inflammation (not to mention naked vs clothing) we can be up or down many pounds throughout the day. And because we're bigger it can be more than some other people fluctuate.

    Here are 2 examples:

    https://www.womenshealthmag.com/weight-loss/weight-fluctuation-experiment

    https://vitals.lifehacker.com/what-i-learned-from-weighing-myself-15-times-in-a-day-1795332801

    So in general, unless I'm up past my range of around 10 lbs, I try to imagine that it's roughage or hydration. Because if I'm right, excellent, I didn't beat myself up for no reason. And if I'm wrong, it doesn't matter, because being positive and moving forward is way more helpful than imagining it was the nachos you had on Wednesday and lamenting your dumb book club's choice of venue and your weak will and why you didn't exercise and...and... exhausting and who cares. Do better now, maybe don't dwell too long on missed opportunities and take an optimistic rather than pessimistic or punitive stance. And then, days or weeks later when it's shaken out, you will know how small of a deal it really was.

    Have a good night, watch Lucifer on Fox, get good sleep, and just take good care of yourself. It's a bummer, but i hope it doesn't stay a bummer. This is a lifelong thing and the less painful you can make the bumps, the better it can feel.
  • bmeadows380
    bmeadows380 Posts: 2,981 Member
    Exercise will do that to me. If I spend a day doing strenuous labor, such as cleaning house, back when I was painting the house, carrying lumber, remodeling, packing and unpacking boxes, etc, my weight would always go up a good 2 lbs or more and stay there for 2 or 3 days. Its probably because my body is repairing muscle, I think - water weight. And I've noticed that if, ahem, the "tubes" are clogged, I'll be up. A heavy dinner will make me go up. It really does fluctuate from day to day and week to week, and when those fluctuations happen, that's when looking at an over all trend is more beneficial - as long as the trend is going down, you're doing fine!

    It really is frustrating, though, and I sympathize greatly with you! I'm in the same boat - I had a fantastic loss the week before last, stalled out last week and was actually up a bit because of TOM, and now, even though I don't expect a loss because my will power has been horrible this week, the scale is stubbornly holding to the 3 lbs from last week. I KNOW I haven't eaten so much that I've gained 3 lbs in 2 weeks; I was over my calorie limit, yes, but I'm set at 1,000 below maintenance, so worst case scenario I was eating maintenance, and I doubt I was even over by that much. But that scale is being stubborn! However, I'm having physical issues this week carrying over from last week, I'm tired, I'm feeling bloated, and I truly think its water weight.

    but yeah, my head might know its water, but my heart is still frustrated beyond belief and a little panicky!
  • Mellykay88
    Mellykay88 Posts: 307 Member
    Exercise did that to me when I started going to the gym last month. The scale pretty much stalled up until last week. Then suddenly I lost about 8 lbs in a week. It’s weird how this works. If it helps, you may want to give the scale a break for a few days. I know I lose motivation sometimes when the scale isn’t reflecting my hard work.
  • Mellykay88
    Mellykay88 Posts: 307 Member
    edited February 2018
    BTW... the 2 weeks or so before my period I tend to stall out. But I make up for it after my period when I usually see a huge WOOOSH.
  • rabidhamster87
    rabidhamster87 Posts: 74 Member
    edited February 2018
    Ugh. I hate that! I don't want to say we have it harder, but I think it can be especially frustrating as a lady since we have additional fluctuations to deal with. I'm sure you'll have a big drop soon if you just stay the course!
  • CheezWhiz88
    CheezWhiz88 Posts: 116 Member
    I felt myself in the past week going off course, and I am not even sure why. This has happened to me before, and everytime it has, I end up giving up. Since I refuse to have this be just another failed attempt, I weighed myself this morning. Down 9.4 since my initial weigh in. I have no doubt it was more than that, and I gained some back, but ignorance is bliss and I am going to get back to doing exactly what I was doing week one. You all have been hugely inspirational and I think most of us will occasionally stumble in this journey, but we owe it to ourselves to get back up and keep going.
  • bmeadows380
    bmeadows380 Posts: 2,981 Member
    @CheezWhiz88 That's awesome! I've been struggling the last several weeks with the blahs myself and find myself going off course pretty badly. Yep - it doesn't matter if I have to stumble or crawl, what matters is that I don't give up and keep moving forward.

    That's one thing I'm discovering after being in this a year: you are not going to keep the momentum going that you start with and there's going to be good days and weeks and bad days and weeks. It's not going to be steady and there are times when that darn road has potholes big enough to swallow a buffalo, and there are times the going is going to be good and other times when its a crawl and you feel like your stuck in rush hour traffic in LA in the summer :)

    What I'm slowly figuring out is that I've got to learn to be patient and forgiving with myself (easier said than done!), learn when to compromise with myself and when to be firm - sometimes dealing with myself is like dealing with a cranky 2 year old.....Anyway, I'm still moving forward, and it doesn't matter when I finally get to goal - the key is to get there!
  • @CheezWhiz88 that’s awesome progress, well done you.

    I think @bmeadows380 is exactly right too, there are times when it’s a painful crawl but we’ve got a great group here for Support so we can keep each other going!
  • amy_kee
    amy_kee Posts: 694 Member
    Awww, I really wish I could weigh myself at home. At a Dr. visit this week, I weighed 334. So, I recorded that weight. I have a nice scale at home, but, I bought it at a time when I weighed less and was just positive that I would never again get over 330 lbs, it's weight limit. Anyway, my scale gets a little freaky when I weigh in the 320's on it. I like my scale as it's very accurate at weights less than 320. So, I'm going to try and get back below 320, then re-start weighing at home for my official weight.
  • GothicsDarkAngel
    GothicsDarkAngel Posts: 78 Member
    @amy_kee for what it is worth, my husband is larger, and we got a scale that goes up to 440lbs off of Amazon for like $30.
  • rabidhamster87
    rabidhamster87 Posts: 74 Member
    @amy_kee I know how you feel! I had one of those expensive Withings wireless scales and I think I broke it by going over the weight limit! When I first started trying to lose weight in December it called me 397 and apparently the weight limit is 396. The next time I weighed on it, it was telling me all kinds of crazy things, jumping back and forth between numbers and even fluctuating within 100 lbs!! It said my fiance weighed 86 lbs! :D I tell myself that it broke because it got wet (which it did get wet!) but I worry that the truth is I crushed it. Anyway, I ended up getting one of those doctor-like scales off amazon to replace it because I don't really trust the digital ones after that.
  • That's interesting to know about the digital ones. I've got a digital scale and hadn't checked if it had a weight limit. I just assumed they'd be fine. I'm a little wary of changing scales in the middle of this though. They might add 20lbs!
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