Struggles, Confessions, Obstacles....Lay them out here!

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So, this group is constantly growing (so exciting) and I feel that there should always be constant advice, tips, suggestions, and etc...going on here to make sure everyone is happy and getting healthy/fit.

I know for me I've tried losing weight several times and I failed so many times. So so sooo many times. A lot of that came from different things I dealt with that I never spoke about.

I created this group so that we can express those things that may have or that do keep us from progressing. There are always obstacles that we come in contact with when on a path to bettering ourselves and its better to have people that care you can express those issues with to rather than just hold it all in.

We are all here to help and come up with ways and strategies to reach the finish line :)
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  • SammyPacks
    SammyPacks Posts: 697 Member
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    This is a great post LoLo! I'm loving this group btw! :)

    I'd like to definitely spill some beans out... I noticed when I was really trying to lose weight (seriously trying to a point where I would be so sad if I didn't even lose .1 pounds per week!) I would get so discouraged, but there are a few tips I want to give to some of the ladies out there!

    1. Drink lots of water! Girls bloat easily... and drinking water helps that and actually cuts down your water weight! Though there is still some things that aren't quite 100% sure... water is still good to drink! 8 glasses of water a day!
    2. Do NOT, I repeat DO NOT weigh yourself anywhere near your period. It will just be a huge disappointment. Girls are notorious for (here it goes again) their water weight on their period. I usually gain a good 5 pounds on my period... So you girls won't be discouraged, just stay away from the scale.
    3. If you're feeling like even though you lost 10 pounds n you can't see a difference (that was my biggest demotivator right there... not seeing change) then I suggest going to the success posts on this site. They got me through late nights where all I wanted to do is cry and eat some sweets!

    I hope these little tips will help you girls out any way possible. Weight loss is so hard, even for me still... but it does get easier!
  • colleen_mairead
    colleen_mairead Posts: 36 Member
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    Alrighty here we go. Great topic idea, I'm telling' ya. When I was in high school I did Atkins with my mom, huge huge mistake. I stuck to it and lost 30 pounds in only a few weeks but I fainted after getting out of the shower one night. So I don't recommend it, especially with all the bad publicity it's been getting.

    I am an emotional eater, hence all the weight gain. I broke up with my boyfriend in February and it's been rough sailing since, but i'm getting there! Slowly but surely!

    The things that help me most are: writing everything down, progress, work-out plans, shopping lists, feelings, ideas, everything and anything. My family is a good help too, they're supportive but most of all they're honest.

    So there ya go! I accepted everyones adds by the way, good luck everyone!
  • BretagneNoel
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    I've always been afraid to try diets, since I have heard so much about how women who are on them tend to bounce back when they stop. When I was in high school, it didn't matter because I was in the pool 2-4 hours every day and I could eat what I wanted. As soon as I graduated, though, I kept up with those eating habits because my brain wanted that food and so I gained weight. Now I've come to realize that weight loss isn't sustainable without healthy eating habits and regular exercise.

    I can foresee some struggles with this plan: for instance, tonight my boyfriend and I planned on going to a friend's house for a home-cooked meal, but then my boyfriend's cold got worse as the day went on, so now we're at home and the only thing in the fridge is frozen pizza. I told him about this site and he wants to help tailor dinner to meet my goals, but it's still tough to plan for everything. I also didn't exercise as much as I wanted today, which was mainly my fault. Life just gets in the way some times, but you just have to keep going. :smile:

    To add to SammyPacks' advice...

    1) Make sure you're getting enough sleep. We're all in college, and we know how hard it is, but your body will thank you for it. Not only does proper sleep help with weight loss (as some recent studies have shown), but you won't feel as cranky and stressed out the next day.

    2) Try not to drink too much. I'm not implying that all of you are hard drinkers, of course, but parties happen, and not only are hangovers not very fun, but even I forget sometimes that alcohol is very sugary and adds lots of calories.

    3) If you're going to work out, choose something that you love. The most intense workout DVD will not work if you stop doing it.

    Good luck!
  • MsAziz
    MsAziz Posts: 71 Member
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    This is a great group!!!!
    I have a couple of tips and tricks that I've learnt that have shown results for me;
    1. To DRINK lots of WATER like Sammy said. But I also drink 1 cup of WARM water with LEMON JUICE every morning. The lemon juice helps your metabolism and promotes detoxing the body, regulates blood pressure and results in healthier looking skin and most importantly helps WEIGHT LOSE! (by reducing the desire to eat as well as helping to breakdown and eliminate body fat). I aim for at least two cups a day. It really truly helps so drink away girls.

