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I feel #1..I want to travel..but traveling alone sucks. And for me its more that all my married friends have kids..and I want kids, and marriage so I'm just looking at the sidelines at multiple versions of the life I want but can't seem to have its sad.
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LMAO the sad thing is I don't think what he really wants seems that far off.
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I know that if I'm physically attracted to someone based on appearance only but he's just got nothing to say or he has too much to say and isn't interested in learning about me..I won't fall for him. Date 1 and that's it. I have dated someone I barely found attractive and continued to date him because we had things in…
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This is me...in a way. The men I've been closest too have had some kind of physical handicap. I think I could relate to being physically disabled because I was so obese and I have a caregiver attitude because of my job. Problem is I want to have someone to take care of ME...(not be the mother in the relationship)..so no…
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OK I'm really sick of this fake boob thing you have going on...if all women were meant to have "perfect" boobs we'd be born with them. geez..to me it tells alot about someone when he finds something essentially fake attractive.
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haven't been running all summer..and skipped a 5k race last night..But I went for 3k around my neighbourhood this morning..it felt great! I'm back baby.
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no idea how to post pictures on here..but I was 390 and now 210-215 and maintaining for about 2 years. Check out my profile pics K
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I remember that episode and she deserves what ever she gets. She is dellusional. If she is basing her romance ONLY on looks she will be continually dissapointed. THat is not to say she can't be with someone she is attracted to physically but she has to smarten up and see beyond the outside...because these jerks she's going…
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I think it depends on who you are messaging. If you are only messaging the top 10 percent of women who get tuns of emails you will have less response. The men that I don't respond to either have no pictures, or appear to be completely incompatable (ie 46 with 3 kids and dont' want any more..or 25 and party kids). Or that I…
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Don't invest, keep it light and fun, build a friendship if you want. But see other people!!!!!!!!! That will help. Chemistry online is completely different than in person. People can lie all they want behind a screen...they are safe. In real life all the truth comes out eventually. Also skype so you actually know the truth…
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I think its because they lack self respect...so they have to put down others to make themselves feel like the bigger better person. It's sad. And mostly I agree I feel badly about that man's son. I hope the women in his life become strong and teach him how to have self respect and respect others.
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I like the original post DM Although I don't think I've had more than one date that was like that..perhaps that's why so many first and no seconds. ON the hot topic of kissing. I think the best dates do end in a kiss..or some kissing :) I want to know that the man is interested/attracted enough to make that move. I do give…
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I think it would depend on if he put himself in the friendzone or if I did. What I mean is ..is he a friend because he never showed romantic interest in me? And we get along and I just assume that like most other men in my life he's not interested....so even though I have a small crush he just is a friend. In that case…
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OMG I can sooo relate to that!
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Um wow, he sounds very attractive.. I know what you mean about ovulating..lol and feeling amorous. Have a blast tonight..and I love Boys too!
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I have in my POF profile that I can't see myself in a long term relationship with a non dog lover. I don't have one right now only because I don't have a proper space but my 2 year plan involves being a dog owner and I need that love of canines in a partner. deal breaker!
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I don't think I want security..ie someone to take care of me financially, but I do want a man who is an equal (financially responsible...) because I don't want to be his security. (just told a man who I made 3 times his salary who was 32 yo and still lived as a teenager that it wouldn't work...he didn't take it well) I…
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Tonight, bachlorette with a boat cruise :) Tomorrow- baby shower, getting getting tire put back on my car and then to parents out to dinner seeing a blues guy play Sunday drive back home, might have a date. (so many first meetings...not many second) good on OP for date #5!
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I like Patty, but she's not perfect. I do agree with the last part that you added on. But I have never had a man order my meal for me. I don't think I would mind if he did order for me so long as it was discussed first (ie if a man just ordered with out consulting I would get up and leave). That being said if a man decided…
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Hate it! right now I think its whats holding me back because I'm eating out too much. I hate meal prep for just me.
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Really I don't think it matters, so long as when someone is with me..they are ONLY with me. And vice versa. Its no ones business but your own and the only person who has the right to judge me is me. I know why I have the number I have and I am at peace with it, and that is all that really matters.
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That's great! crossing fingers that things keep being great and get even better.
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Right now I just tell people I'm dating in general. I won't mention anyone in particular until it makes it past some road blocks. I have in the past told my friends about some people and been influenced by them to keep things going and ignored my own instincts to end it. My friends love me and want the best and are sick of…
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Haha if you want I could email him and ask why he posted them as his interests. could be a funny answer.
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Depends on the size of your dating pool In my city (about 300,000) all of the same people who are online dating are on all of the websites. So why would I pay money on Match when the same person is on match, lava and pof. Why not just use the free site? I would change my strategy if I lived in Montreal or Toronto, or…
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I get a fair amount of attention from the 50-55 crowd and I don't like it. I want someone at a similar life stage as me, wants to settle but not already there. Wants a family but not already been there done that. I'm hesitant to go too much younger than but but ideally I like the 29 to 40 age range. If a 45 yo man came…
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Lol I think since 50 shades more are coming out ..I just got favorited by a guy into "skinny dipping and BDSM" last night...I think the only reason he couldn't write me was because of his drug use status...set as "often" oh yippi my prince charming lmao. I did have a few as if I would be a dom years ago when I was on…
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You know what I don't want Hollywood love. But I want something..some compatibility. Right now all I get are offers for sex. How can I settle when the only men that I encounter want nothing more from me than what is between my legs. I can't settle for that because they don't want any kind of settling and would run a mile…
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That is very sweet, I honestly wouldn't know what to do if a man offered to help out like that. And That movie was AWESOME!
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Oh I have been there...so been there. I would love to have some random group of people take a variety of my pictures (which I have on my POF profile) and match me up with a perceived equally attractive male...I would like to know what society thinks is my equal. I have an idea..and I know its not the average guy who emails…
