A few struggles with my first week...tips?

brewerchick
brewerchick Posts: 70 Member
Howdy! Just finished my first week on MFP and Insanity. Here are some current struggles that I might let get me frustrated and lose focus. Any tips would help.

1) I'm still hungry. The more I work out the hungrier I get. I ate an entire footlong veggie sub today and I've never been able to do that. I'm still hungry now :frown: (granted I worked out 2x today) and am pretty good about eating enough protein, fiber etc. If I eat my exercise calories isn't it just a wash? :

2) They say not to eat before bed. I get why, are their certain foods to specifically avoid? I often work all day and don't get a break. I get home between 9 and 12 at night and naturally I need to eat especially since I'm on my feet. Tips for what to eat unless it's just the obvious of "being healthy." I usually cannot eat sooner so eating at night is going to happen. I try to snack at work but am limited to what I can carry on me and if I get time to mow it down. So the answer might be "If you are going to eat at night eat ____________." =)

3) I like boose.:drinker: I usually do vodka/water with Crystal light...but am getting sick of that. Any new low cal/carb drink options? I'm not going to completely quit drinking but at the same time I'd like to make better decisions. I do white wine often so I know how many calories are in a glass and can keep track. (Wine also makes me happy :laugh: and I don't do beer)

4) What's the quickest way to get rid of tummy fat. I just started running if I have time and energy but what else is great for burning fat in general?

These are my barriers...a little help would be appreciated. BTW, Happy Hump Day =):flowerforyou:

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  • Emv79
    Emv79 Posts: 245 Member
    1) I'm still hungry. The more I work out the hungrier I get. I ate an entire footlong veggie sub today and I've never been able to do that. I'm still hungry now :frown: (granted I worked out 2x today) and am pretty good about eating enough protein, fiber etc. If I eat my exercise calories isn't it just a wash? :
    If your using the net calorie goal on MFP, it already considers a deficit to allow for weight loss based on the settings you entered in your profile, so yes, you should eat back those workout calories to make sure that deficit it not too big (you should not "feel hungry"). MFP actually had me at 1200cal net and in the past month, I upped it twice (now 1750cal) and I've seen more weight loss now than at 1200... I actually feel like I'm eating all the time (but they are all clean foods).
    2) They say not to eat before bed. I get why, are their certain foods to specifically avoid? I often work all day and don't get a break. I get home between 9 and 12 at night and naturally I need to eat especially since I'm on my feet. Tips for what to eat unless it's just the obvious of "being healthy." I usually cannot eat sooner so eating at night is going to happen. I try to snack at work but am limited to what I can carry on me and if I get time to mow it down. So the answer might be "If you are going to eat at night eat ____________." =)
    From what I read, that's just not true. I once read "a calorie does not know at what time you ate it" which made sense to me. I workout after work, so I'm never able to have dinner until 9pm and I'm usually in bed by 10:30pm. The only restriction here, is that if you're like me and eating just before bed interferes with sleep, then just up your meals earlier in the day and just have something light at night. What you eat does not really matter in my mind.
    3) I like boose.:drinker: I usually do vodka/water with Crystal light...but am getting sick of that. Any new low cal/carb drink options? I'm not going to completely quit drinking but at the same time I'd like to make better decisions. I do white wine often so I know how many calories are in a glass and can keep track. (Wine also makes me happy :laugh: and I don't do beer)

    Sorry...no much of a drinker (special occasions, yes, but that's about it)
    4) What's the quickest way to get rid of tummy fat. I just started running if I have time and energy but what else is great for burning fat in general?

    You can't "target" fat loss. Your body choses where it lets go of fat and usually, it's not the first place you wanted. Since you say you started running, then add weight training to the mix to really get rid of that fat.

    That's my 10cents...
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    Whats your TDEE and your calorie goal, hard to say without this information?
  • jill92787
    jill92787 Posts: 158 Member
    Howdy! Just finished my first week on MFP and Insanity. Here are some current struggles that I might let get me frustrated and lose focus. Any tips would help.

    1) I'm still hungry. The more I work out the hungrier I get. I ate an entire footlong veggie sub today and I've never been able to do that. I'm still hungry now :frown: (granted I worked out 2x today) and am pretty good about eating enough protein, fiber etc. If I eat my exercise calories isn't it just a wash?

