JulietF72 Member

You are accepting advice from people, such as myself, but you can't identify or research the competence of the responder. You know what to do with your life. You know what to do with your husband. Stop asking for advice and start picking up your phone.

Get professional counseling and legal advice.

Live for yourself not your husband. He met you at 103 and was attracted to that weight of he wouldn't have crosses the room. How you feel about yourself is more important than his needs. Don't meet him in the middle, stay true to yourself.