Something you WISH you had

mznisaelaine
mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
edited October 5 in Social Groups
I wish I could go on a date.....A REAL one....Never went on any good ones with my ex.... Being that I only had one boyfriend ever, I never been on a date as a single person. I dont know what to do, how it works, etc. So thats my wish...What's yours?

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  • skierxjes
    skierxjes Posts: 926 Member
    A man. haha Not even a boyfriend, but someone to hang out with, go to the gym with and push me. Girls just don't do that
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    I wish I was in a relationship period. Never even been in one ever. And I'm 25. Makes me feel pathetic. Ah well, maybe one day.
  • skierxjes
    skierxjes Posts: 926 Member
    I wish I was in a relationship period. Never even been in one ever. And I'm 25. Makes me feel pathetic. Ah well, maybe one day.

    Tell me about it. I'm a few weeks shy of 22 and have virtually been single all my life. I went to some bridal thing yesterday. Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I wish I was in a relationship period. Never even been in one ever. And I'm 25. Makes me feel pathetic. Ah well, maybe one day.


    You need to come to Cali then? :)

    Oh P.S. Your not pathetic :(
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I wish I was in a relationship period. Never even been in one ever. And I'm 25. Makes me feel pathetic. Ah well, maybe one day.

    Tell me about it. I'm a few weeks shy of 22 and have virtually been single all my life. I went to some bridal thing yesterday. Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    Awwww! It has nothing to do with looks ok... That GUY will show up :):)
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
    Confidence and courage.
  • nananie2
    nananie2 Posts: 272 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...

    Wow. Really? Nice generalization. And on a fitness site of all places.
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...

    or maybe the people giving them the rings see them as prettier than you?
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    I wish I was in a relationship period. Never even been in one ever. And I'm 25. Makes me feel pathetic. Ah well, maybe one day.

    I was single until I was 25. So if you're pathetic I am, too! It will happen :smile:
  • I wish I had the power to make all of your wishes come true!
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...

    or maybe the people giving them the rings see them as prettier than you?

    You don't have to be mean about it..... She made it known that she didn't try to be mean about what she said...
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...

    or maybe the people giving them the rings see them as prettier than you?

    You don't have to be mean about it..... She made it known that she didn't try to be mean about what she said...

    First of all, the person making the second quote did not state that.
    Second, it's ok for her to put down fat and ugly women and suggest that they settle for less, you let that one slip. But when someone comments that ugly is more than just what you look like on the outside, you take offense to that?
  • WarriorMom2012
    WarriorMom2012 Posts: 621 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...

    or maybe the people giving them the rings see them as prettier than you?

    You don't have to be mean about it..... She made it known that she didn't try to be mean about what she said...

    I think she meant that others look at the people she referred to as "large and ugly" and see them as pretty, whereas the person above sees them as ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I've developed feelings for people after getting to know them better. Beauty comes from the inside!
  • zozilla09
    zozilla09 Posts: 45 Member
    I wish I had the drive and determination to fully see my weight loss through to the end. I wish that I loved myself as unconditionally as I have other people. So....I'm working on all these things.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    I wish hmmmmmm nope actually I dont lol. Im pretty happy with my live right now. I had a good weekend lol:blushing:
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Talk about depressing seeing a bunch of women larger and uglier than you (that sounds conceited and i don't mean it to) with rings on

    But who gave them those rings? Sometimes "large and ugly" women settle for very little...

    or maybe the people giving them the rings see them as prettier than you?

    You don't have to be mean about it..... She made it known that she didn't try to be mean about what she said...


    But what she said was mean,what I said was not any worse
  • skierxjes
    skierxjes Posts: 926 Member
    Ugly was actually more the personality than looks. Getting shoved around because I wasn't a bride to be, getting my hand checked if I had a ring on, getting dirty looks. It wasn't only from the larger women, but they did it more and more rude than anyone else.
  • scapez
    scapez Posts: 2,018 Member
    I do wish I was in a relationship right now...but I think a little more "me" time is in order first. This will be the first non-relationship Christmas that I've had in some time and rather than focus on being single, I'm going to be looking outside of myself and spending lots of time with friends.

    Also - please try to stay on topic - the 'beauty on the inside' sub-topic has the potential to get heated. Thanks much.
  • liveinthemix
    liveinthemix Posts: 360 Member
    oops.
  • liveinthemix
    liveinthemix Posts: 360 Member
    Confidence and courage.

    ^^ that.
  • I wish I was already in my career. That way I could even worry about moving onto the next stage in life. I don't plan on getting married I guess until I already have my career set and find the right woman. I am in no rush whatsoever; hence, I will be closer to 30 when this happens haha.
  • LexieSweetheart
    LexieSweetheart Posts: 793 Member
    that I cared less about what people thought about me
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    I feel like a heel reading all the "I wish I had a relationship" comments... what *I* really wish for is right now is a HUGE chunk of money so I can pay off this divorce debt NOW instead of taking 6 years! Does that make me shallow? Lol! I'm already vain so I guess I shouldn't be surprised. ;-)
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    I wish I was in a relationship period. Never even been in one ever. And I'm 25. Makes me feel pathetic. Ah well, maybe one day.

    Better to wait and get it right than to get married too soon and end up divorced 15-20 years later
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I wish I had a first kiss! Just so I would feel more confident in talking to guys. I feel like the little baby who has no experience, and sometimes that holds me back around guys.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    I wish I had a first kiss! Just so I would feel more confident in talking to guys. I feel like the little baby who has no experience, and sometimes that holds me back around guys.

    that's how I feel. just minus the kiss part and swap out the guys with girls. I've had 1 relationship and it was in high school. so I have had some experience but it's been so long I may as well have had none.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I wish I had my own jet. Since I never find guys that live by me it would really make it easier on these long distance things I fall into. Also my sister lives in Europe so I could fly over an meet her at any time and visit my friends and family back in MN. Not to mention all the sporting events I could go to. Yes I wish I had my own jet.
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