Seriously?
twinsanity
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Ok, crap like this has always pissed me off, but for some reason, this one got me damn near boiling. In one of the public forums here, the question was posed is it normal for men to like to have their *kitten* 'tickled'...touched, whatever. The replies back were ridiculous. Then it happened...'Do you think it's a gay thing? Maybe he's bi.' Seriously? Just because a man is open minded enough to enjoy a touch that feels good to him, why does that have to make him gay, or bi? I tried to be as respectful as I could, but I was fuming when I wrote that reply. I just simply don't get it.
I know this is crap I hear all the time, and I'm sure you do as well. How do you handle things like this? Does it make you mad/sad/upset/hurt? How do you respond?
I know this is crap I hear all the time, and I'm sure you do as well. How do you handle things like this? Does it make you mad/sad/upset/hurt? How do you respond?
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Me? I become a snarky s.o.b. and do my best to make idiots regret being born.
I have issues. Don't emulate me.0 -
I love you, Brett! You always make me smile!0
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Having a closed mind is a terrible waste.
I agree with you 100%
Sad thing is really what those ignorant people's sex lives must be like :yawn:0 -
It really pisses me off too. My last bf never had any plan on being involved with another man, but he did like me playing with him. My current bf is bi and loves it too. That's kinda like saying a straight woman must be bi if she likes receiving oral...0
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Funny you should say that...read my reply to the original post. I put in there that an open mind is a terrible thing to waste!Having a closed mind is a terrible waste.
...and for the record, the mouth was open when I got here, too...coincidence? I think not!
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*sigh*
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*sigh*
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*headdesk* idiocy. that's all i can say.0
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While this might have not been quite the topic discussed, here's a fun fact:
Having a normal, expected response to prostate stimulation doesn't make someone a big ol' queen or nelly bottom.
People have a very narrow and uniformed view of what it means "to be gay." Ignorance can be frustrating.0 -
Really? I thought only gay men had prostate glands...
It's sad that in our culture so many men's identities are grounded in fear of effeminacy, which is represented by the archetypal "fairy." And effeminacy/femininity is equated with weakness. How beautiful maleness would be without that cast of fear.0 -
Gotta love people. .-.0
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im not sensitive really so most things dont upset me. being called a cracker or a spick never does and i think its a matter of whether you choose to allow it to bother you. i think the society we live in has created this sense of humor that "*kitten*" is a funny term and a gay joke is the norm.
im not saying its okay, but its just what they know... like saying something is "so gay" or saying someone is "white trash" then saying "well they must have lived in a trailer" or someone is "ghetto" must have grown up in the projects or harlem... or "a muslim is OBVIOUSLY a terrorist"
people want this to end, but in reality to stop all people from ever picking on anyone is unrealistic because people tend to be *kitten* and this same society makes them think it's okay to say what you want... freedom of speech means freedom to pick on... anyone... gay, straight, black, white, christian, athiest, muslim. it is a matter of upbringing and propriety and children that are raising children with a blunt in hand now a days are not teaching their kids compassion or propriety, because noone can really define this.0
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