    2. Powdered Cinnamon is great for weight lose too; just sprinkle some(1 to 2 tea spoons) on your oatmeal, cereal or whatever you have for breakfast. It helps to control your blood sugar levels so its great for you. I love the taste of it too some people don't but it wouldn't hurt you to try :)

    3. Listening to MUSIC whilst I'm running. I listen to my ipod when ever i'm jogging. It helps to get my mind off the pain/discomfort I'm feeling and to keep going.

    4. Calorie counters. I use the one on my ipod shuffle just like the music it really helps to motivate you to keep you going.

    Okay I can't think of anymore right now but i'm really excited to hear everyone elses ideas :)
  • MsAziz
    MsAziz Posts: 71 Member
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    Just remembered two more things that help;
    5. CALCIUM really really helps as well because it converts some calories into heat rather than more body fat. If you don't get enough Calcium in your diet it could be signalling your body to make more fat!!! so eat at least 3 serves of dairy a day; but make sure its low in fat and ALSO sugar (don't get fooled into think fat free means less calories, it usually has more sugar added to it!).
  • adimeadance
    adimeadance Posts: 7 Member
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    LOVE this group! One of my biggest challenges is my schedule. I'm a full-time grad student and I have a full-time job. I'm currently preparing to take my comprehensive exams and the praxis in order to graduate and obtain my temporary license to practice after graduation. I find myself grabbing fast food often b/c I don't have time to make or pack my meals or b/c I'm often eating in the car on the go. Also, it's difficult to find time to work out. I know you all can relate because most college students have full, busy schedules! I'm interested to learn what you gals do to make time for working out and how you maintain a healthy diet despite the craziness. Any tips, tricks, or suggestions?

    A typical day in the life of me looks like this:
    6:30 AM Up to shower, eat breakfast, get ready for the day
    7:30 AM Catch the bus to practicum
    9:00 AM-3:00 PM Practicum
    3:20 PM Catch the bus to work
    4:30 PM- 8:30 PM Work
    9:00 PM- 12:00 AM Study
    12:00 AM- 6:30 AM Sleep
  • SammyPacks
    SammyPacks Posts: 697 Member
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    LOVE this group! One of my biggest challenges is my schedule. I'm a full-time grad student and I have a full-time job. I'm currently preparing to take my comprehensive exams and the praxis in order to graduate and obtain my temporary license to practice after graduation. I find myself grabbing fast food often b/c I don't have time to make or pack my meals or b/c I'm often eating in the car on the go. Also, it's difficult to find time to work out. I know you all can relate because most college students have full, busy schedules! I'm interested to learn what you gals do to make time for working out and how you maintain a healthy diet despite the craziness. Any tips, tricks, or suggestions?

    A typical day in the life of me looks like this:
    6:30 AM Up to shower, eat breakfast, get ready for the day
    7:30 AM Catch the bus to practicum
    9:00 AM-3:00 PM Practicum
    3:20 PM Catch the bus to work
    4:30 PM- 8:30 PM Work
    9:00 PM- 12:00 AM Study
    12:00 AM- 6:30 AM Sleep

    Wow you're busy! :(

    For food... I'd recommend you cook a meal that has multiple servings, that way you can pack your food up and store it so you can have it for tomorrow or the day after (as to save time cooking so much...). I'd also recommend buying healthy grab n go foods such as string cheese, yogurt, nuts, granola bars, etc.

    For exercise... it may seem more time consuming than it really is. I like to get at least 20-30 minutes of cardio into my routine, it really isn't that long at all... I'd recommend working out either in the morning before you shower, or before you get ready to take a shower before bed (if you do that).

    I'm sorry I don't have more advice D:
  • kjjfisher
    kjjfisher Posts: 11 Member
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    My biggest struggle like adimeadance is time and scheduling.... Full time student, part time job, wife and mommy is very challenging... I find myself eating out on the go and also overeating during the day in psychological fear that I am going to starve because my schedule is too hectic I'm not going to get another meal anytime soon. The later is never the case but in my head that's what I tell myself. Ive just switched to a new "diet" that I like and seems to be working out. Its a high protein, low carb diet and I'm eating 5 meals a day which makes me feel very comfortable... I'm never hungry, yet the calories are still low! However, we will see how I can stick to that diet during classes!
  • kjjfisher
    kjjfisher Posts: 11 Member
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    More spilling...
    Its also hard for me to work out at school even though my campus has a fully equipped kick butt gym with group exercise classes and all because I feel out of place. Does anyone else feel like this? Im extremely self conscience of my body and since Im older and post baby complete with cellulite and stretch marks I just cant compete with the 18 yo freshmen with perfect bodies!!! Uhhh... Its so depressing!!! Guess I've just got to put my big girl panties on and suck it up! ;)
  • megmay2591
    megmay2591 Posts: 621 Member
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    I used to eat a lot while just sitting at home doing homework or surfing the internet. I was really bad...I would eat multiple swiss roll cakes in one day and eat WAYYY more than I needed to for meals...filling my entire plate with pasta and meatballs.

