Just a little update: The husband seems to gotten himself back on track! He's been going to the gym almost daily for the last almost two weeks, plus getting in some bike riding. I believe his doctor's visit last week also help to light the fire under him. He was told to lose weight, take his meds regularly and exercise. The doctor also had a discussion with him regarding the possibility of developing ED due to his diabetes and high blood pressure. Of course, my husband has always known this is a possibility, but to have the doctor discuss it out loud was too much for him. He says having to take a "little blue pill in order to perform" would be the final humiliation for him. Talk about a motivator! It's funny to me that, with all the other things that could happen to him, THIS would be what flipped the switch. Hey....works for me.