DeeJayTJ Member

at the end, it asks if it helped you start your fitness journey.

i like both! but i have a cat! i unfortunately dont have enough time to dedicate to a dog. dogs are very needy.

i think its the people that have told us these mean words that are the ugly ones. i also think it all has to do with how you carry yourself though too.. i mean i could look like a slob all day and no on will find me attractive that's for sure. or i can care about my appearance and im sure people will notice.

seems that way... im not implying that i wish i was married and had kids or something, no not at all i feel like im too young for that. im just sayin ive had some bad luck with relationships for a while.. usually women that have no idea what they want and like the idea of having a bf rather than knowing who i actually am!

to see if those mean words helped you start your fitness journey.. its at the very bottom of the topic.

again, i am really surprised at all the responses! i was expecting this thread to die early! most of you say how you have been told you were ugly or whatever yet you have husbands and wives.. im 27 and not married... i think im single for life! but i dont think something is wrong with me... im just sayin.. some of you guys…

wow! i can kinda relate, the girl that told me i wasnt good looking has really let herself go.

me either :)!!

okay so let me ask you this.... all the bad bully like comments... are they any part of why you all are working so hard to get in shape or stay in shape ? if you say its purely for your self.. well.. sure.. but i know that if people constantly told me i was fat or something... yeah id have that much more on me to get in…

hah i know how u feel when it comes to the depends on how i wear blah blah blah part at work i dont dress up very much, i wear my glasses, i dont fix my hair, i dont wear my fashionable clothes... when i work the clubs or go out i dress up! fix my hair, wear my contacts.. feel like a million bucks!

@horrorchix89 - im sorry but that is the worst response ive ever heard. you are far from ugly! i hope you do not have that mindset that you are because you would be completely wrong!

id be cool with it.. i mean if shes got enough guts to write a note like a 2nd grader rather than keeping quiet and not saying anything at all, shes definitely interesting! SO many people keep quiet about who they are interested, and the whole time they think "noo, he wont be interested in me" or other insecurities and…

a 6 before i lost the weight. hopefully atleast a 7 now lol i get hit on a lot these days, and some women are VERY direct.... but im no *kitten* so i dont give in.

Anymore??

im from Houston, Texas!

i currently dont have an mfp bestie.... haha

lol i work in the club scene, it is hard. there is not an alcoholic beverage that will be okay to drink. u could do vodka water which was already suggested.. or just stay with shots....hard stuff though..

darn, guess im dead..the iphone is the closest to me at my left. next is the stapler :(

i watch as people do their weights or workouts wrong and wish i could help them. but i dont creeper stare..sure i notice all the hot girls in the place lol ive had creepy people stare at me before and it makes me un easy, or noticed someone watching me jog but whatever. maybe i inspire them for all i know.

drink about a gallon a day and work out, you might then think twice about eating unless it is good food that benefits you :-)!

WOW! HOT!

that is VERY true so many women refuse to lift weights because they think they will get huge. what they dont realize is they will just look GREAT without flabby stuff.

by day i work for a bank in the IT department. my title is Technical Analyst...... on the weekends im party rockin the clubs

i consider myself a runner! i run 5-6 miles a day, 2.5-3miles in the morning and then again in the evening. i run 10 minute miles though so im slow considering what most "runners" run.. thats hwo i lost about 50-60 lbs was from running 3 miles a day and eating less than 2000 calories a day.

well that sux, but the energy i get from my meals i feel helps me in the gym. i do 25 minutes of cardio in the morning and 25 minutes of cardio in the evening and inbetween all that about an hour and a half of weight lifting.

i understand the facebook thing because its more like a place to keep in touch with friends and family. i use facebook for promotional purposes though i dont spam everyone with invites to clubs or anything.

i accept all friend requests i dont discriminate against anyone :) as for women that say "no guys" - your obviously trouble so why would i want to friend you anyway...

it depends on what you eat, dont eat anything that isnt beneficial such as candy, or drink sodas, the same thing u stay away from now... if i wake up in the middle of the night and feel like snaking i will, i eat just about every 2 hours to keep my metabolism on fire.

im 27 :( ugh! wish i was not 3 years away from 30.... looking to lose body fat!

its a two way street. the things guys say to you, im sure some women say to guys. now that im in shape and all that, i get a lot more attention, women are very to the point.....