Ladies...

poncho33
poncho33 Posts: 1,511
What the hell does "you haven't changed" mean?? I get this a lot but only from woman.

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  • becfrogs
    becfrogs Posts: 39 Member
    When I tell someone, "wow you haven't changed a bit"......it usually refers to their body language, personality, habits, physical features....etc. Sometimes I'll run into someone that looks the same even 10 years later and acts the same from childhood.

    Hope that helps :D
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Well, it could mean 2 things:

    1. Wow, you look great, you look as young, fit and good looking as you did the last time I saw you 5 -10 years ago!! :love:

    2. You're still the unreliable, thoughtless, disagreeable little tosser you used to be when we dated!!! :laugh:
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Well, it could mean 2 things:

    1. Wow, you look great, you look as young, fit and good looking as you did the last time I saw you 5 -10 years ago!! :love:

    2. You're still the unreliable, thoughtless, disagreeable little tosser you used to be when we dated!!! :laugh:

    Well we know #1 is a fact :bigsmile:

    #2 basically sounds like, your not how I would want you to be so you suck??
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Well we know #1 is a fact :bigsmile: you forfeit No1 if you lose your modesty. You then just become a cocky sh1t who hasn't changed!! :wink:

    #2 basically sounds like, your not how I would want you to be so you suck?? hmmm, yeah, depends on the context tho, and who's saying it.
  • HellsKells
    HellsKells Posts: 671 Member
    Agree with Anna...depends on your relationship with the person saying it...
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    Well we know #1 is a fact :bigsmile: you forfeit No1 if you lose your modesty. You then just become a cocky sh1t who hasn't changed!! :wink:

    #2 basically sounds like, your not how I would want you to be so you suck?? hmmm, yeah, depends on the context tho, and who's saying it.

    Listen to Anna! She is funny and always right too!
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    Well we know #1 is a fact :bigsmile: you forfeit No1 if you lose your modesty. You then just become a cocky sh1t who hasn't changed!! :wink:

    #2 basically sounds like, your not how I would want you to be so you suck?? hmmm, yeah, depends on the context tho, and who's saying it.

    Listen to Anna! She is funny and always right too!

    Jim - -yeah, Anna nailed it both times here.... and for what it's worth... I don't think you've changed a bit since I've known you! :laugh: :bigsmile:
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    Well we know #1 is a fact :bigsmile: you forfeit No1 if you lose your modesty. You then just become a cocky sh1t who hasn't changed!! :wink:

    #2 basically sounds like, your not how I would want you to be so you suck?? hmmm, yeah, depends on the context tho, and who's saying it.

    Go with Anna all the way around - she is wise :)
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Anna is boss, yo
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Well we know #1 is a fact :bigsmile: you forfeit No1 if you lose your modesty. You then just become a cocky sh1t who hasn't changed!! :wink:

    #2 basically sounds like, your not how I would want you to be so you suck?? hmmm, yeah, depends on the context tho, and who's saying it.

    #1 In my defense I have stated since day #1 that I am a cocky *kitten*.... I just know when to tame it down!

    #2 it was a girl I used to work with that said it yesterday... and it was said like "haha (smartass haha) you haven't changed" My response was, your F'n right I haven't I got it right the first time!
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Well I know when I say it I'm usually flirting lol or talking to one of my long term guy friends that I've know since we were in high school and its kinda a reassurance thing. You know "you havent changed a bit and I'm glad cause I love who you are " type thing