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I don'tremember your "advice". But I sure do remember your smart **** , rhetorical comments that I don't care for.

How did I ever rant against any advice????? When did I do it? Did I do it in this feed???? Pretty sure I wasn't against anything anyome said.

Actually I started being that way towards the same ppl that started being rude to me. I never initiated it first.

Actually you weren't giving advice. You were giving smart *kitten* comments as usual. And on the other post people jlwere just bitching about diet fads. So when I completely stop talking about those and on to things that you guys actually prefer you guys all wanna be "Mr/Mrs Told You So" which is really ugly of all you.…

Im pretty sure nobody was talking to you. I mean, I sure wasn't.

Omg I do the exact same thing!!! But even when I have chicken on my salad I gets soooo full. So I don't keep over eating. And thanks for understanding. I say the same thing. They all get on me about my other threads and then when I'm asking for normal advice they all want ro be English teachers. Its annoying but I usually…

Since everyone is sooooo smart on here I figured they understand my silly comment referring to the topic. And that's why I asked the question. I keep adding more things to make my calories go up. But its often things I end up feeling like I don't need or shouldn't have eaten.

My logging is correct.

They new what I meant too. Some people just love to act in such a manner that is childish. Thank you for understanding.

I mean the calories don't add up to much. But they fill me up. So I didn't see any point of eating more

I actually finished part 1 of that and it went really good. But as the recipes went on I didnt really like them so I just pushed that book to the side and creates my own diet.

Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤

My dad is kind of crazy. He LOVES people who nag bc he loves trying to irritate them. Its his FAVORITE thing to do. And in the past, when I bugged him, things usually came in my favor. But I talk to him earlier and I think he came up with a plan for me that I know will work. He told me if doesn't workout 3 times next week…

No Not Weight lifting like he wants. But smaller weights yes. walking and speed walking have also been approved.

My problem is he begged for someone to point him in the right direction. And notlw that he has it...idk. I think hes scared to embarrass himself. Or like he's embarrassed on how much he can't do. And how unfit he really is. I think he's scared to take the step his self bc what it will reveal to him.

He already has lots of muscle. He's more fat than anything. He needs cardio. And honestly his life depends on it. I told him he should burn his fat and than weight lift as much as he desired to tone everything up. I don't think he's gonna make it much longer if he doesn't make a change soon. He cant walk for long periods…

He's been needing to lose weight for a fee years now. And he's been constantly talking about how he wants to but doesn't have the drive. He told me that he needed someone to do it with him and push him so he can get started. But so far I'm doing everything for him. Except i just can't burn the calories for him.

Lol exactly. But he keeps telling me and my mom he needs someone to pish him hard so he has to do it. He really foes want to lose weight. And I know its hard for him to move a lot bc his bad new and blood clots. But he's been begging for someone to push him into working out. I just don't know how hard I should push his big…

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Maybe you're right. I need to step back and let him build his confidence up his own way. I keep pushing him to do things my way and that hasn't worked at all....minus feeding him lol

I know. And its hard for me to accept it. I'm pushing him and pushing him. And he's like a damn horse. I'm doing everything I can to get him motivated. I'm encouraging him, I bought him a gum membership, I'm making him meals and allowing him moderation of snacks he's likes. It makes me want to cry bc he makes is so easy…

That's sounds great. He always wants to go on walks. But the thing about dad is, he doesn't really like to be in public and he always tries to find a way around it. For instance today. I BEGGED him to go to the gym and he said he's going fishing and that's plenty of exercise. The only thing that makes him even close to…

That's new. I actually love that idea.

I definitely agree. It is something to look forward too. I'm still learning to eat wisely. I know that I can't each treats everyday in good moderation. So I want to restrict it to once or twice a week. Like today I made my family tacos, I used black beans instead of the delicious taco meat, no sour cream, plenty of…

That's kind of how it used to be for me. But I just felt it was best not to everyday bc I haven't trained myself to know when enough is enough. So i decided I need a set day or time so I don't just drink pop once a day or eat a family sized bag of doritos within a weeks time.

Lol that's exactly what I do when I each any meal. Lots of water.

Thank you. Its truly inspiring and helpful advice.

Lol that sounds amazing

That makes sense. Which is a year lol.

I'm 5'7 & 277lbs. The rush is being fat is depressing. I'm too young to feel as insecure with my body as I do. Which is my rush. I want to live a more normal life. I'm tried of being tired from just walking up the stair. I don't even plan on wearing shorts or going swimming this summer bc my massive about of celluite & fat…