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  • Thanks again all. He is a wonderful person, lovely guy and yes, I was ranting last night because I am just upset that he's not interested and I am. He was always very honest about himself, and yes I chose to ignore what he was saying in very clear terms. I did send an email saying that thay part of our interaction is over…
  • This is an interesting thread. I live in a small country with an almost non existent pool of dateable men. There are many single, successful professional, beautiful women where I live and yes, many of us will enter our forties without any prospects for relationships far less marraige. There was a comment that people become…
  • These reviews were just. the. best. thing. ever. Christian Grey is annoying as hell, damaged does not begin to describe him. Gorgeous but damaged, bad bad combination in real life!
  • Thanks everyone, am glad I posted after all, really appreciate the feedback and am feeling a little less crushed already. :smile:
  • Keratin treatment has been perfect for me. Every 4 months I get it done and I wash and wear every day and I seem to get compliments on my hair every single day. It's also very useful when trying to hit the gym 6 days a week and don't have time for the blow dryer and flat iron, or are just too lazy to "do" the hair like I…
  • We should be called the CARICOM group :laugh: I'm from Trinidad and Tobago and have lived in Jamaica, Barbados, Cayman so very much into this regional integration thing! Thanks for inviting me to the group!
  • Wow, I could have written this!!!
  • I've never done online dating but on MFP I HAVE met someone who is far more interesting and engaging than anyone I have met in a bar or anyone else inmy real life in AGES. MFP is great as well because, at least on my friends list we are like minded people, with some similar beleifs and goals, the fact that one happens to…
  • I am West Indian; Bi-Racial (we say mixed over in these parts!) My Dad is of 100% Scottish Heritage Mum is of 100%Indian Heritage I consider myself 100% Caribbeanese :drinker:
  • I started at size 16-18 (XL tops) and am now a 10 (medium top) with the goal of size 8 (yes medium is good). I tossed everything from size 12 and up TODAY! Well I gave them away. Not planning to get back to that time anytime soon, and by that I mean ever :happy:
  • Outta My Head - Daughtry Good to work out too as well! :drinker:
  • Hmmm well I am 38 and have wanted to pierce them for years! Hesitation has come because it seems thought that the healing process can be tricky, especially if you work out, wear sports bras etc. Having said that, it's still on my to do list!
  • It can sometimes be completely mortifying but "if I bite it I write it". Rececntly I went through 3 months of not eating properly with lots of binges in between; looking at those graphs week by way woke me up! Logging not only makes me accountable, but honest with myself through this process. When I am feeling low because…
  • I don't dwell on it; I chose a path completely different than what people expected of me. There is only one thing I regret, putting career before relationship; but when I consider what would have been had I not gone with my gut (at that time), I'm pretty contented with the choices I've made, mistakes and all. Overall I'm…
  • Yes, I have a serious MFP crush, the good news is he knows and I think he may be crushing back :blushing: The bad news, I am pretty though that I am not the only one checking him out - he's a catch!
  • These are all excellent tips gained through success. Thanks for this!!
  • Sorry to hear about this :( My mother has always told me that I am too ugly and fat for anyone to love, even when I was not fat!! As her daughter I still try to think about her and her feelings and for some reason allow her to continue with it. My mechanism has been to become far more successful than she could have dreamed…
  • Helllooo!! Can't beleive I came onto this topic and it is you!! Tricia and I were talking about our stalls just this morning. I have been on the upswing with weight gain since Carnival and Miami, but FINALLY re-looked at what was happening and had to admit that I was a bit complacent; not moving enough, doing my weights…
  • That's what makes you beautiful - One Direction. I am sooo not their demographic but love that teeny bopper song!
  • Coffee? Yes thank you! Right now I have at home: Blue Mountain coffee - Jamaica Cafe Santo Domingo - Dominican Republic Cafe Azotea - Guatemala Folgers - Black Silk All are bold yet smooth ground coffees, enjoyed black or with milk depending on the day. No need for sugar! This morning, Cafe Santo Domingo :drinker:
  • This topic came at a great time - I have been wanting to post something similar so thanks Mike! I am 38 single, successful in a good career, completely independent, a bit of an old soul and I think it has shaped my dating history. In high school and university I dated my age then from mid twenties onwards I have always…
  • I'm Caribbeanese! Dual citizenship: Trinidad & Tobago and Jamaica Ancestry - Scottish (50%) and Indian (50%)
  • Spinning and heavy weights - love them both so I enjoy the workouts and have had good results so that is pretty perfect excercise I would say!
  • At different stages in life: Demi Moore (in my teens and then again not too long ago) Drew Barrymore (when I was in my 20's) J-LO!!! about 7 years ago BEFORE my weight gain, maybe as I lose the rest will be told that again :) Ricki Lake I get this pretty often these days
  • Hi! I am 5 foot 4" 38 years old, also going to be 39 in July! I have lost 55 pounds and want to lose between 15 and 18 more... Feel free to add me :smile:
  • Am on book 3 only because after all the hype I ordered all 3 on my kindle and I can't ever start anything and not finish as bad as it may be. First one was cheesy but tolerable, funny even. Second one was getting on my nerves; I don't care how hot and damaged that dude is, he is a nightmare and Ana just annoys me…
  • This is true - no bias here at all!! :happy:
  • Love guys with... in this order... 1) Australian (makes me melt) 2) Scottish 3) Posh/ High Class Jamaican (yes it exists!)
  • I thought I was the only one.... !
  • Very imspirational and I like the slow and steady approach you have taken - lifestyle change success... congratulations! :happy:
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