Not sure how to take my ex
UsedToBeHusky
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I know some people cut ties with their ex after the break up, but I'm a dumbass. Anyway, he says to me the other day "Wow! I remember when you were fat!" What do you all think? Was it a compliment? Because it really didn't sound like one...
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I wouldnt take that as a compliment, no! :huh: But you know the guy better than me. :flowerforyou:0
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He was probably trying to compliment you on your weight loss but it came out all wrong. There are much better ways to make a comment on it and still be polite. I'm curious what was your response to this?0
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You should have answered, "And I remember when you were decent."
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You should have answered, "And I remember when you were decent."
YES!!! This is an excellent one!0 -
I would have said and I remember why you are my ex.
I guess it was probably supposed to be a compliment.0 -
You should have answered, "And I remember when you were decent."
but then I sobered up.
but yah..... I wouldn't take is a compliment. well it depends I think if we broke up on good terms, still friends that sorta thing I probably would have taken it as a compliment.0 -
Yeah, I'd say this... Or he was trying to be funny.He was probably trying to compliment you on your weight loss but it came out all wrong. There are much better ways to make a comment on it and still be polite. I'm curious what was your response to this?
I'd probably have replied: "Hmm... Thanks... I guess? I mean, was it a compliment? Because it really didn't sound like one..." which, funnily enough, is the content of your post. Why don't people never speak their minds?
Anyway, I'm curious to know what you answered as well.0 -
Yeah, I'd say this... Or he was trying to be funny.He was probably trying to compliment you on your weight loss but it came out all wrong. There are much better ways to make a comment on it and still be polite. I'm curious what was your response to this?
I'd probably have replied: "Hmm... Thanks... I guess? I mean, was it a compliment? Because it really didn't sound like one..." which, funnily enough, is the content of your post. Why don't people never speak their minds?
Anyway, I'm curious to know what you answered as well.
I just said that I still have fat because I do. I'm not even close to finished.0 -
I just said that I still have fat because I do. I'm not even close to finished.
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It could have been a compliment but my guess is that it was most likely a dig at you suggesting that you were the cause for the break up in that you were content to be "fat" for him.0
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It could have been a compliment but my guess is that it was most likely a dig at you suggesting that you were the cause for the break up in that you were content to be "fat" for him.
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Don't look into anything. It probably wasn't an attack, compliment or sarcastic in any way, shape or form. More than likely, that's how he remembers you...as fat.
I remember my ex with long hair. When I saw he this weekend, she had short hair. My statement, "I've never seen you with short hair". Didn't mean a thing.
He didn't mean anything by it, so don't take it as a positive or negative.0 -
It could have been a compliment but my guess is that it was most likely a dig at you suggesting that you were the cause for the break up in that you were content to be "fat" for him.
He's pretty "fat" himself although I think he would have likely preferred that I was this thin when we were together.0 -
i woulda just HULK smashed him !
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It could have been a compliment but my guess is that it was most likely a dig at you suggesting that you were the cause for the break up in that you were content to be "fat" for him.
He's pretty "fat" himself although I think he would have likely preferred that I was this thin when we were together.
Meh! Too little too late! Guess he shoulda tried to hang around for that :ohwell: he's a DUMBA$$!!0
