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Thanks evilpoptart63. He has cut down the “teasing”. What helped was having daughters and asking him how he would feel if someone said those things to them. But yes, it did lead to resentment and to a loss of trust. I kind of felt like if he meant it, he wasn’t a nice person and so I shouldn’t trust him, and if he didn’t…
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It is really hard when someone who is meant to love you says such hurtful things, and I am afraid I haven’t got an easy answer. My oh was incredibly hurtful about my weight when I was slim and weighed much *less* than I do now, and I am sure it paradoxically contributed to my weight gain. I kind of didn’t see the point in…
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Hi! New here from Cambridge. Feel free to add me
