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He says that his bosses do it too. Idk I never paid too much attention to that. What does sound suspicious about it anyway?

I am 22 my boyfriend is almost 34 years old. Been working out for over 9 years. I just am asking for some advice since I do not want to ruin something that could just be a coincidence, I really do care about this guy and is why I am here asking a bunch of people of what they think of the situation. Kind of like why people…

I asked him to take me to the gym and show me how to properly do some machines and he was fine with it then he said we could go in the morning when I'm not working or doing anything (he usually goes in the evening) then he also mentioned he wouldn't workout that day he would just show me a routine.

I asked him about the gym thing and he was first okay with it (only during the day the time he is free and doesn't really have to workout) so will never really know if he is working out for that long and also got mad after I asked will we be there for 4 hours after that he flipped out. I guess I sounded like I was…

One question.. Why should I pay attention to the job thing just curious ? I also mentioned today I wanted to go to the gym with him so he could show me proper form so I don't injure myself .. He was at first okay with it then after flipped out after I asked is the workout gonna take 4 hours or something like that. And…

He most of the time drives me when he isn't working or at home and I do not work at the moment because I've been having issues with school and classes. Don't have time to work. And honestly i don't know if he has been 100% honest. I had to find out about his steroid use myself, he didn't tell me. But I don't know if…

I'm really not. Just keep forgetting to include things to get a better idea of what the situation sounds like. I do not 100% trust him but there is still a feeling of why would he do that, or he just couldn't do that since I've never really seen anything to suspect anything. These thoughts and suspicions have recently been…

Do you actually know people who are and the way they train?

I have but it always comes off as accusing him. I have before and the more I do it he gets mad because, I have been doing it more often lately.

Was this to me?

What is OP stand for? other person? Never been this way before. Because of things that have to do with him is why I feel the way I feel. Been in several relationships where I never felt so horrible when it came to other females. Yes this is unhealthy I know but I am trying to fix this and get some advice from other people…

But was it because of the steroids because there never really has been a death related incident involving steroids. There have always been other things that lead to it. And I mean also if you are over using you are harming your body so it also has a lot to do with moderation as with anything else. I mean think about it.…

He's not. Idk what it is with him and other guys. I mean I guess I could somewhat understand because it would somewhat bother me too if it was the other way around. But he gets mad if my number is given out to certain guys, for example like from my class (I usually get their number for school reasons nothing bad) and he…

He would not want me to join, he already once mentioned that he wants to get me a membership at an ALL woman's gym. Which can sometimes be understandable. Don't know if it is because he that one of the only time away from me or if he is out doing something else or if he doesn't want to be constantly worrying about me and…

That is true. And the only reason I'm doing this now and still having a discussion is because I'm in a really tough situation right now. Yesterday was the first time I ever posted about my relationship. Never felt the need. Always thought it could be a coincidence or just not something to worry too much about because I…

I don't think you've been educated enough about steroids. Steroids may be cheating IN A WAY. BUT that doesn't mean people on steroids sit on their butts and just let the steroids do all the magic. You could take as many steroids as you want and not workout at all, I promise you will hardly gain anything. Those huge body…

Exactly what I am confused about. Let me also include he works out with a friend or 2 and is trying to get "bigger"

Thank you so much for your reply. I do deserve the best, he has broken my trust but like a lot of things, this could all b a misunderstanding including my lack of trust. Haven't gotten enough proof or dirt on him to say he has lied throughout the relationship. Although I do feel like I have enough. My mother and others…

Lol steroids def have a little to do with it but he doesn't take as much as your thinking. Just once a week and no more. Ppl who shoot 7 days a week are abusing it even 5 days a week is too much. Some people shoot 7 days a week and cannot get as big as the rock. Genetics have a lot to do with it too and so does how hard…

Talking about 2013 rock . He looks exactly like that maybe A LITTLE bit smaller

I can have the conversation and have before but if I keep asking he will get annoyed and mad. Never really know what to ask when I do talk to him and sometimes when I do have the conversation I come out as if I am accusing and assuming something

I have gotten responses from people who say to not jump to conclusions and he could really be just working out for 4 hours that's why I asked people who really workout hard at the gym and have a certain look that is hard to get and not many guys can get. Just keep forgetting to include detail and include it later on. Want…

Do these people that do this stuff during gym hours stay for like 4 hours ?

I will definitely be asking him one of these days this week. Just don't know how comfortable I will feel doing it. He also usually works out with a friend or two when he is at the gym. Could that be what takes a lot of time or still doesn't matter ? Have you ever met or seen someone who looks like the rock and works out…

Have you ever met or seen someone who looks like the rock and works out for THAT long?

I am asking other people because even if I ask him he will not tell me that truth. Want to know what people who really workout and have the rock body type and size would say this situation sounds like He's only doing cardio 1 day per week I do also know people can be addicted but idk if that's the case with him. The…

He's only doing cardio 1 day per week I do also know people can be addicted but idk if that's the case with him. The relationship is okay not the best. Have trust issues for a reason (not that I caught him cheating) but similar situation that I am not 100% sure about that he keeps denying. He has been talking about having…

He's only doing cardio 1 day per week I do also know people can be addicted but idk if that's the case with him

I have a lot of reasons behind what I am doing. I have trust issues because of things that happened in this relationship. Never had such bad trust issues with a man.

That is what my common sense is telling me but then I think of ppl who are really addicted to the gym. Just don't know what to think so just need some advice