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he's a handsome guy, late 30s, no kids, no job though sorry. you can have him babes. and may the odds be ever in your favor.

It's only a matter of time. But I do want to say that I really do appreciate all of the responses I've received so far and you all taking the time out to actually read and respond. I made myself vulnerable and I was prepared for negativity but I'm thankful for all of your input. You all helped me a great deal today.

We don't have the same opinions but I have to give credit where it's deserved... that got a laugh out of me.

Again, not saying I'm a saint. Not trying to make it like I didn't do anything wrong. The issue is, I feel uncomfortable because of how everything played out, but I'm receiving multiple texts and voicemails about how he wants me to come back, he's sorry for his behavior, he knows we have the potential to be a great team,…

Lol, yeah man ... the one thing I asked you not to do! Trust is broken. What's your FB password?

It was a mistake. I didn't beg for him back, I knew I had done something wrong. He wanted to give me a second chance and he did. I held up my end of the deal. I deleted all traces of these guys, and was 100% devoted to him and ready to move on from this. That's all I could have done.

There was no sneakiness, no constantly being on the phone, as a matter of fact I'm hardly ever on my phone. this wasn't a 24 hour operation that I was constantly sneaking around and hiding from him. Unfortunately, I had a couple convos sexual in nature and that was that. He told me what lead to him looking through my phone…

I absolutely understand. If I saw that on his phone I'd be so upset and of course try and put a stop to it. But, if the tables were turned and I gave him that second chance, I would not be so overbearing, invasive, and threatening to him. He'd ask me to send him pictures of where I was if I was staying late at work just…

The first time he snooped he got what he was looking for, he had a hunch and he did what he had to do. Fine. It was the treatment afterwards that's the real issue. I took full advantage of the second chance that he gave me and was an open book to him with everything. The second time he snooped, he found nothing of the…

I'm struggling with this whole "cheating" thing that keeps getting brought up, I think "soft-cheating" describes it at best. I know cheating is different to a whole bunch of people but I know that having a few flirty conversations is not the same as going out and sleeping with different men behind his back (which I did NOT…

Hey, are you looking for a roommate? I know a guy who might be interested.

Yeah, I'm in the US. I'm in NJ. I left for my mom's that night, and had my uncle come with me to get all of my belongings out of the house. (which he had rummaged through and threw into bags without my consent)

I think that's a little bit much to give someone full reign of my facebook, including private conversations with my mother and sister, with my best friend, there's no reason someone should be able to access that. He logged on and found nothing that he was suspicious of in the first place.

Let me make something clear, he didn't just look at my facebook. He somehow hacked his way into my account and snooped around. Do you think I should have given him my password or something in the first place? Feels a little extreme.

Must mean it's how things always turn out then, right? I lived in NYC for 6 years, had various roommates, male & female. This has never happened to me before with a male/single roommate, most of which are still my friends to this day. I don't think this is a fair assumption that I should have known better.

thanks dear!

I know that he is not 100% wrong in this situation. I agree that what happened during the first occurrence was wrong of me, I had some a couple conversations that really didn't make me look like a good person. I immediately, after he had gone through my phone, cut off all ties with this people. Did some serious soul…

I have feelings for him, he was good to me before all of this nonsense. It's hard.

spot on... but only for a few more days :P

Thank you for all of this. I think at first it was just hooking up, but we started to develop real feelings for eachother and did decide that we'd be a couple. Wasn't facebook official yet or anything (ha) but mutually we had that understanding. I have to totally delete my facebook?! I blocked him on social media for the…

28?

Jersey here too :)

That's how I view it as well. You can't just pry into my life and look for things you don't like. I think he believes that I need to earn his trust again and therefor comply with his paranoia and suspicion.

We did - we were in an exclusive relationship. He had just seen 'sexts' the first time that he didn't like.

nice 'stache

BLUEBERRY FROSTED FOREVER

They're super nasty, don't kid yourself

I agree with everyone who mentioned caffiene/caffiene pills. I've learned this after buying numerous amounts of supplements and totally wasting my money.

meeeeee!

IDK where that is but it's where I want to be. why can't I add you? are you real?