I feel similar to you ladies on a few cases. I reached my lowest adult weight a few years ago when I was in a relationship with a different man who told me I should lose weight. I lost it and I felt great but the relationship ultimately didn't work out and I found my current partner. We put on all our weight together and we are both trying to lose it now before we get married next year. We both tend to just enjoy food and eat a lot without control. But even though we don't snack on junk food that much we still tend to gain weight.

I am not a super active person and I don't particularly enjoy exercise when I could just be quiet at home instead. However I will be ...trying... to add more exercise. Luckily I am a university teacher so I once classes start I will be on my feet and busy most of the day. And I have to walk to the bus stop and walk through my university campus so hopefully that will count for something.

I think I tend towards the side of anxiety and depression with insomnia, though I am not serious enough to be diagnosed with a disorder I do have that slightly underlying aspect that I am sure could come out full force if I don't take care of myself. The insomnia was very bad in 2016 and 2017 and on those nights when I was awake all night or most of the night I was absolutely starving all the time. It made thinking about diet and exercise impossible. Hopefully I don't go through that kind of thing again! It sucks!