kerrymh Member

Lol I know..that did not come up until the actual date in the middle as I just assumed he has a job ect. He was alittle close mouthed about the details on that. And really its not my business if he just wants a first date...but anywhere else I'm not a taxi service and I want an equal partner.. Anyway I'll try to figure out…

I wear red lipstick when I wear red...other wise my daily routine is powder foundation and concealer..that's it! It helps to work in a job that I'm wearing scrubs and a pony tail and my patients couldn't care less what I look like lol. I do like to make more of an effort going out..but still I'm no MAC make up counter girl…

I used my fat to hid behind for my whole life. It was my excuse for not fixing my personality lol. Here's the thing..overweight people everywhere are dating people..married, have bf/gf, I never did. Why because I was too shy, afraid and didn't know how to be myself. So I used fat to hide and as an excuse. Now I'm not…

I'm from Halifax, not ON but atleast a Canadian :)

kayaking, bowling, rock/wall climbing things like that could work too. Depends on the people. I hate pool but I'll do it and I'm not a golfer but I would mini put for fun.

I would say in the past it held be back more than it does now. I didn't date in HS, and asked a 10th grader to prom because I figured what geeky 10th grader wouldn't say yes lol. I didn't kiss a man until 3rd year university. I didn't know how to talk to men I was so scared of being rejected because of my wt/or just who I…

I just went back to a certain dating site. I'm talking to about 4 people now I'd like to meet and meeting 2 today. But like I said I just went back on last week. This will MAJORLY die down and I'll probably have no one new to chat with next week..already no emails yesterday lol. Its a numbers game sometimes. But I'm…

If didn't have my own job I couldn't very well go seeking someone who's a millionaire. I only seek someone who is basically at an equal position in life. I'm not anyone elses mother. I don't want to be taken care of financially other than if I was a stay at home mother which is a full time job either way. I also don't feel…

I want a relationship..that takes time to get to know someone..and if they are working 60-70 hours a week..and have a life of their own when does that leave quality time to build things. For me no I won't do it. I was a workaholic last year working in sales for a year and I thought really is this worth it? I couldn't take…

I look at a few things related to job/employment: enjoyment, independent or financially responsible, time, Those are important to me..I will most likely not end up with a man who makes more than I do..I'm not rich but I do have a well paying career. I like my job, I have passion for it and I want someone who is equally…

Oh I can so relate. I have some friends, that when I go out with...are constantly hit on. And me nada, zippo not even a smile my way lol. When I was 400lbs I got that..I wasn't going to get hit on and accepted it. Now its like geez what do I have to do. I know I'm still 40lbs heavier than ideal, and that my friend is slim…

I think having the guts to ask is awesome..also having the strengh to accept the answer lol. But really why not just come right out and ask that way you know.

I'd pick #2, that would be not as tom boy as number one but more base ball casual appropreate

lol just block them all and go to your mail settings and weed them out! You can manage it better that way. And be patient..you'll probably get the perverts all the way through as you are young and pretty but from memory they calm down after the first week.

I have a few..but I think they are already spoken for lol.

I'm kind of like this too..I need to know what the kissing chemistry is like and if he's interested..I love a good mini make out session at the end to see if there is something there. If there is not chemistry whats the point?

I think if it was an established relationship..and just a "notice" not a obvious staring at the boob thing..I wouldn't mind since I'm sure I'll "notice" other men. But when its a beginning just starting to date thing..so not cool.

lol

It would be selection normally. Also its a place you know (well you atleast have a better chance) if someone is single and looking. In real life..I can't look at someone and know he's not married, and looking to date someone. Now online you can of course lie but I think the chance is they are single.

This is my fear. I know why I am single because I spent most of my 20's obese. Now that I've fixed that...the assumption that I'm single for a reason is not as obvious as it used to be. Now they might think at first glance that I'm screwed up in some other not so obvious way when I'm really not lol.

Canadian here..we are pretty Americanized with our food though other than a few things. Poutine would have to be a Canadian dish that is Loaded with BAD. Fries with cheese curds and gravy..I used to eat horribly but could still never bring myself to this level..it looks like what your arteries must look like after you eat…

OP you look great. I think these threads are great..so many of us have a hard time receiving compliments now in real life after we've changed out lifestyles..maybe these threads are a light hearted way to deal with it. Also if you don't like them don't join! But we've all worked hard and you all look great!

Really its you who will be doing this so it has to be with in your comfort zone/belief system. Personally I think so long as there is no intimacy..ie sex that you can see as many people as you can handle lol. You are only on date 2 which means maybe you know his last name now..haha you can still talk to other men..he's…

I just don't get it. If I'm really friends with a guy...and I want to sleep with him I think it should be the full meal deal relationship. Otherwise just friends. Meh doesn't work for me.

Exactly they were probably jealous of you :)

You need an account and usually to be there for a week before they let you post.

Yippi!

That is Horrible. I stopped after one question gave me a -10. ugh

Top 3 for myself: Smile, eyes, and collar bones Top 3 in a guy: Smile, Eyes, and arms/shoulders. (voice and butt close behind haha)

Lol not out of my lips. I love shopping and I love my new body even though I know its certainly not perfect. I know how my *kitten* looks in my clothing :) I don't need some one else's reassurance about that. That line..or asking how jeans look ect is fishing for compliments and to me..a compliment that I have to go…