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  • Would I relocate....I would BUT it would like the other people have said have to be for ultimate commitment. I have a life and friends and family here, and a great job with seniority ect that I won't give up just for some guy who's wishy washy. Long Distance..been there did that a few times and really don't enjoy it. I…
  • See I like kissing, and how good our kissing chemistry is really makes a difference in me wanting to see someone again. SO if he kisses me on the first date I see no issue with that if I was giving off the right signals. But be your self, have fun and don't be too stuck on rules. Although I won't sleep with…
  • I'm moving apartments..so busy. and I'm tired already from lifting and moving 4 car loads of little stuff, and about 30 garbage bags up and down 3 flights of stairs..oh the joys of living in a walk up...the new place isn't :) Hoping on Tuesday I can catch the Legally Blond musical opening night..yes that isn't the weekend…
  • I've seen that one its cute...but this one is WAY better lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIM-8DT-F_k
  • DING DING we have a winner..I used my wt as an excuse for years..because I was fearful that deep down something else was wrong in me and that was why I was alone..Well it turns out that is probably right but I still don't know what it is lmao. But I totally can see this.
  • If I could find these in Canada..I would MIFYM for sure
  • Meh, well she seems to have a weird ego/confidence thing going on but not all at the same time. Whatever I'm the fat girl..I didn't grow up with that many guy friends. I think that men and women can be friends even people who aren't ugly lol
  • I have really only had one ex. I defriended him on fb, and blocked him from a few other things but other wise nothing. I left our pictures there..because we dated I had a past. I'm not ashamed of it, I have fond memories of him, I did untag the pictures I guess so that we could look at those pictures more privately. But I…
  • I think of "one that got away" as someone I ended it with who I regret...in that way No I don't have one. I do have thoughts about a guy I was pretty smitten with and we hung out a lot but he put the breaks on before we took the next step. I think of him fondly and wonder what could have been...but I doubt he thinks the…
  • I guess I'm lucky that my parents don't pressure me. I'm also lucky that both my brothers are in long term hopefully the "one" type relationships and that at least one couple will hopefully produce grand babies one day. As for society yes I get it sometimes that..you're a great catch...why are you single..why haven't you…
  • My theory is that who knows where my Mr Right lives....there is no guarantee that he lives in my home town so I have to be open to the possibility to a long distance relationship. But I would not consider moving unless he would also consider it..and we both looked into pro's and cons. I also doubt I would move for JUST a…
  • Anorexia/Bulimia/Overeating...might not look like the same disease but in many ways they are...its about using control over food or lack there of to try and solve problems and cope with life in unhealthy ways. I do not tend to comment on peoples food diaries...because I do not want to encourage behavior that is not…
  • While I would not pay to snuggle...I really understand the power of touch and kindness. I know what I miss the most about being single besides sex lol is all of the affection that just happens from a hand on my back or arm or hugs I love hugs. I think I probably start hugging my patients more when I've been dateless for…
  • I joined to lose the wt...lol but I'm still chubby even after losing a person (these last lbs suck). Still can't find a man. Real chubby chasers think I'm not chubby enough..and guys who like fit chicks think I'm too chubby :( Ugh
  • I am a switch as I haven't met my Dom. But I know in my heart that I'm a sub in the bedroom....just waiting to find a match:)
  • Sub, but not the full on life style :)
  • I would totally be ok with being approached at the gym..you both know you have wanting to stay healthy in common thats a great start :) And I agree its easy enough to avoid someone if it doesn't work out. As for the OP..I think he's just friendly..and giving a friend vibe, if its been going on for months well he's had…
  • Puts up with me, puts me in my place when I need it. great kisser, Animal lover, Passionate. Great huger. out there somewhere please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • put down the food, now! And go live life :) Also...don't be so scared of men lol
  • Lol perhaps you're right..the last guy I knew was interested in me was a 60 yo cab driver who drove me and my friend home after a night out..Not ONE man hit on me at the bar...or even smiled at me that I noticed but a man old enough to be my dad, with half his teeth missing was all over me..I guess I can't complain and…
  • Yippi I qualify. (health care..secure, geeky job :) Most guys I've talked to don't seem to be all that interested in what I do more or less that I'm not about to ask them to pay my bills...I think men just want the woman to be stable enough to take care of herself...and not mooch off them. Its women that are picker in…
  • Its funny..I might not be so insecure about it all if I actually got hit on/asked out/looked at.....but lack of male interest leads me to think I should be insecure about something lol.
  • I tried it..he flaked.. I think I could do it if it was a solid on going thing..but if its just a bunch of random one night stands that I don't want. I am just going to leave it alone for now. I know what I want in a fwb and I know what I want in a relationship they are different. Can't seem to find either. lol.
  • I would have no problem being receptive..I just think I would be shocked. Its certainly not the culture of men here to offer to do things for me. My friends seem to have married a few men that are very much like that but they were snagged ages ago. The ones left over...are not the ones offering to help out or be a guy who…
  • I briefly dated a guy who is most likely asexual. I at first thought he was just shy, and then being a gentleman..but really in the end he admitted to only having had sex once before..and had said he could wait awhile...wasn't in a rush ect. Didn't seem to have a strong desire for sex..he was affectionate..but not overly…
  • I would have no problem cooking for a man in my life..now if he expected that every day and that dinner be on the table at the same time every night..WELL then grow up and realize that we are in 2013 where I have a job that I work hard at every day and when I get home (which is not always the same time). I think couples…
  • nice some how that doesn't seem to be in my future.....Maybe I should go grab on to the 80 old who said I was cute and looked 26 hehe ...maybe I can convince him I'm really in my 20's after all and he'll propose
  • Haha I'm not..I'm age appropriated.. But I was told by someone just yesterday I could pass for 26 hehe...I told him I loved him but he was alittle too old for me...by about 60 years....you have to love 80 year old vision. Men will always look at 20 yo's. that is just human nature. Just hope they see what us 30 somethings…
  • Ok People...most of you are not average....you`re pretty hot for the most part..have some self esteem (or get rid of the modesty).. Now me..average body (or below..yes)..lol Face nope I`m not average. And I`m proud. lol
  • I don't think I've ever put that in my profile other than kind of discribing that I'd like a man who is active and would challenge and encourage me to try new things and keep up with him physically... But as for personality wise..nope I want dating to be easy, simple...someone who we make each other laugh, on a similar…
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