wow... how long have you been married? I think that part of marraige is indulging in those sexual desires of your spouse (with in reason... I draw the line at bodily fluids that are not normaly part of sex). Or allowing them to explore them with someone else. she could watch

my other half is a little shy but i am not lol. i always just jokingly say things like "i'd love it if ___ and then i'll go buy the milk we need" or something weird like that. he just laughs but then will give it a try without saying anything about it. then if he does it again i know he likes it lol.

I'm a freak and my fiance knows this. I think a little kink here and there is a complete turn on

I'm completely freaky too but my wife and me don't have sex anymore. So I do what I need to do....;)

\For me the issue would be less the fetish and more about the framework of communication and acceptance in the relationship. For me there are two key issues here. 1) you have to be able to be open about who you are. This is currently an aspect of who you are that is locked away and largely unexplored. A relationship should be about supporting and joining in exploration. 2) exploration should include all of both of your fantasies and sometimes even one that outside of that realm.

This may fall into the range of too much information. When I was younger I had a girl friend who was into BDSM. Though this was not particularly my thing, I learned a lot and found new pleasures. There was one area that I was especially resistant to. It seemed that a lot of her sexual desires where born in her difficult childhood. She had been emotionally abused and relished a certain kind of humiliation in sex. We explored some of this together and I tried to temper it with a good deal of positive reinforcement. Her ability to share this openly with me created an amazing bond of trust and vulnerability that made our sexual connection especially intense. I was amazed at how much love could create transcendence. In time her fantasies became mine.

There is a fun group for those who live the fetish lifestyle or are curious about fetishes. It's a no-judgement zone and a private group. If anyone would like an invite please let me know.

I've been in the alternative lifestyle for a few years and love to share advice, experiences.



Lew- Be open and honest. You would be surprised how many times I've discovered that people are actually really cool with things most people assume to be taboo. I discovered my bf's foot fetish when he simply tried something and I went along with it. Turns out we both got pleasure from in and now we have something new to share.

There is a fun group for those who live the fetish lifestyle or are curious about fetishes. It's a no-judgement zone and a private group. If anyone would like an invite please let me know.

I've been in the alternative lifestyle for a few years and love to share advice, experiences.



Lew- Be open and honest. You would be surprised how many times I've discovered that people are actually really cool with things most people assume to be taboo. I discovered my bf's foot fetish when he simply tried something and I went along with it. Turns out we both got pleasure from in and now we have something new to share.
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This is not about me, Lol. This is a article repost. But I do love a woman with sexy feet, my wifes feet are adorable and i let her know it allllll the time :-)

AHHH Got ya

I know what you mean, I am afraid of asking my hubby for stuff that he may not see me the same way. It is frightening because it is my hubby and I love the way he loves me, I am afraid if he sees me differently then he may not love me the same way. Those little looks and glances of him checking me out or just admiring me for instance....

He has brought it up jokingly once and I did tell him lets do it!!! but I kind of say that to almost anything and I think he took it as a joke :laugh:

It we were just boy dating or if I didn't adore him as much as I do it would be different, I wouldn't worry so much about what he thinks of me or how high or low he holds me in his heart and mind.

I am waiting for the time to arise a gain and then I will say something other than let do it!! and more serious but along those same lines.

Hope you find a way to talk with her sweetie, and a foot fetish really isn't that bad at all. It is kind of sweet cause as a woman we want all of our body to be loved. It's funny cause you will probably say mine isn't that bad at all either, mine isn't a fetish just something I would like to try that I have never done.