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  • Thanks evilpoptart63. He has cut down the “teasing”. What helped was having daughters and asking him how he would feel if someone said those things to them. But yes, it did lead to resentment and to a loss of trust. I kind of felt like if he meant it, he wasn’t a nice person and so I shouldn’t trust him, and if he didn’t…
    in Horrible self esteem Comment by acanthe76 October 2017
  • It is really hard when someone who is meant to love you says such hurtful things, and I am afraid I haven’t got an easy answer. My oh was incredibly hurtful about my weight when I was slim and weighed much *less* than I do now, and I am sure it paradoxically contributed to my weight gain. I kind of didn’t see the point in…
    in Horrible self esteem Comment by acanthe76 October 2017
  • Hi! New here from Cambridge. Feel free to add me
    in British pals...part ii Comment by acanthe76 October 2017
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