    You might not be eating enough, although I know that sounds counter-intuitive. The first week or two are hard for me whenever I start using MFP again (when I"m maintaining I don't really track food, but come back periodically to push through hard spots or if something happens and I slide a little back up). If you can get through that first 2 weeks, you'll be golden. Try to eat smaller amounts of food spaced throughout the day. For example 300 calories 5 times a day versus 500 calories 3 times a day, etc.

    To reallyl get a handle on how much you should be eating try going to http://www.fat2fitradio.com/tools it was very helpful for me to see that I wasn't eating nearly enough.
    2) They say not to eat before bed. I get why, are their certain foods to specifically avoid? I often work all day and don't get a break. I get home between 9 and 12 at night and naturally I need to eat especially since I'm on my feet. Tips for what to eat unless it's just the obvious of "being healthy." I usually cannot eat sooner so eating at night is going to happen. I try to snack at work but am limited to what I can carry on me and if I get time to mow it down. So the answer might be "If you are going to eat at night eat ____________." =)

    I don't ever follow this. I eat on a schedule that works for ME. If you try to completely follow someone else's schedule it won't work for you. If I feel really snacky at night and I know it's not healthy (I want junk food, I'm already over my calories for the day, etc) I will follow an old trick my weight lifting instructor taught me: drink 8-12 oz of water and wait 20-30 minutes. If you are still hungry (Legit hungry, not just bored) then you can have a snack after that. Usually the urge to grab a late night nibblet goes away for me if I do that.
    3) I like boose.:drinker: I usually do vodka/water with Crystal light...but am getting sick of that. Any new low cal/carb drink options? I'm not going to completely quit drinking but at the same time I'd like to make better decisions. I do white wine often so I know how many calories are in a glass and can keep track. (Wine also makes me happy :laugh: and I don't do beer)

    Honestly, I just budget it into my day. I have accepted that I like alcohol and that I don't want to give it up. I don't drink as much as I used to, but I do still drink, and on Saturdays it is game on. I'd rather workout an extra 2-3 times during the week and have my Saturday nights grilling out with the boys than not. As a fellow WI girl, I can tell you there are not easy ways around this. Yours seems pretty good. I also like to make my own girly drinks at home from fresh fruit instead of from mixers and such. It takes a lot of the excess processed sugar out of the equation, so I don't feel as bad. love making kiwi mojitos:

    http://jillskitchenadventures.blogspot.com/2012/03/homemade-kiwi-mojito.html

    You've just got to be creative and find stuff that you like. Otherwise you'll break and go for what's easy/cheap/tasty/horrible for you.

    4) What's the quickest way to get rid of tummy fat. I just started running if I have time and energy but what else is great for burning fat in general?

    These are my barriers...a little help would be appreciated. BTW, Happy Hump Day =):flowerforyou:

    Running is good. Lifting weights is also good. Both will help you lose fat/build muscle, in different ways. Ultimately the most successful workout program will include BOTH. Seriously. Look at some of the threads here of women who started lifting heavier weights. Or pick up a copy of the New Rules of Lifting for Women (fantastic book btw). Building strength helps burn fat AND will reproportion your body to make you happier with the shape regardless of the weight. What's really important is your body composition, not your weight, although I completely understand wanting that damn number on the damn scale! LOL! That being said, you won't ever be able to change your body type. If you are a pear shape, you will become a bigger or smaller pear. If you are an apple shaped woman, same dealio-yo. You can adjust it a lot, but the basic shape will always be there. If you naturally carry your weight in your midsection, that will be the first to come on and the last to come off, unfortunately, but you've just gotta stick with it!!! It's so true that "in one year you'll have wished you started today." So start today! And you have! So that's fantastic! And we're all here all the time for questions and motivation and all that jazz. Just keep up the good work!
  • jill92787
    jill92787 Posts: 158 Member
    PS how does a Wisconsin girl not like beer? I would kill for a Spotted Cow out here on the East Coast!
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    You cant spot train to lose fat. It comes down to genetics, the first and last places you put on and lose weight from.

    LIFT LIFT LIFT! Do cardio on your rest days, something lighter. You are woman you wont get massive muscles unless you use steroids what will happen is you will change your body composition. You want to lose weight but in the process you want to retain as much muscle as possible so you dont end up what some call "skinny fat". Keep your protein up at least 1grm/lbs body weight.
  • brewerchick
    brewerchick Posts: 70 Member
    Villene-I didn’t realize the net calorie goal also allows a deficit with working out….I did end up eating my calories tonight and am less crabbier. I have been trying to do lighter foods at night and will continue to do so. It really didn't help pizza hut was here and I was feeling vulnerable but I did pass...Thanks!

