One for the men w/ online profiles...
scapez
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You see a girl's profile you like, and you email her.
She emails you back, complements your profile, and asks a general question about you (showing a level of interest).
You have been online in the days since receiving said email, but you don't respond.
Y U NO RESPOND??
You were the one that contacted me initially - so what gives? :huh:
She emails you back, complements your profile, and asks a general question about you (showing a level of interest).
You have been online in the days since receiving said email, but you don't respond.
Y U NO RESPOND??
You were the one that contacted me initially - so what gives? :huh:
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1. Sorry I was drunk and or horny
2. Since initial contact, said drunkenness or horniness has now subsided
3. I found God
4. I found another more suitable mate0 -
Probably sent the same email to a dozen or more and landed with the first one to respond back.:flowerforyou:0
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I guess I won't be making my profile this weekend
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I guess I won't be making my profile this weekend
You just REALLY need to keep an open mind, that's all.0 -
File this as one of the great mysteries of life
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Why worry about it online dating is numbers game and most of the people are full of BS...move on who cares why he didn't contact you back...contact someone else.0
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I guess I won't be making my profile this weekend
You just REALLY need to keep an open mind, that's all.
I was kidding. I'm very open minded
I thought of making a profile somewhere because where I live, everyone around here is lame and plus I'm waiting until my ex stops stalking me... Plus I don't know which site to choose etc. It would be all new to me 0 -
I'm not a man obviously but I did this myself this week.
There's this cute guy that I clicked on "want to meet" on POF.
He wrote me back and put me as a favorite.
I then favorited him.
I won't be contacting him right now.
Men seem to be much more simple (from their answers), but I'm still not 100% sure I'm ready to date so I hid my profile (yet again) and will wait it out for a bit. If I ever make up my mind and he's still available, I will go for him.0 -
Why worry about it online dating is numbers game and most of the people are full of BS...move on who cares why he didn't contact you back...contact someone else.
I'm not worried about it, I'm simply curious. And there's nothing to 'move on' from...0 -
One more possibility is that he saw a beautiful lady and said to himself.."I will take a chance".
When she responded it may have taken him by surprise if he didn`t think he was worth it so now has no idea what to do.0 -
One more possibility is that he saw a beautiful lady and said to himself.."I will take a chance".
When she responded it may have taken him by surprise if he didn`t think he was worth it so now has no idea what to do.
I agree with Carl's first assessment, he probably sent out dozens of "feelers" and found someone else that suits him more to his liking.0 -
One more possibility is that he saw a beautiful lady and said to himself.."I will take a chance".
When she responded it may have taken him by surprise if he didn`t think he was worth it so now has no idea what to do.
I agree with Carl's first assessment, he probably sent out dozens of "feelers" and found someone else that suits him more to his liking.
Booty grazing - no I haven't done it, don't have to with hair like this.0 -
One more possibility is that he saw a beautiful lady and said to himself.."I will take a chance".
When she responded it may have taken him by surprise if he didn`t think he was worth it so now has no idea what to do.
I agree with Carl's first assessment, he probably sent out dozens of "feelers" and found someone else that suits him more to his liking.
Booty grazing - no I haven't done it, don't have to with hair like this.
LOL well from reading other posts in this group, hair like that isn't the in thing these days. They seem to prefer men who shave their heads so you might be in trouble.0 -
One more possibility is that he saw a beautiful lady and said to himself.."I will take a chance".
When she responded it may have taken him by surprise if he didn`t think he was worth it so now has no idea what to do.
I agree with Carl's first assessment, he probably sent out dozens of "feelers" and found someone else that suits him more to his liking.
Yeah. That and tatts. I'm 0- for all that.
Booty grazing - no I haven't done it, don't have to with hair like this.
LOL well from reading other posts in this group, hair like that isn't the in thing these days. They seem to prefer men who shave their heads so you might be in trouble.
Yeah I'm 0- for all that. No tatts either0 -
I am not "they". I do prefer hair, but guys (in their 40's and 50's) with most/all of their hair are much rarer than those balding or shaving! If a great guy comes with a shiny dome so be it...but it's nice to be able to run your fingers through someone's hair.LOL well from reading other posts in this group, hair like that isn't the in thing these days. They seem to prefer men who shave their heads so you might be in trouble.0 -
I am not "they". I do prefer hair, but guys (in their 40's and 50's) with most/all of their hair are much rarer than those balding or shaving! If a great guy comes with a shiny dome so be it...but it's nice to be able to run your fingers through someone's hair.LOL well from reading other posts in this group, hair like that isn't the in thing these days. They seem to prefer men who shave their heads so you might be in trouble.
I have all mine 0 -
You see a girl's profile you like, and you email her.
She emails you back, complements your profile, and asks a general question about you (showing a level of interest).
You have been online in the days since receiving said email, but you don't respond.
Y U NO RESPOND??
You were the one that contacted me initially - so what gives? :huh:
a$$h0le friend logged /hacked/figured out password to said account and messaged girl without prior knowledge. days later found out and currently too busy hiding body of dead friend to reply back. :bigsmile:0 -
You see a girl's profile you like, and you email her.
She emails you back, complements your profile, and asks a general question about you (showing a level of interest).
You have been online in the days since receiving said email, but you don't respond.
Y U NO RESPOND??
