Setting realistic goals?

dubist
dubist Posts: 279 Member
edited October 5 in Social Groups
Hey group.
wanting to set some realistic weight loss goal dates but don't want to set myself up for failure. trying to keep the motivation up. it needs to be atainable but still a challange.
is there a formula for figuring out weight loss goal dates?

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  • Best bet is to stick to the 2lbs a week idea. You want to lose 100 lbs, then that's 50 weeks or almost a year. You can even go and say lose 100 lbs in ten months and you'd still be in the clear.

    I'm going for ten pounds a month! I said I'd lose 30 lbs by new years and I'm at almost twenty and I'm halfway there. I'll say another 30 lbs by April 1st, and then another 30 by August 1st. Of course it will get harder the more I lose because I'll have to work for it more.
  • mamasyd
    mamasyd Posts: 80 Member
    Early in my process I was looking at 10 - 12 pounds per month, sometime hitting a bit more. Now, closer to the finish line, a pound a week is my goal. That may even have to be modified soon as I am on the final 16 pounds before my goal. Losing it slowly is MUCH better than the adrenalin rush of a quick drop. It gives you a better chance to do this in a way that is both healthy and long-lasting.

    My journey has been just over three years, but there was a break of more than a year after losing the first 60 before continuing on due to some health issues. Actual time losing weight has been right at two years. I found that there are other goals besides numbers, though, that can help along the way. Clothing items can be very motivating. Getting 'back into' that outfit you loved or being able to fit into something that you wore at a significant point in your life can be really rewarding. Being to a weight that marks a certain point in life (for me it was things like what I weighed when I delivered each of my daughters, what I weighed when I got married, etc). I have tried to have 'mini goals' along the way that were never farther than 30 pounds away. There is a sense of accomplishment and it spurs you on to keep plugging away.
  • amy_p
    amy_p Posts: 82
    I am having the same experience as Mamasyd.. When I first started out, 10-12 lbs per month was average. As I got closer to 1 year and 120lbs, it started slowing down to about 6-8lbs per month. I don't mind that much that it is slowing down, because the slower you go, the better chance your skin will tighten up too. That's what I'm hoping, anyway.

    I don't have issues with motivation. I'm very robotic; once I'm started, I will go till the end. I am physically unable to half-*kitten* the process, lol.
  • Gary1977
    Gary1977 Posts: 804 Member
    Hello group! My weight loss has been @ a bit higher rate. I planned to lose only 150lbs the first year but I blew that right out of the water. My new goal for year one is 250lbs, This will be in early March. I'm currently down 227(ticket only shows 217 as I only officially post weight once per month). Last month for example, I lost 24 pounds. Maybe since I had SO MUCH to lose is why, not sure. Work hard & about anything is possible.


    P.S. Before anyone asks, no surgery, no magic pills. Just hard work & dedication to calorie counting. Good luck to everyone!
  • I try not to go with dates as my goals because that sets me up for failure if I mis-calculate or something happens to slow down my weight loss. My first goal is simply to lose 10% of my body weight. Then I will move to the next 10%, etc. I just want to see a steady downward progression as I go. Each person loses differently.
  • stephaniezoundi
    stephaniezoundi Posts: 1,148 Member
    I don't do numerical goals as my brain freaks out and I self - sabotage. I try to set exercise and nutrition related challenges instead - both of which egg on the weight loss :bigsmile:
  • herstrawberri
    herstrawberri Posts: 347 Member
    I don't do 'dates' either. I do 10lb mini goals. i find not focusing on the 'big' number helps me. I maintain a 10-12 lb weight loss each month. I did lose weight at a much faster rate when i first started, but I think that was because I was very large and really was gung ho with my low carb eating. Now, I'm a little less regimented but I still maintain a strict calorie and carb count each day. I'm in this for the long haul. It's not just a 'diet' for me. It's a total lifestyle change.
  • BrandyRelaxing
    BrandyRelaxing Posts: 68 Member
    I totally set dates. But I set them in 5-10 pound increments. If you hit my profile, you'll see how they were set. Once I achieve one goal, I assess the date for the next. I try to take into account vacations which may stall my weight loss, and other things that may make my weight loss increase or decrease. Usually though, on 10 pounds (for me), I do 6 weeks. Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it is hard, it just depends on what is going on in my life, and I am more encouraged by being successful at my goals, than pushing myself super hard to try to meet an impossible goal. But that's just me!
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