    Jill-I will hit that website and overall I do eat smaller meals when I can. I’m going to do the water thing for sure.
    I agree the first few weeks are the hardest for getting in that routine…That’s why I posted my immediate struggles so I don’t quit. Thanks for the website.

    As for working out I do Insanity in the AM and try to run at night. I could incorporate weights a few times a week after my am video and a little rest. I’m usually pretty beat after the video. I used to lift but just gave up my gym membership so I’ll have to get some weights. GOOOOO PACKERS!!!!

    Yeah, beer I just can't do. I try and I get sick....but I keep trying lol.

    Natx-What’s TDEE (pardon my ignorance) and my calories are set for 1280 daily. I up it a couple of hundred if I can when I work a double to keep my energy up.

    Yeah, I won’t get massive muscles unless I borrow Ryan Braun’s steroids…oops did I say that? After reading your message I’m wondering if I should go back to the gym and un-cancel my membership so I can lift a little like I used to. I could alternate between lifting and running each night and keep doing my vid in the morning. My friend told me it’s important to work each muscle group equally each week. Do I have to incorporate a leg day and would 20 minutes be enough? I feel like that would put me over…your thoughts?

    You all were VERY helpful and got me thinking. Thank you much :flowerforyou: . I weigh-in in the am so we will see if my hard work showed on the scale...
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    It's your Total daily energy expenditure.

    Go to goals up he top of the page there and It should show your calories burned from daily activity. That's what it is. For example mine is like 2380, calorie intake goal is 1910. Mfp calculates your calorie limit fro the goals you have set, so that gives me 470 deficit with .9lbs weight loss / week. This is also based on the activity type you entered.
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    Also squats and deadlifts will work your *kitten*, legs and back, lats. If those are areas you want to work on like most people are you will never go wrong. Just get your form checked and start out light, I do 8 reps x 3 sets of bench, bent rows, over head press, squats, deadlifts, chins and as many pull ups as I can do which is like 4 as they are hard. Left heavy relative to your strength, if you finish 8x3 easily, you can add more weight, move up in small increments.

    To add to what I said before if your on your feet I guessing your goals are probably wrong cause you would prob burn up around the 2000+ / day so of you still wanted to lose say around a lb per week you'd prob can eat around 1500 cal a day
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    2) They say not to eat before bed. I get why, are their certain foods to specifically avoid? I often work all day and don't get a break. I get home between 9 and 12 at night and naturally I need to eat especially since I'm on my feet. Tips for what to eat unless it's just the obvious of "being healthy." I usually cannot eat sooner so eating at night is going to happen. I try to snack at work but am limited to what I can carry on me and if I get time to mow it down. So the answer might be "If you are going to eat at night eat ____________." =)

    I don't ever follow this. I eat on a schedule that works for ME. If you try to completely follow someone else's schedule it won't work for you. If I feel really snacky at night and I know it's not healthy (I want junk food, I'm already over my calories for the day, etc) I will follow an old trick my weight lifting instructor taught me: drink 8-12 oz of water and wait 20-30 minutes. If you are still hungry (Legit hungry, not just bored) then you can have a snack after that. Usually the urge to grab a late night nibblet goes away for me if I do that.

    I work nights. my eating schedule is very whacked. in my opinion the only reason to avoid eating at night would be because it interrupts your sleep. i.e. heartburn, gas, bathroom. etc. etc.
  • Nerple
    Nerple Posts: 1,291 Member
    1) I'm still hungry. The more I work out the hungrier I get. I ate an entire footlong veggie sub today and I've never been able to do that. I'm still hungry now :frown: (granted I worked out 2x today) and am pretty good about eating enough protein, fiber etc. If I eat my exercise calories isn't it just a wash? :

    2) They say not to eat before bed. I get why, are their certain foods to specifically avoid? I often work all day and don't get a break. I get home between 9 and 12 at night and naturally I need to eat especially since I'm on my feet. Tips for what to eat unless it's just the obvious of "being healthy." I usually cannot eat sooner so eating at night is going to happen. I try to snack at work but am limited to what I can carry on me and if I get time to mow it down. So the answer might be "If you are going to eat at night eat ____________." =)

    3) I like boose.:drinker: I usually do vodka/water with Crystal light...but am getting sick of that. Any new low cal/carb drink options? I'm not going to completely quit drinking but at the same time I'd like to make better decisions. I do white wine often so I know how many calories are in a glass and can keep track. (Wine also makes me happy :laugh: and I don't do beer)

    4) What's the quickest way to get rid of tummy fat. I just started running if I have time and energy but what else is great for burning fat in general?