    My college has Dec. 23-Jan. 20 off of classes (unless you take J-term) and I have been dedicating this month to starting to lose weight before I have to worry about classes. By the time classes start again, I will be in a routine and it won't be hard to maintain it.

    I weigh myself way too much though, I am only recording once a week (Fridays) and trying to ignore the numbers I see through out the week. I might make my boyfriend hide the scale in the trunk of his car.
  • MsAziz
    MsAziz Posts: 71 Member
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    LOVE this group! One of my biggest challenges is my schedule. I'm a full-time grad student and I have a full-time job. I'm currently preparing to take my comprehensive exams and the praxis in order to graduate and obtain my temporary license to practice after graduation. I find myself grabbing fast food often b/c I don't have time to make or pack my meals or b/c I'm often eating in the car on the go. Also, it's difficult to find time to work out. I know you all can relate because most college students have full, busy schedules! I'm interested to learn what you gals do to make time for working out and how you maintain a healthy diet despite the craziness. Any tips, tricks, or suggestions?

    A typical day in the life of me looks like this:
    6:30 AM Up to shower, eat breakfast, get ready for the day
    7:30 AM Catch the bus to practicum
    9:00 AM-3:00 PM Practicum
    3:20 PM Catch the bus to work
    4:30 PM- 8:30 PM Work
    9:00 PM- 12:00 AM Study
    12:00 AM- 6:30 AM Sleep

    You catch the bus alot maybe you should consider walking to practicum and to work instead. Or if that's too far maybe get off a couple stops earlier and walk that!
  • rougette66
    rougette66 Posts: 210 Member
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    I was taking online classes for the past year and DANGGGG i gainined 40 frkn lbs! I'm so happy that i switched out to campus classes instead. I was doing online classes bc i was working full time, but then i ended up losing my job. Now i get up at 6 am every morning, i workout for at least 30-60 min then i go to college. My campus is pretty big so easily walk a couple of miles while I'm there. My biggest temptations are the starbuck, peets coffee, and Jazzman. Oh my those are just the hubs for hangouts and of course yummy bistro coffee, which i can help but get almost everyday (trying not to burn a hole in my wallet is hard lol) i drink plenty of water, but past few days bc of my period i don't even want to eat anything and water intake is close to nothing. Im working on that though. Anyone have any ideas to make my coffee healthier? i usually get no whip with non-fat milk. i think its a good start :D Im constantly changing my workout routines every other week so i don't plateau. Its funny I'm reading this post and am like wow i sound so in control. pssht please i started all this since fall semester began, thats when i originally joined MFP, and honestly since then I've started eating SO much better! the am exercise started then to. Im on winter break till the 22. back to school on the 23, i hoping to fit back into my size 9 jeans again. Which used to be my fat jeans lol. I want to lose at least 10lbs by next month which according to mfp i should make by feb 10. Im hoping i do bc i am going to work damn hard to do it. it also helps that my bf is coming to visit me next month and i need to look good ^_^
  • rougette66
    rougette66 Posts: 210 Member
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    I used to eat a lot while just sitting at home doing homework or surfing the internet. I was really bad...I would eat multiple swiss roll cakes in one day and eat WAYYY more than I needed to for meals...filling my entire plate with pasta and meatballs.

    My college has Dec. 23-Jan. 20 off of classes (unless you take J-term) and I have been dedicating this month to starting to lose weight before I have to worry about classes. By the time classes start again, I will be in a routine and it won't be hard to maintain it.

    I weigh myself way too much though, I am only recording once a week (Fridays) and trying to ignore the numbers I see through out the week. I might make my boyfriend hide the scale in the trunk of his car.

    I kno exactly what you mean, i want to make the most of this break. When school starts up again why don't you just workout in the morning? Thats what i do. I just wake up a little more early so you can squeeze in a workout.
  • cneale91
    cneale91 Posts: 91 Member
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    Hey college ladies! im at university too (british girl here XD ) and i have just started out on this website and it is going to help me because i have an awful habit of picking and snacking through the day. And i dont know about you girls but it comes to dinner time in the evening and i dont know what to have so i will just knock up some pasta....not good ! so now i have made a meal plan and going to stick to it so i can keep track of what im eating plus i know what to cook, what to buy and most of all it is going to save me alot of money! Also i have invested in a bike to get me to and from the uni campus! feel free to add me its hard finding students on here!
  • littlemascara
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    LOVE this group! One of my biggest challenges is my schedule. I'm a full-time grad student and I have a full-time job. I'm currently preparing to take my comprehensive exams and the praxis in order to graduate and obtain my temporary license to practice after graduation. I find myself grabbing fast food often b/c I don't have time to make or pack my meals or b/c I'm often eating in the car on the go. Also, it's difficult to find time to work out. I know you all can relate because most college students have full, busy schedules! I'm interested to learn what you gals do to make time for working out and how you maintain a healthy diet despite the craziness. Any tips, tricks, or suggestions?

