LAMCDylan Member

Xylophonist

Yeah

Gonna have to pass

Xerox Sales Representative

Yep...

No surprise really. What do you expect from a lot of vain people seeking validation? Just take a look at the majority of the threads in the game/chit chat section of the forum.

CSUMB, junior/senior, Biology major

DEA Agent

Astronaut

Yes

Yeah

I've done it. Did it when I was over 300 lbs. Losing 10 lbs is not too bad. Is your nutrition good? I am actually doing another round of P90x and my current weight is 261.

Thank you

You have to stop chasing women and hanging out with women. Make more male friends and hang with them.

There is an underlying issue when you act out like that. Compulsive *kitten*, chasing women and sleeping around, etc is always a sign of a bigger issue and you use the sex/*kitten* to soothe it. What I explain above is learning to heal myself of that so I can have healthier relationships/sex/*kitten*. And, it helps you…

I also keep a rubberband around my wrist and yank/slap myself with it whenever I fantasize about women. This is a well known technique to retrain your brain.

I am actually on a no dating/sex/porn/*kitten* moratorium for about 6-9 months. I am doing it as a learning and healing experience. It has definitely helped me so far. I am about 13 days in and my mind feels clearer, don't think about sex as much, no compulsive *kitten*, I feel more confident, more masculine etc.

Those are all validation/popularity threads. And not to mention are extremely vain.

It depends how you use the forum. It depends how involved you get and what information you are looking for. I tend to find this forum all over the place. I see some nice people, vain people, even nasty people. I see people get ripped apart by snobby/know-it-all types and many of them don't really know what they are talking…

No one knows?

I heard Hammer and Chisel sucks. Just look at the reviews on Amazon. I don't think 22 min hard corp is really that good for strength training, but more of an overall fitness program. IMO, Body Beast is the best on the Market. But like you say, requires a bunch of equipment. I would suggest P90x. But if you do Body beast,…

Every movement of your body requires energy. So it does count.

Maybe consider some home workout programs for the time being. Take it slow when getting out. Do so gradually and over time the anxiety will lessen.

I've actually read from many sources it is very accurate.

Quality Control Manager

Talking Heads

Samhain

Ichthyologist

But I do think you make some sense about his issues. Most of these insecure guys were raised to be this way by their parents. They grew up to be maladjusted adults. Their mom babied them or sheltered them and never taught them to be a man so that duty is passed onto the GF/Wife to deal with. And what happens is these…

I think it is a bit of both. See, the problem I find with these kind of instances is the girl never really considers leaving or wants solutions she will rationalize and find reasons to stay with him. Of course he knows he has her dependent on him. That is allowing him to be manipulative. He can use it as leverage any time.…