Just_Mel_ Member

Dear crush, I sent back your Christmas gift. Part of me wanted to still give it to you, but my dignity got the better of me. P.S. I see you still creeping my snaps.

Watch every Liam Neeson movie ever made. And read some books.

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Thank you for answering. I genuinely posted this whole thing to get different perspectives and answers. I'm glad everyone has been civil. Nothing is black and white and there's always 2 sides to every story. I still hold the opinion that ghosting is hurtful, whether intended to be or not. No one wants to sit there and…

So how many times have you ghosted someone? Just curious.

Yep. I legit texted him the other night asking if he was ok. He responded. So at least I knew he was alive, I left him alone after that. Then the next day he ghosted in the middle of the day after we'd already been talking. I worry about people, not going to change that about myself.

I didn't end this situation. My comment was in response to someone who said I look like one who does the ghosting. At which I said I don't ghost.

Nope. It's cruel to not give some kind of reason or explanation. Plus I need closure. Even if I'm the one ending things. But thanks for the compliment? 🤷‍♀️ I will say that I don't generalize all ghosters as pieces of *kitten*. I honestly think in my situation it's a matter of needing space to deal with other things. He is…

This made me giggle. 😂

This is a IRL dating situation. No wife.

Your first explanation makes a ton of sense in this current situation. 😕

So is it a permanent feeling? Or you just need a break? Your explanation is super useful and I understand the reasoning I think.

But what about real life? I'm talking about how you go from seeing a person regularly and talking all day every day, to absolute radio silence?

B.B.C.

O.P.P.

I've also had 2 c-sections, one was a vertical cut. So I'm all scarred up and it's jiggly. It will never be flat. I've NEVER had it stop any guy from wanting to get with me. Do I feel self conscious when I'm intimate and get on top? Hell nah. Confidence is more sexy than anything else.

You forgot to add that Bob Dylan's voice sounds like an old man trying too hard to drop a #2.

I like it when my man spreads.

Big hair, don't care. Here's hoping today sucks less than yesterday!

There's totally a Michael J. Fox vibe going on here. 😊

Years ago I was checking out at the dollar store and 2 teenage boys were in line behind me. I heard them talking about my butt....they kept saying I had "been blessed". 😂 Like kept saying it, it's now a joke in my family that anyone with a big booty has "been blessed".

Reading some of those DMs.

Here's ma face. 😜

Ran outside to capture this beautiful sunrise this morning.

My meme collection.

This. Plus, overthinking and reading way too much into texts. I hate it about myself.

I prefer thicc.

My clean home with candles burning.