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Haha! I do get very envious of people like that. Ah well...nature decided to give us the bad deal.

Definitely. On day one, I was imagining my life in one year from then—and then two years etc. I had accepted that I need to focus on the long term because I started at over 300lbs (but I thought I was less than that until I calculated it correctly) and it’s not going to have an overnight fix. I’m embarrassed even now…

True. Though I wouldn’t say I restrict in a drastic way but I get what you’re saying. I often stop myself from restricting too much on the days where I have no appetite because it’s not sustainable in the long term so no point in torturing myself. I’m quite proud of myself for being so sensible this time around actually…

I’m definitely a lot fitter after all the aerobics I’ve been doing. I cut them back a bit so should really get back on them — better fitness was as much a goal as weight loss so definitely a NSV. In July, when I first started aerobics — a 15 minute workout killed me but now, I barely feel it so am having to push myself…

I’m doing okay but I am suffering from PMS and it’s making me very hungry. This happens to me every month without fail. It’s like I go a couple of weeks doing really well and then the early signs of PMS appear and it takes another couple of weeks of me trying to not give in to it lol...I find it very difficult to lose…

I’d also love to start dancing classes — god knows when I’ll have the confidence for that. Ice skating is also something I want to get back into. So many things I feel I’ve been missing out on. Not for too much longer. :)

This Week: Continue with my deficit and start strength training again This Month: Nothing very drastic. I just want to keep working hard and maybe up my routines again. Also work hard at college, which I’m already doing but still want to keep pushing myself. This year: Ideally, I’d like to lose another 100lbs by the end of…

I've lost 43lbs and I still don't feel like I have lost anything. I mean, I can tell by my clothes and people have commented that I have lost weight but I personally don't really see it. I think it will take me a long time to do so.

Hi Lkav. I'll send you a friend request. I've lost 43lbs to date and want to lose at least another 100lbs. I'm very active on here. Anyone else is also free to send me friend requests. :)

I’m 7lbs away from a 50lb loss so reaching that 50lbs is my current mini-goal. :)

Click their name then click again for the option to add as a friend.

Hi jcorns. I find the community very helpful. I hope you find that to be the case also. :)

You’ve made the first step just by coming here — there’s tons of great advice on this site so take your time to look around. I’m six months into my weight loss regime and I find that, what motivates me most of all is when I take time to sit and really think about where I want to be in a year from now and then 2…

That was nice of your mother and brother haha! You’ve come to the right place, though! :)

Those are some great goals and if you have the determination — you can achieve them! I love learning languages (computer and verbal) and usually like to start learning a new one each year. Being fit and healthy only makes learning all the easier (more energy and confidence) so you’re doing yourself a huge favour in…

You have taken the necessary first steps — you can do this. :)

Welcome! And good on you for trying. Feel free to add me as a friend (anyone) if you need more support. :)

Nothing wrong with having a new year resolution. Good on you for getting started. My new year started in June as far as making lifestyle changes are concerned and I’m sticking with it. The best time is always now and now is new year so great timing. :)

That’s pretty much what I meant.

If you have a lot to lose, you’ll likely need to change your workout routines every 2-3 months as your body becomes used to them and requires yet more work — lol. At least, that’s how it’s been for me so far. :)

I’m only a few pounds away. :)

I’m very confused...what’s the alternative to ageing? Did you mean you prefer being older than younger?

You’re still doing great, having not gained anything. I had a lousy month this past month myself and only lost a few pounds but no point in moaning about it...I’ll just need to work harder this month. :)

I’ve sent you a friend request. We all need as much support as we can get on this journey. You’re not alone, believe me. X

I’ve lost 34lbs so far. :)

Sorry, I meant in an *unhealthy relationship. :)

@mnbell2013 well done on recognising that you were in a healthy relationship. You sound as though you have your head screwed on the right way and I have no doubt that you’re going to lose the weight and gain in happiness. :)

You’ve made excellent progress so far, well done! I relate with you on domany levels.

Excellent, well done. :)

Last week when I weighed in (it hasn’t quite been a week yet) I had lost 6lbs from the last weigh in but this week, despite having two days fasting, I’ve gained 3lbs. It has to be water weight so I’m trying not to be too upset. I have a goal of 11lbs so I still have 8lbs to go.