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Does she do anything malicious to incite this anger? I've had those kinds of neighbors, but I would just laugh off their peacocking with other neighbors/spouse.

Oh, and TOM generally equates to other forms of intimacy, if you catch my drift.

He has two boys that we have every other week. We don't have sex, literally, every day -- although majority of the weeks we do -- there are definitely times when we fight or TOM, but it all averages out to be about once per day. He definitely wants it more than I do 90% of the time, but I still do it for his sake.

I like when I'm recognized at a restaurant/store/whatever. (example: at Port of Subs yesterday the owner comes out to finish my sammich and says "Hey, long time no see! Been busy?" That makes my day, for whatever reason.

I confess I rather him just do all the work and let me lay there while trying to sleep.

Froyo.

This should suffice

Yes!^

Drooling.

Those Suddenly Salad dishes are the worse (any pasta variation really). I made 4 boxes for a Father's Day BBQ, and maybe like 1-2 boxes were consumed...well, needless to say, I devoured the rest in two days. I felt like a pig eating straight out of the huge tupperware it was in, but it was ohhhh so delicious!

I like spa days, which include facials, massages, soaking in a hot spring, etc. I like this particular reward because as much as it is relaxing and awesome, you're still subjected to face those fears/insecurities of being felt all over by a stranger, sitting in a spring in a bathing suit with strangers, etc....so it really…

When I first started losing, I bought a case of the stuff because, like you, it satiated my cravings and/or hunger. I still drink quite a bit now because it doesn't make you gain weight and it's not any worse than the air you breathe, as for your health. Whatever works for you, do!

TOTES! And girl talk/secrets with friends....those things are the exceptions.

Oh my goodness, sex never changed in my relationship:dizzy: . I swear, I think my hubby keeps tabs on what I "owe him" for putting a ring on it or something. :# Sorry for the TMI, but it's at least once a day.

Here's my rule of thumb: if it's something I can't show/tell my husband (i.e. show him the convos with that person/s, etc.) about, then I shouldn't be doing it.

Nope. This was particularly directed for UNHAPPILY married individuals, remember (the negatives)? haha

I think her "liking being fat" is just her way of trying to fool herself. Admitting that she doesn't like it would be admitting that she has a problem that needs to be fixed. I think she doesn't want to admit that she has a problem because she's just too lazy to fix it.

haha now that's pretty funny and appreciated as I work with numbers/math all day long.

I confess that when I get something lettuce wrapped, I immediately regret that decision upon eating, as eating through 6 inches of bland lettuce to get to the good part is not worth the calories saved from flatbread.

That makes sense and I understand communicating with people of similar interests/predicaments. As another mentioned, I do agree that it can become a slippery slope, if the person you share that predicament with is of the opposite sex (or the sex you're attracted/married to).

So, you mean an unhappily married person on the hunt typically looks for another unhappily married individual?

My point was, if you're unhappy and looking for attention/conversation...one would think you'd subject yourself in a thread that has singles (if you're after a new catch), not subject yourself to a majority that is married and presumably happy, as this thread is intended for married chit-chatters which inadvertently…

I'm pretty *kitten*' happy, I just want to send the step-kids to boarding school.

What's pretty ironic (although I'm not judging individuals) is that unhappily married people would come to this thread; like if you're unhappy in your marriage, wouldn't you lurk the singles thread?

OoOooo can I tell them! I love to be the bearer of bad (funny) news!

Too philosophical...

Thanks for sharing, Red. You're a good man for still giving her a chance.

Ooooo, I can change my name to Bacon_N_Buns...has a nice ring to it.