jakeb1993

I use butter, well cause it taste so good and compliments the food, I use it in baking, and in cooking. So its a hard call. I just say go with your heart, I use butter (a very little bit) when i cook, my grandma uses margarine, and shes healthy and 72 years old. butter is natural and thats why i use it.

butter doesn't taste bad, but margerine is better for your heart heres a linkmayoclinic.org/healthy-living/nutrition-and-healthy-eating/expert-answers/butter-vs-margarine/faq-20058152

I just be myself, thats all you can be.

well he was very good looking, and when he became verbally abusive i dumped him, I had to, for one its stressful and two its wrong.

Thank you so much :smile: that means allot.

Thank you sofaking6 :)

That is some good advice. rupaul says "if you can't love yourself how the h#ll are you gonna love anybody else?" :)

Yeah, some parents react badly, but my parents are very open minded thank god! I also have an older sister who is gay and happily married, so I am very close with her. As for the weight loss, it can be very overwhelming, but i have learned to take it one day at a time. Stress is something i have learned to cope with :smile:

The hardest part was telling my parents. Surprisingly they took it well. I am 5 ft 8in and 210 pounds :(