wow single again...

hurleycutie142
hurleycutie142 Posts: 479 Member
i was apart of this group for awhile... and then met this really great guy... we had the best chemistry and always had fun together... and not only that but he was great to look at... he asked me to be his girlfriend and i jumped at the opportunity... i knew it was to good to be true buttttt we went out for a drink one day and while we were out a number i didnt know called me... called it back when i dropped him off and it was his live in girlfriend... wtffff.... well back to the single world again...

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  • _SpeshK_
    _SpeshK_ Posts: 496 Member
    THAT...SUCKS...
    Welcome back.
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    Oh snap! that sucks! Welcome back!
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat??????????

    Did you confront him about it??

    I'm stuck for words........ :flowerforyou:
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I truly wish I could nut guys that do this stuff...it so paints all of us with a broad brush.
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    Yeah whats with dudes, taking more than one girl off the market... its already tough enough! let alone cheating on 2 of them!
  • hurleycutie142
    hurleycutie142 Posts: 479 Member
    i confronted him... he told me he was really looking for something to get him out of the relationship he was in... he told me he fell for me and hasnt been this happy in awhile... it sucks to say i kinda knew he had something because all the signs were there... but i gave him the benefit of the doubt... and that pisses me off more than anything that i didnt trust my own instincts...
  • shammxo
    shammxo Posts: 1,432 Member
    What a loser.

    Welcome back... Trust that you're much better off without him.
  • BigBrewski
    BigBrewski Posts: 922 Member
    welcome back but sorry that happened to you
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    That sucks! Welcome back though. Sorry that happened to you. :( How long did it go on? I hope his other gf dumped him too.
  • jesusHchris
    jesusHchris Posts: 1,405 Member
    This is EXACTLY why I don't let my girlfriend have a cell phone. Or out of the house. Ever.
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    This is EXACTLY why I don't let my girlfriend have a cell phone. Or out of the house. Ever.

    LOL... Love your shiz mate
  • Silver180
    Silver180 Posts: 294
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!
  • NYChick84
    NYChick84 Posts: 331 Member
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!


    Completely THIS!!!!!!
  • msusol
    msusol Posts: 11
    This is EXACTLY why I don't let my girlfriend have a cell phone. Or out of the house. Ever.
    yeah! lol
  • NNAhuja
    NNAhuja Posts: 669 Member
    Oh wow! that sucks. Welcome back. :drinker:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Cheaters suck!!

    If there is a teeny, tiny bright spot to this, at least you were only slightly invested as opposed to the poor live-in gf.
  • Steelheart7
    Steelheart7 Posts: 1,056
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!

    Second this. Ba$tard.
  • dynamicwon
    dynamicwon Posts: 175 Member
    Welcome back I had the same thing happen to me but i found out about the girlfriend on Facebook. Welcome back and yes follow your gut everyone. I knew something was up but chose to ignore it. Never again.
  • Learning2LuvLindsay
    Learning2LuvLindsay Posts: 1,142 Member
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!


    ^This! My ex cheated on me with several women that he met on dating websites. I dont get it. If your not happy, leave!
  • sunnymel126
    sunnymel126 Posts: 359 Member
    I feel for you. I have been through this before when his girlfriend called me out of the blue one day. She had been dating him for 2 years even relocating for him. He had been seeing me for 6 months. I was devastated. Not only did I have no clue but I trusted him. It was difficult to get over. She ended up taking him back and I gladly said you can have him. He called me many times in the time she took him back to be with him but I refused.

    You are much better off without this guy in your life.
  • ZombieChaser
    ZombieChaser Posts: 1,555 Member
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!

    This! 100% ;)

    Sorry, but if he's going to do that to her, he's not worth your time. I know it's aweful and it hurts, but you will move on and find someone who respects a girl that he's with.
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!


    Completely THIS!!!!!!

    There is a problem with this. Guys who are like these type of guys will never stop because their women wont eave them and there are soooooooooo many good girls who look for these type of guys over and over again. There are so many good guys out there but the problem is women typically find them boring so they go for the bad boys. They like the forbidden aspect of it and how the guys make them feel like they can do anything and love the edge feeling.

    Im not judging the original poster, im sorry this happened to her that she got tricked, that guy needs a punch in the face. I wish you well and hope you find what youre looking for. Just learn form this and the signs and stay away from those jerks who are charming.
  • RMuske
    RMuske Posts: 271 Member
    I don't even understand how that is possible?! What does he say when he leaves? How can he lie bold faced to this other person he supposedly cares about? And to you!?

    I can barely handle one person in a relationship, I have no idea how people juggle more than one! Heck I don't even know how I would date a bunch of people at the same time. I am not a multitasker when it comes to relationships and dating...

    At least you are a woman who is not going to help the cause by leaving his sorry *kitten* to deal with his own mess.
  • BigBrewski
    BigBrewski Posts: 922 Member
    I freaking LOATHE cheaters to the bottom of my core.

    Scum. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. They can all get hit by a train.

    If you're unhappy with your relationship, LEAVE. Don't screw around until you find something better first. How dishonorable.

    Sorry to hear you got tricked. e-hugs!


    ^This! My ex cheated on me with several women that he met on dating websites. I dont get it. If your not happy, leave!

    Yep, my ex-wife did this as well, dating sites, facebook, ect...the reason she didn't leave was $$ since I was supporting her and her kids. She wanted and still wants to be a party girl and I have no problem with that just don't try to be a wife and mother if you also want to screw eveyone that gets you horny.
  • hurleycutie142
    hurleycutie142 Posts: 479 Member
    they are still together... she had something traumatic happen to her so he is the only person that she calls family... which i understand fully... he still calls me saying he "loves me" and wants to leave her but doesnt have anywhere to go... which is kinda true... i dunno... he is stupid... its weird cause im a type of person who trusts no one.. especially guys... i am definitely not into the bad boy type but for some reason he was just so hot and fun to be around i guess i blind sided myself... and i let a guard down that i have had up for so long... o well...
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
    so sorry to hear it didnt turn out the way you hoped. so much time yet......so many for you to choose from!