    1. I went with drinking a lot of water to sort fo fake myself into feeling full. Wasn't a complete solution but it did help.

    2. What Villene said. The only real negative to eating before bed is if you eat so much that you aren't hungry for breakfast. Light snacks etc are not a problem. Or like Lacroyx said, you eat soemthing that upsets you and interferes with sleep.

    3. I don't drink, so not a clue.

    4. What Natx said. You can't spot reduce fat. However concentrating on core exercises can help you lose inches off your waist etc. Another one that seems counter intuitive, yet somehow works.
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    1) Yes, eat back the majority of your exercise calories. MFP sets your calories to calculate a 1 - 2 lb loss per week. That is a good rate to avoid the pitfalls.

    2) Eat when you're hungry, but try to load most of your calories early in the day. That's good, but you're not going to ruin things if you have a snack at night (you're still under calories, right?).

    3) Red wine. It has health benefits and isn't much worse than your vodka.

    4) You lose fat proportionately throughout your body. You cannot spot reduce. So, lose fat, work on your posture, and you'll see your tummy improve.
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    1. Eat more protein, it will make you feel fuller for longer. Instead of the veggie sub next time maybe try the chicken breast. And as others have said, drink lots of water. High intensity cardio like that really revs up your metabolism, so yeah you're going to be more hungry than usual.

    2. I think the whole eating before bed thing is a myth. There have been plenty of arguments on both points. In my opinion, most people say not to eat before bed because people tend to reach for a snack or something more unhealthy. If you are going to eat before bed, just make sure you eat some protein, in theory it will help your muscles recover while you sleep. Avoid carbs, I hear it just metabolizes into fat while you sleep (although I don't necessarily believe that, but better safe than sorry).

    3. Wine isn't too bad, but red is probably a little better than white. But pretty much any alcohol is just sugar and it should be avoided best you can. It also does weird things to your body and messes with the scale. One glass of red wine probably won't hurt a whole lot though, it even has some health benefits.

    4. You can't spot reduce, to lose belly fat you just have to eat well and exercise. Insanity is a great workout, if you finish the whole 60 days you will no doubt burn a ton of fat. It may not always show up on the scale but keep taking your measurements and you will see results. Be careful with running though, because Insanity and running are both high impact workouts it's really easy to get injured.

    And since you're doing Insanity you really don't need to add any extra leg workouts, after I was done my legs were ripped. It wouldn't be bad to get to the gym a couple times a week to get some more upper body heavy lifting in though.
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    My best tip: don't ever come back on the "Single peeps" group forum.

    We're all fat and single here, because we spend too much time posting/reading/chatting. We're the shame of MFP, the failures of the website, so we've been stocked here.

    You've been warned (and welcome if you chose to ignore my warning)!
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    My best tip: don't ever come back on the "Single peeps" group forum.

    We're all fat and single here, because we spend too much time posting/reading/chatting. We're the shame of MFP, the failures of the website, so we've been stocked here.

    You've been warned (and welcome if you chose to ignore my warning)!

    Bahahahaha!
  • brewerchick
    brewerchick Posts: 70 Member
    I lost 1.8 my first week Hooooah!!!:bigsmile: I usually go downhill from here but not this time.

    Natx—I’ll look that up when I get home from work cause I don’t have much time to look at this moment. I will go back to weight lifting and do more weight and less reps. I’ve done that or more reps and less weight before…I like less reps.

    Lacroyx—Yeah, I notice when I eat too much I’m bloated and icky and then it’s even harder to wake up and work out…I’ll have to stick to lighter things despite what my body is telling me!

    Nerple-Water it is! I’m trying to drink more at night just am afraid I’ll get up and pee like 4 to 5 times like I used too lol.

    Amisnerpa—Yes I’m still under calories. And red wine I’m working on. I can do red after a few glasses of white =)

    Roadie-After reading other’s post and yours about eating before bed I’m less concerned about the negative effects and feel a little less stressed about trying not to eat before bed. I think I’ll avoid legs but will do upper body as recommeneded.

    Flamloz—There are some good looking peeps (guys n girls) in this forum….You bet I’ll be back lol.
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    My best tip: don't ever come back on the "Single peeps" group forum.

    We're all fat and single here, because we spend too much time posting/reading/chatting. We're the shame of MFP, the failures of the website, so we've been stocked here.

    You've been warned (and welcome if you chose to ignore my warning)!

    Love!!!