DannyMussels Member

I find it interesting that everyone can get so upset at their criteria, yet seem to think it's alright to call down and judge the men that go to them. You're really just as bad as them. Lots of name calling going around in this thread. As usual. :flowerforyou:

I can't be bothered to be that hardcore. That's why I'll eat a whole egg. An entire can of soup or tuna. It's basic math that way, and if I stick to the immediate 10-20 foods, I don't get too far off my estimated calories.

I'm always amused by threads like these...people getting so worked up defending one extreme or the other. That being said, the 'shirtless guys' and 'celebrity crushes' threads wouldn't be the same if all the guys you women post and drool over were 40lbs…

make us don't want to eat wtf

Liquor in the front, poker in the rear.

I put shovelling and chopping wood as excercise. I figure if it takes you longer than an hour, and you work up a sweat, it counts. Cleaning, laundry, etc doesn't count. I don't care if anyone after me says they count, they don't.

I think it's like everything else in life. If the guys hot and famous, girls like it. If the guys ugly and not, they hate it.

I once spent a few weeks reading this thread: http://www.survivalistboards.com/showthread.php?t=57236 Scary stories from the outdoors, all supposedly true. I'd stay up til like 3am reading a few pages every night. Had a hell of a time gettin to sleep afterwards.

Bodybulding.com has an awesome thread about this http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=652376&page=1 Haven't been on that site for a few months, apparently you gotta be a member now to view pics though. Some home gyms are amazing.

That's how 95% of prostitute ads on craigslist go. Must be some company.

Well, comments like 'letting him get away with it' and 'be a man' , 'protect the boss' etc, directed at me, like i have some sorta obligation aren't really helping the situation. I could do nothing. All I did was wake up, eat my oatmeal and ball outta control, like each and every other day of the year. Just cause I haven't…

I'm gonna workout, have lunch and go in half an hour early (she works in the bar that's attached to our restaurant). And maybe talk to her. From my understanding, our boss isn't (and wont be) in today. Maybe tonight I'll talk to her after work too.

I'm gonna say, that everyone in this thread is RIGHT in their suggestions and input. If this instance happened 1000x over, there's no 100% perfect way to handle it. So thanks for information and advice, regardless of what ends up happening. Also, hopefully this thread can somehow help others in the future, if something…

Ya, there was 2 female bartenders, I don't understand how/when the other one left. Usually at the end we BOTH LEAVE TOGETHER. Male, or female.

Ya, bar closes at 2am, the boss was left in there as she shut everything and did the till. We often give him a ride home. Well, we USED to ............

This actually pretty much covers everything. Even sort of the steps to take, depending on other details. I'm probably gonna either copy/paste this, or email that whole part to her. That's a very clear outline of what has happened, and what could. Thank you, you've helped quite a bit.

Also, it's not beyond me to head there at night to make sure the girls get home ok. I've been asked (coincidently by the boss) to come in on slower nights, and make sure they get home ok. 1 or 2 females mon-wed isn't ever the best idea. I'm gonna discuss that with them further, I'm <5 mins away if there's ever a real…

Well, her and him are talking about it. He asked what happened last night, and she said he didn't wanna nkow, then she filled him in. Doesn't remember a thing, apologized etc. and said he thinks he should lay off the alcohol, which is something I've thought for awhile. I'm not sure what happens next, but so far this seems…

Ya, I realize I don't have to do a thing, but being the one she confided in, i know it's easier for ME to actually do something than her. I'm not in as bad of an emotional state. There's just no right or wrong way to go about this.

Ya, I agree. I'm just wondering if it's worth NOT telling the other staff. If it gets to the other females, it gets to his wife..then it turns into a big problem. Again, the immediate 20 of us all work in the same building, all hangout together, and it'll really be bad. On the otherhand, the girls need to know. She's…

I realize I should do something. But saying 'DO THIS DO THAT, YOURE LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH IT!!!!' etc, really isn't helping me. You're getting more worked up than me. I work in 2.5hrs, and she'll be there. It's only been 7hrs since it happened, so I'm still trying to figure it all out. It's just so WEIRD I'm not doing…

It's true. Then when we hit capacity, they riot outside. Head of security right here.

Thankyou, I will actually get her to do this. (writing it down) It's a great first start. And I agree about the course of action being up to her.

I work in the bar part-time, it's an extra couple hundred bucks every week. It's her main job, so she's in a sticky situation about leaving and probably not finding something that pays half as much. We also have a pharmacist, and one of the nurses that work part-time for us. Some nights they leave with $400-500 bucks.

I think this makes the most sense too. I'm not sure what she's willing to do. Maybe she's talked to someone else, I'm not sure. I don't think there's an absolute right, or wrong way to go about this. For now, I feel like less is more, in case we/she does the wrong thing too soon. It's just so bizarre.

This all makes sense too. I'd hate to be there this afternoon, I have a feeling they'll both be there at some point. It's a large buidling, a restaurant and bar, front desk and hotel, so it's not like they'll be ALONE-alone today. Just enough to make it uncomfortable.

You're super angry. I don't feel like making fun of me, or how I'm dealing with the situation to be very helpful. Go hit the treadmill.

I feel exactly like this. Coincidently enough, the other female bartender also works at the OPP (police) station, and the 3 of us work together tomorrow night. Telling someone else, it's bound to spread throughout work. But her advice might be a little more helpful than anyone elses.

I feel the same way about him as I do our kitchen manager. He's gotten drunk and missed shifts 5-10times this year, and the rest of us are stuck to cover. I've gotten 6am calls cause there's no cook to open the restaurant. I don't understand drinking tons on random days. It makes me wonder if they have some sort of problem…

I was thinking this. Or basically asking if he remembers how his night ended. It's just gonna get even more awkward. I think I need more details from her, before we figure out what we should do/say.