    A typical day in the life of me looks like this:
    6:30 AM Up to shower, eat breakfast, get ready for the day
    7:30 AM Catch the bus to practicum
    9:00 AM-3:00 PM Practicum
    3:20 PM Catch the bus to work
    4:30 PM- 8:30 PM Work
    9:00 PM- 12:00 AM Study
    12:00 AM- 6:30 AM Sleep

    You catch the bus alot maybe you should consider walking to practicum and to work instead. Or if that's too far maybe get off a couple stops earlier and walk that!

    I totally agree with this! I take the bus everywhere too and the end of the line for the bus I take to school is a nice 20-25 minute walk away from campus, so I get some automatic exercise Monday - Thursday that I wouldn't get if I transferred to another bus route. It's little things like that that'll really help.

    EDIT: Also, riding a bike to and from places would work too, if you have one.
  • keiagetsfit
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    Hey everyone!

    Do you guys have any tips for social situations, especially going out? I'm just thinking about what I should do about drinking. I don't drink like every weekend but I do tend to GO all out once in a while. Plus, whenever I drink I just get the munchies and want to eat everything in sight.... MERP to be thin or to have a social life... lol
  • andreacord
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    Hey Guys!

    I feel you about the obstacles. I had them, and nothing but in the last five months of 2012.

    1) Tore my quad in July .. that was THE hugest downer and demotivator for me, because I love running so much.

    2) As soon as my quad healed, I started having problems with my running shoes. I have orthodics in my shoes and now for some reason they slip and slide around in my shoes when I run/walk/elliptical/whatever and shift out of place and make it really painful to do cardio, or I have to get off the machine I'm using, take off my shoes, take out the insert, adjust, put back in .. and repeat 10 minutes later. It just became a nuisance to work out. (If anyone has any tips for this, please message me!)

    3) My Dad had a heart attack in mid-October and it put me in a huge funk food and exercise wise for the longest time, because they weren't and still aren't sure if he'll live but things are looking up now.

    4) I FINALLLY got out of my funk three weeks later and started hitting the gym again. Not two days after, my at the time boyfriend and I were in a car accident on the November long weekend during a road trip. I had a separated ac joint in my shoulder and was told to keep sedentary by the doctor I saw until today actually.

    2012 .. lets hope you're better to me .. and fix my shoe problem sooner!

    I am also a total compulsive weigher.
  • blondierandi
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    My problems:

    1) I am a compulsive weigher.
    2) Busy schedule, I am never home so I eat out a lot.
    3) Emotional eater. There was this guy that I am completely in love with, but it did not work out. When I miss him I want to eat.
    4) If I argue with myself, when it comes to food, my conscience generally loses
    5) Past anorexic, so it is easy for me to forget to eat, which slooooooows down my already super slow metabolism
  • amrabino
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    hey guys im brand new here! i have gone on plently of diets before and lost weight but keep gaining it back.. and more! i started my diet monday at 215 pounds. i lost 5 already though but im scared of gaining it back.. what are some good tips?
  • Nicolette_Karls
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    LOVE this group! One of my biggest challenges is my schedule. I'm a full-time grad student and I have a full-time job. I'm currently preparing to take my comprehensive exams and the praxis in order to graduate and obtain my temporary license to practice after graduation. I find myself grabbing fast food often b/c I don't have time to make or pack my meals or b/c I'm often eating in the car on the go. Also, it's difficult to find time to work out. I know you all can relate because most college students have full, busy schedules! I'm interested to learn what you gals do to make time for working out and how you maintain a healthy diet despite the craziness. Any tips, tricks, or suggestions?

    A typical day in the life of me looks like this:
    6:30 AM Up to shower, eat breakfast, get ready for the day
    7:30 AM Catch the bus to practicum
    9:00 AM-3:00 PM Practicum
    3:20 PM Catch the bus to work
    4:30 PM- 8:30 PM Work
    9:00 PM- 12:00 AM Study
    12:00 AM- 6:30 AM Sleep

    I don't know what type of studying you have to do, but walking on a treadmill while reading can be a rewarding workout. Another thing is if you are doing flashcards or something, you can walk up/down steps while someone quizzes you or do push ups/sit ups for everyone you get wrong. Just a few tips that won't interfere too much with your studying, but will hopefully be helpful. Good luck!