I mostly lurk. Sometimes I go to respond but usually I realize in time that what I say is too "inflammatory" or I lose interest. Or what I wanted to say has been said before.

Sometimes "inflammatory" is what we need in here, I love a good debate and opposing viewpoints.

It's usually in response to something I consider trivial that others are making a bit deal about. I find that when I try to express the "dude chill out" message it inevitably ends up with someone feeling insulted.

But hey, it's worth a try. If someone gets made at me I'll just say "Blame JThomas61! He told me to say things!"