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  • hmm....OP, I'd say hindsight is 20/20..I'm certain i'll overreact in the future as well, so who am I to judge...I will say that, if he had any sense at all, then he will realize he asked for it by making a stupid comment within earshot of other people. If it wasnt him then it was someone who doesnt like him and wanted to…
  • Man the negativity when the young lady is trying to seek God...OP..more power to you! don't exert yourself physically, and remember..."jeremiah 29:13-You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."...I'll be praying for you OP, I believe HE will meet you where you are!
  • Most relationships start the same way...even though most will deny it fervently....".I want someone in my life...I am lonely...I deserve to be happy...I...I...I...and I....." . unfortunately...that's a bad start and almost always ends up in a terrible relationship held together " for the kids sake" ..or divorce.....Been…
  • thanks man! fire's me up to see others reach the goal I have set for myself!..well done!
  • cubed with sliced portabello mushrooms, pan seared in light olive oil. a pinch of oregano and salt!
  • Actually, Headofphat friend, Addiction is a real thing. so is addiction to bitterness and unforgiveness towards someone who you cared about who hurt you because of their addiction. That was me 5 years ago, and i sounded JUST like YOU. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting someone else to die. ....... For the…
  • I pulled out my contract, looked at the clause that allowed me to end it early due to relocation, submitted all of the necessary information to the original location where I signed up, and….got no response. Called and got the runaround, how they lost one of the pieces of paper I’d sent, or the attachment on the email…
  • a little thanksgiving /christmas turkey leftover recipe...i debone whatever turkey is left, toss it in the crockpot with your favorite barbeque sauce, set it on high for about an hour then trim it back to low...add some water to keep the juice slightly loose..total cook time about 2.5 hours and you have some awesome pulled…
  • Yeah, i like the fact that Darwin was double minded and spoke with a forked tongue as well..for instance..for someone who would not acknowledge Gods hand in creation..yet in his 6th edition of origin..he clearly mentions the Creator in this line..."Have we any right to assume that the Creator works by intellectual powers…
  • only shop where people aren't welcome.
  • back in the old days i was 5'11 and 211 pounds and i was Hawt with a capital "H"...now I am NAWT with a capital "N"...BUT....if he is tripping about being 200 pounds and not losing weight..i think maybe he needs to refocus on structure and form and look for the way clothes fit and the way muscles ripple ..and most…
  • how about volunteering at a soup kitchen..or a homeless or battered women's shelter. my biggest issues with my weight (on the other side of the coin from you) and in my life all stemmed from internal focus..i don't intend to sound mean..so if it comes across that way forgive me...but i was all about me..how I felt..what I…
  • Although there are a couple other ways..I will agree that it would be the number one way...potato is my friend! thanks man, now i'm hungry for chili! :)
  • everyone else is busy watching you because they think you see their imperfections.....this is the point where you have a decision to make...stop focusing on others opinions..and start changing your own opinion about yourself. You wont get respect until you respect your own body..trust me..I am living it! I'm a fat guy..but…
  • Praying for you both.
  • my wife loves me much more now that she can sleep at night. I thought I looked like darth vader....but curiously when we watch star wars now she gets overly excited when she hears him breathing...get the cpap..live better. as for someone NOT wanting a cpap..more power to you but i'll keep mine thanks
  • wow...all these counselors and not one certification in their background pictures. I can tell you from experience..broken trust CAN be healed. it takes complete transparency on BOTH sides..and yes..it takes Jesus (I'm certain I'll get feedback from that from those who don't want accountability in their lives). If it fails…
  • Man i concur! with just 45 minutes of cardio in the morning, it adds enough calories that i can do my "not so tasteful" foods in the morning, and save up for the baked chicken and a little somethin' somethin' in the evening and still lose weight and feel full all day...best tip i ever got was eat something between…
  • for what it's worth... First..to those folks who say you are being oversensitive...It's probably because they tend to judge others like your coworker does...Secondly, You are doing what others don't have the courage to step out and do...a lifestyle change isn't a weekend visit..It's full custody of a new life. I applaud…
  • this post encourages me ladies, thanks! i've been signed up for years and played like it was a cute little farmville game...now to quote randy from american idol..i'm "in it to win it"...yeah it's a cheesy saying, but it's the real deal now. so rock on!...weight loss is just like any other addiction recovery...In Celebrate…
  • I'm in bro. I'm just gettin started myself...made 5 attempts and celebrated my weight loss with pizza..bad choices. this time i found the root and am able to cut it out by God's grace. that's why I'm up at 3:45 this morning anticipating the gym! So add me if you want and we can crash the finish line together!
  • staying someplace, then moving into someplace are two different scenarios. you have to think like a kid in her situation. she lost a family unit. and chances are she may think shes partially responsible. visiting prior to moving in, she knew she always could go home..there was a definite end to the visit...now she is in a…
  • We can all assume what's going on, but ultimately, the only one who knows is your BF. my suggestion is pray about it to be revealed and it will be. some men...heck , all men go in their cave to sulk when they get stung for whatever reason. if indeed its an issue of a fight with mom , and he just cares about his mom and…
  • first..i'm guessing the sodium is killing you. not to mention, under 1200 calories is starvation mode. i've been doing this for 3 weeks and i lost 2 inches in my pants width already. try more fresh veggies, egg whites only (15 calories per egg white), and stay with chicken or turkey or fish for your protiens. you would be…
  • i was informed that using a diet coke instead of eggs and all the other trash in a cake mix would rock when you bake it. and it is sweet...might be worth trying?
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