You were the one that contacted me initially - so what gives? :huh:
Because he chickened out on his initial impulse.0 -
I don't have any dating profiles, and also kind of hesitant about those kinds of sites but if I were in that kind of situation I don't believe I would go about it like that. It sounds like they were randomly sending out messages to various women just to see who replies and from there I guess they pick out their preferred ones? Yea, normally the more weird ones would do things like that.
'sides MFP is better 0 -
You see a girl's profile you like, and you email her.
She emails you back, complements your profile, and asks a general question about you (showing a level of interest).
You have been online in the days since receiving said email, but you don't respond.
Y U NO RESPOND??
You were the one that contacted me initially - so what gives? :huh:
If this happens with me and a woman, it means....
1. She didn't keep my interest
AND/OR
2. I found someone who was more in line with what I was looking for0 -
Guys are *kitten* in general. They say they don't like "games", yet are attracted to the girls that play them. You responded with interest, so you are no longer interesting to him. Ignore him and he will be a puppy by your side.0
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I'm finding the same to be true from the women. I'm on Match... I'll get a few 'winks' and ice-breaker messages, and when I send a response... never hear from them again. I'm very polite and keep my reply short at first.
I have noticed that I tend to get Spam 'winks' on Match... that are essentially bogus accounts - case in point.. got 2 'winks' about an hour apart... both had the exact written details and personal content in their profiles, almost identical pics (same poses, makeup, face expression, and such), but both accounts were from different parts of the country. The plagiarized profiles is was gave it away.
Trust me, girls play the same games they claim to to hate men to play. I figure if I throw out enough hooks, I'll eventually catch me one worth keeping. :-)0 -
I'm finding the same to be true from the women. I'm on Match... I'll get a few 'winks' and ice-breaker messages, and when I send a response... never hear from them again. I'm very polite and keep my reply short at first.
I have noticed that I tend to get Spam 'winks' on Match... that are essentially bogus accounts - case in point.. got 2 'winks' about an hour apart... both had the exact written details and personal content in their profiles, almost identical pics (same poses, makeup, face expression, and such), but both accounts were from different parts of the country. The plagiarized profiles is was gave it away.
Trust me, girls play the same games they claim to to hate men to play. I figure if I throw out enough hooks, I'll eventually catch me one worth keeping. :-)
I have gotten them too and almost always is a ploy to get one to pay for a premium service to read the email.0 -
I have noticed that I tend to get Spam 'winks' on Match... that are essentially bogus accounts - case in point.. got 2 'winks' about an hour apart... both had the exact written details and personal content in their profiles, almost identical pics (same poses, makeup, face expression, and such), but both accounts were from different parts of the country. The plagiarized profiles is was gave it away.
Interesting...makes me never want to go on Match!
On a personal note, I hate winks and pre-generated profile interest messages. You don't have to write me volumes, but a little something personal as an icebreaker would be nice!0 -
I have noticed that I tend to get Spam 'winks' on Match... that are essentially bogus accounts - case in point.. got 2 'winks' about an hour apart... both had the exact written details and personal content in their profiles, almost identical pics (same poses, makeup, face expression, and such), but both accounts were from different parts of the country. The plagiarized profiles is was gave it away.
Interesting...makes me never want to go on Match!
On a personal note, I hate winks and pre-generated profile interest messages. You don't have to write me volumes, but a little something personal as an icebreaker would be nice! Hello this is an automated wink from Match.com 0 -
Reported. Oh wait...I would have to report to myself or you. Nevermind. :grumble: :drinker: Hello this is an automated wink from Match.com0 -
It really could be a number of things.
- He may have progressing things with someone else in the meantime (in that case, he probably should tell you, but figures you're there if this falls through).
- He noticed something in your profile that he didn't see the first time. He didn't see your rant on not being a booty call, and that's what he wanted at the time.
- His phone app makes it look like he's online, but he's not.
- He realized he's gay and has not changed what he's looking for.
- He's a jerk and figures playing hard to get will really turn you on.
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I have noticed that I tend to get Spam 'winks' on Match... that are essentially bogus accounts - case in point.. got 2 'winks' about an hour apart... both had the exact written details and personal content in their profiles, almost identical pics (same poses, makeup, face expression, and such), but both accounts were from different parts of the country. The plagiarized profiles is was gave it away.
Interesting...makes me never want to go on Match!
On a personal note, I hate winks and pre-generated profile interest messages. You don't have to write me volumes, but a little something personal as an icebreaker would be nice!
Hi...I'm JT...I think you have a great smile and look fantastic. I have been following your running accomplishments and must say I am quite impressed. I am free this weekend and wouldn't mind sharing a bottle of wine with you in say Dallas?0 -
I have noticed that I tend to get Spam 'winks' on Match... that are essentially bogus accounts - case in point.. got 2 'winks' about an hour apart... both had the exact written details and personal content in their profiles, almost identical pics (same poses, makeup, face expression, and such), but both accounts were from different parts of the country. The plagiarized profiles is was gave it away.
Interesting...makes me never want to go on Match!
On a personal note, I hate winks and pre-generated profile interest messages. You don't have to write me volumes, but a little something personal as an icebreaker would be nice!
Hi...I'm JT...I think you have a great smile and look fantastic. I have been following your running accomplishments and must say I am quite impressed. I am free this weekend and wouldn't mind sharing a bottle of wine with you in say Dallas?
I like THIS better than what you were saying in this thread originally! I'm be there with bells on...no wait, that's boots. And a dress.0 -
I would always respond.0
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